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Title: So my girlfriend cheated on me...
Post by: j3di3 on March 29, 2012, 01:12:44 AM
we lived together for 4 years, i payed for her and gave her all she wanted, took her to vacations, she was my only friend and i loved her dearly.
honestly i guess i was getting tired of the whole thing and afraid to admit to myself, several times we faught and i threatened to leave.
now i found out she cheated on me coz "she felt she was temporary for me and i didnt love her anymore".

/beta male, out
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: buresu on March 29, 2012, 01:13:43 AM
she needs to be anal raped
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: Spidey on March 29, 2012, 01:16:01 AM
women always have an excuse for cheating and they say it's always the men's fault. fucking bitches!
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: j3di3 on March 29, 2012, 01:16:51 AM
she has entirely made me believe it is my fault
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: True on March 29, 2012, 01:17:01 AM
All girls are scum. Fuck em and leave em.



True approved.
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: nzmusclemonster on March 29, 2012, 01:18:02 AM
You came to the right place.

BayGBM will bum you into gayness.

No more women troubles for you.
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: polychronopolous on March 29, 2012, 01:18:40 AM
we lived together for 4 years, i payed for her and gave her all she wanted, took her to vacations, she was my only friend and i loved her dearly.
honestly i guess i was getting tired of the whole thing and afraid to admit to myself, several times we faught and i threatened to leave.
now i found out she cheated on me coz "she felt she was temporary for me and i didnt love her anymore".

/beta male, out

Maybe the fact that you are a delusional dummy who can't spell above a third grade level?

I know I would lose a little respect for a woman who was incapable of spelling a word as simple as "fought"
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: j3di3 on March 29, 2012, 01:22:41 AM
i came to get big for the brutal truth.

funny thing is she cheated on someone with me when we just got together, for similiar reasons
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: polychronopolous on March 29, 2012, 01:24:13 AM
i came to get big for the brutal truth.

funny thing is she cheated on someone with me when we just got together, for similiar reasons

we lived together for 4 years, i payed for her and gave her all she wanted, took her to vacations, she was my only friend and i loved her dearly.
honestly i guess i was getting tired of the whole thing and afraid to admit to myself, several times we faught and i threatened to leave.
now i found out she cheated on me coz "she felt she was temporary for me and i didnt love her anymore".

/beta male, out

In your own words.... "I took her to vacations".....

Maybe she was looking for a male who could actually complete a simple sentence without sounding like a complete jerkoff as well?

Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: sync pulse on March 29, 2012, 01:24:40 AM
English is probably not his native language...I am only monolingual,..this guy is much more clever with languages than I am...
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: j3di3 on March 29, 2012, 01:26:02 AM
haha, i know it sounds funny seeing what i typed here, sounds like something ud see on dr phil
but for the first 3 years i was poor, only for the last year i have a decent job. i guess a vacation doesnt mean shit, but still it was fun.
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: j3di3 on March 29, 2012, 01:27:06 AM
yeah dude, im not from an english speaking country. i guess i should install a spellchecker though :)
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: Cleanest Natural on March 29, 2012, 02:11:54 AM
Well .. it's up to you now. Either accept it and move on (chances are she-ll cheat on you more and more) or cut everything off and move on.
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: Frank Clairmonte on March 29, 2012, 02:16:37 AM
time to start puting d-bol and anadrol into her food and drinks  :-* MUTATE HER INTO MALE!
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: Super Natural on March 29, 2012, 02:19:05 AM
it's sounds like you believe women have all the power..
No man who believes women have all the power will EVER, EVER be attractive
to any of them.

No matter what you think...She lost her attraction for you because you lost your personal power. Other wise she would not have cheated.  

Invariably, every guy who thinks women have all the power is NOT
succeeding with them.

Self-deprecation  ::) by calling yourself "Beta Male" (even if said sarcastically) do you really think that
continuing to believe that way is ever going to START working in
your favor???
Truly, any man who wants to succeed with women (as in EVER) has got
to take his power back.  It's the very nature of what drives sexual
attraction.

There's really no other option when you think about it.
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: Spidey on March 29, 2012, 02:19:39 AM
Fuck her. move on. I could never forgive a girl who cheated on me. sometimes i have a fight with my girlfriend and the next day she's all smiley and shit and i look at her face and think "crazy b**ch did you just forget we fought yesterday?". if she cheated on my i would just leave no name calling or anything it's not in my nature but just leave.
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: gh15 on March 29, 2012, 02:27:39 AM
a female is never a male...they dont think with their pussy ,, IF a girl cheatd on you that menas she is a whore,, but then again you knew it ...you spend moneyon her lol who in their right mind spend moneyon woman? you make them spend on you you fucking retard,, after being in my university for 7 years this is what you bring ?

a girl never cheat ! ! ! the ones who do which mainly are americano whores with you jknow the all step dady made me suck his cock when i was 14 when my mom went to tke care of my granma...you know those americano whores...those ones are never to be with ...you only fuck

you actualy took her to vacations? lol  i dont knwo what to say im realy dont knwo what to say here ,,

YOU ARE BODYBUILDER,, YOU ARE THE ATTENTION SEEKER WHORE IN THE RELASHIOSHIP SHE IS ONLY A SIDE KICK IF SHE LOVE YOU SHE WILL DOWHATEVER IT TAKES TO BE WITH YOU ,, and NEVER EVER NEVER EVER CHEAT ON YOU

a girl who cheat already had many cocks before that im talking here good 30-40 cocks at least,, this is not because of attention ...cheating takes effort...it does...because the male who come to her....he put out he is intrested but SHE NEED TO PUT IT BACK OUT...and yes americana whores are that easy but...forget about it your posting piss me off,, generation nothingness no need to elaborate anymore

gh15 approved
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: L00n on March 29, 2012, 03:22:07 AM
and gave her all she wanted,

impossible.
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: Domthemilky on March 29, 2012, 03:47:33 AM
i sympathise with you man, just split up with my girlfriend a few weeks ago of 3 years. just cut off all contact. Also get on the hormonas and soon you won't care, thats what im going to do  ;D.

Also remember she will probably get over it WAY quicker than you will but you will probably come to a point especially if you hear she has been with someone else where you think fuck it and stop caring.

it's sounds like you believe women have all the power..
No man who believes women have all the power will EVER, EVER be attractive
to any of them.

No matter what you think...She lost her attraction for you because you lost your personal power. Other wise she would not have cheated. 

Invariably, every guy who thinks women have all the power is NOT
succeeding with them.

Self-deprecation  ::) by calling yourself "Beta Male" (even if said sarcastically) do you really think that
continuing to believe that way is ever going to START working in
your favor???
Truly, any man who wants to succeed with women (as in EVER) has got
to take his power back.  It's the very nature of what drives sexual
attraction.

There's really no other option when you think about it.


totally agree with this, probably where I went wrong. started thinking low of myself and not doing alot and it makes girls not appreciate you.
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: Marlo Stanfield on March 29, 2012, 03:48:08 AM
we lived together for 4 years, i payed for her and gave her all she wanted, took her to vacations, she was my only friend and i loved her dearly.
honestly i guess i was getting tired of the whole thing and afraid to admit to myself, several times we faught and i threatened to leave.
now i found out she cheated on me coz "she felt she was temporary for me and i didnt love her anymore".

/beta male, out

Sux dude, you'll get over it... dont spoil bitches just for the sake of it...dont "take them to vacations" just because you can...let them earn it... you gotta show them that YOUR the prize in the relationship, and not her
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: mik1111 on March 29, 2012, 03:49:07 AM
it's amazing how you are still considering forgiving her behavior.

she who has cheated shall cheat again!
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: robingraves on March 29, 2012, 03:49:28 AM
Welcome to the NFL, Rookie
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: Domthemilky on March 29, 2012, 03:50:24 AM
And the problem is forgiving does not fucking work. i went through that shit. you just have trust issues at the end of the day and always ni the back of ur mind you will wonder if she will do it again and it makes u question urself, just all bullshit . so just end it and move on as quickly as possible. Summer is coming up anyway so you got a good chance tog et in great shape and work hard and then enjoy the ladies  :)
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: Domthemilky on March 29, 2012, 03:51:40 AM
it's amazing how you are still considering forgiving her behavior.

she who has cheated shall cheat again!

It's difficuklt when u got strong feelings for someone but u have to use rational thinking not emotional thinking, rationally its retarded to forgive a woman who does such a thing even if you feel like you should forgive her.
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: Stark on March 29, 2012, 04:04:03 AM
Sorry to be cruel but your this threads titel says it all....

so my girlfriend cheated on me


Accurate would have been

so my girlfriend is cheating on me

Its not just going to stop this time, you can expect her to cheat on you again, once you let them get away with it once its bye bye man card and helloooo pink hello kitty panties for you.

I say ditch the bitch today.

And don't buy into the whole emotional black mailing bullshit - You don't love me enough - fuck you you stupid cunt there is no excuse for cheating, its not an accident, it doesn't just happen - its the end and should be the end to your relationship.

Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: biff on March 29, 2012, 04:37:44 AM
i came to get big for the brutal truth.

funny thing is she cheated on someone with me when we just got together, for similiar reasons

so she's a cheater. why are you surprised now? this is how she 'breaks up'.

years ago the same thing happened to a friend of mine, he had met a girl why she was seeing someone else, he knew it, hung out a few times, banged her, then she dumped the old boyfriend. few years later he catches her on the phone, finds out she has been hanging out with some other guy, etc etc. he says "i never thought she was the type to do this!"
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: da_vinci on March 29, 2012, 04:38:13 AM
Only, ONLY situation where you should consider forgiving a cheating for a gf, is if you'd know that it was because of you taking "alpha male" thing too far (not on purpose.. but by just being an asshole and generally - not caring much about her needs, etc, etc.. And you will KNOW it without her saying a thing or trying to make up an excuse.) and if you'd know that it's for sure at least partially your fault. Oh, and if she'd be devastated almost to the same extent as you are, after the fact.
 But it sounds like you've been the "good guy" and did the things "right", so forgivness is OUT OF THE QUESTION in this one, don't even think about that. She deserves to be shot tbh, but just cut her loose.
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: Red Hook on March 29, 2012, 04:41:15 AM
post up some pics of her so that we can fully comprehend the situation,  and also give you the proper course of action.
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: da_vinci on March 29, 2012, 04:48:23 AM
post up some pics of her so that we can fully comprehend the situation,  and also give you the proper course of action.

Ditto. Some noodz would be a good revenge. GB community would appreciate that too.
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: steamboatwillie on March 29, 2012, 05:13:15 AM
Sounds like you don't have a shred if self-respect so you may as well get used to it.  Bottom line is that you are the problem and until you learn how to be a man with his head held high....this is what you have to look forward to.
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: Krankenstein on March 29, 2012, 05:40:42 AM
we lived together for 4 years, i payed for her and gave her all she wanted, took her to vacations, she was my only friend and i loved her dearly.
honestly i guess i was getting tired of the whole thing and afraid to admit to myself, several times we faught and i threatened to leave.
now i found out she cheated on me coz "she felt she was temporary for me and i didnt love her anymore".

/beta male, out

Mail order gf?  Call the company and ask for refund
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: Thoth on March 29, 2012, 05:43:42 AM
You said she made you feel as if it was YOUR fault???  Of course, lol.  That's how they deny guilt and don't fess up to what they've done.  They know they're wrong when they say that shit.

Listen, if you want to see if this chick is truly sorry and really...really really really wants to be with you then there's only one thing that must be done.  This will also show her your no schmoe.  Tell her you want the same thing.  Tell her you must get a threesome with her and some other chick, but x2.  That's right, TWICE, with two different chicks, two different occasions.  If she does not agree to this, then dump her, she's not sorry.  Eye for an eye when it comes to this type of shit my friend.  Don't ever forget, we may be men, but you must be better than that.  Be a Wolf among sheep.  

If you really want to be with this chick, do what I said above.  Show her there will be consequences for fucking you over.  You don't have to beat her or whip her ass or anything like that.  But, she must know, in the future, if she decides to stay, if she does wrong, she will suffer consequences.  Two threesomes, with two different girls is a good consequence to start.

Now, after that, dont' ever bring up the cheating again.  If she thinks this is drowning you in misery, she'll stomp all over your balls again.  Show it doesn't mean shit to you because you can leave anytime and replace her.  Trust me, that's what she thinks of you.  Flip the tables on her.  Show her your love and emotions is not to be fucked with.

Now worst case scenario.  If she doesn't agree to it, walk away.  Yeah, it will be the hardest thing you've ever had to do.  It will make you wallow in your on misery for a few weeks, but this my friend is GOOD.  It will make you stronger the next time around and make you choose better or at least know how to handle women better in the future.  You must never become bitter.  Become stronger.  There's to many women out there that WANT you to show them YOUR boss.  If they start thinking THEY'RE boss, you've lost.  So if you have to dump this chick, just sweet out the pain.  But the worst thing of all that can happen, is you do NOTHING.  If nothing is done, and you stay, your asking to dip your dick in sloppy seconds all the time while she lives off of you.  That my friend is the truth.  Women are master manipulators.  You've got to be a master manipulator yourself if you ever want to win at this game.  I'm sorry, that's the way it is.  
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: Spidey on March 29, 2012, 05:49:14 AM
You said she made you feel as if it was YOUR fault???  Of course, lol.  That's how they deny guilt and don't fess up to what they've done.  They know they're wrong when they say that shit.

Listen, if you want to see if this chick is truly sorry and really...really really really wants to be with you then there's only one thing that must be done.  This will also show her your no schmoe.  Tell her you want the same thing.  Tell her you must get a threesome with her and some other chick, but x2.  That's right, TWICE, with two different chicks, two different occasions.  If she does not agree to this, then dump her, she's not sorry.  Eye for an eye when it comes to this type of shit my friend.  Don't ever forget, we may be men, but you must be better than that.  Be a Wolf among sheep.  
 

I like this ^^^^
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: dj181 on March 29, 2012, 05:56:45 AM
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: Radical Plato on March 29, 2012, 05:58:39 AM
we lived together for 4 years, i payed for her and gave her all she wantedha ha sucker  , took her to vacations, she was my only friend HA HA Loner  and i loved her dearly. HA HA Pussy Whipped
honestly i guess i was getting tired of the whole thing and afraid to admit to myself, several times we faught and i threatened to leave.
now i found out she cheated on me coz "she felt she was temporary for me and i didnt love her anymore".HA HA he bought her bullshit!
/beta male, out Confirmed!
Whats your exact location!
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: da_vinci on March 29, 2012, 05:59:20 AM
Yeah. Very good advice ^^

When a gf cheated on me (and I was guilty for that to a big extent... Let's say I was a "Boss of the bosses" and took it way too far, hah...) she was ready to agree with literally ANYTHING I could've offered as a "make up for it", anything, threesome, three diff. bitches, hell I could've asked her to talk one of her girl friends to have sex with me and I know she would've tried just to please me and show how sorry is she.. That's when you know a person does really regret.
 It hasn't worked out, as I couldn't accept the fact anyway, after some time, but there ARE situations where it's worth considering forgiveness. Tho' not in this case I think. Fella was a pussy to begin with, that's a no go.
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: gracie bjj on March 29, 2012, 06:35:04 AM
most broads are created evil, theres afew cool ones in the mix but not many. they are just born with an evil disposition. the longer your with them the more the evil comes out and manifests its self
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: Nirvana on March 29, 2012, 06:47:40 AM
gold digger.

yuns need to learn to read eyes and be able to tell by looking if a girl is a whore.  eyes are the windows to the soul and they will tell you a lot more than her lying mouth will.

it's just like buying a dog, you have to look at the eyes to see how intelligent it is. 
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: theheman on March 29, 2012, 07:36:06 AM
a female is never a male...they dont think with their pussy ,, IF a girl cheatd on you that menas she is a whore,, but then again you knew it ...you spend moneyon her lol who in their right mind spend moneyon woman? you make them spend on you you fucking retard,, after being in my university for 7 years this is what you bring ?

a girl never cheat ! ! ! the ones who do which mainly are americano whores with you jknow the all step dady made me suck his cock when i was 14 when my mom went to tke care of my granma...you know those americano whores...those ones are never to be with ...you only fuck

you actualy took her to vacations? lol  i dont knwo what to say im realy dont knwo what to say here ,,

YOU ARE BODYBUILDER,, YOU ARE THE ATTENTION SEEKER WHORE IN THE RELASHIOSHIP SHE IS ONLY A SIDE KICK IF SHE LOVE YOU SHE WILL DOWHATEVER IT TAKES TO BE WITH YOU ,, and NEVER EVER NEVER EVER CHEAT ON YOU

a girl who cheat already had many cocks before that im talking here good 30-40 cocks at least,, this is not because of attention ...cheating takes effort...it does...because the male who come to her....he put out he is intrested but SHE NEED TO PUT IT BACK OUT...and yes americana whores are that easy but...forget about it your posting piss me off,, generation nothingness no need to elaborate anymore

gh15 approved

I love gh15's posts about women and relationships.  He makes it sound it's peice of cake to get these "american whores".  I've found that when some guys have found the approach to getting them it's automatic for them to get peice of ass from women. 
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: MP on March 29, 2012, 07:37:41 AM
Blah, blah, blah.

Go to the gym.
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: 202-Freak on March 29, 2012, 11:24:35 AM
we lived together for 4 years, i payed for her and gave her all she wanted, took her to vacations, she was my only friend and i loved her dearly.
honestly i guess i was getting tired of the whole thing and afraid to admit to myself, several times we faught and i threatened to leave.
now i found out she cheated on me coz "she felt she was temporary for me and i didnt love her anymore".

/beta male, out

Describe what your sex life was like with her, and how it changed (if at all) over the course of your relationship. More often than not, there's a problem on the sexual side of the equation when a woman cheats like that.
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: Schmoff on March 29, 2012, 11:28:09 AM
we lived together for 4 years, i payed for her and gave her all she wanted, took her to vacations, she was my only friend and i loved her dearly.
honestly i guess i was getting tired of the whole thing and afraid to admit to myself, several times we faught and i threatened to leave.
now i found out she cheated on me coz "she felt she was temporary for me and i didnt love her anymore".

/beta male, out

you sir are the problem

Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: oliveiraugo on March 29, 2012, 11:51:04 AM
1- Buy more Gear
2- Get bigger and leaner
3- Date girls better than her
4- Let her know
5- After she calls you begging for your cock, screw her, and say bye bye.

Thats your turnover.

NEVER, NEVER, give second chances to someone who cheated you, no matter what.

Do you want this girl to be the mother of your kids? come on.
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: sceagacros on March 29, 2012, 11:51:34 AM
Immediately start giving yourself the love and respect that she isn't and move on. Doesn't matter how hard it may be DON'T wait - just do it now. Things may be difficult but you can't build on a faulty foundation, rip the building down and start building from scratch (with someone new). :)
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: BayGBM on March 29, 2012, 12:25:35 PM
we lived together for 4 years, i payed for her and gave her all she wanted, took her to vacations, she was my only friend and i loved her dearly.
honestly i guess i was getting tired of the whole thing and afraid to admit to myself, several times we faught and i threatened to leave.
now i found out she cheated on me coz "she felt she was temporary for me and i didnt love her anymore".

/beta male, out

Did you love her?  Why didn't you marry her?  If you want her to "forsake all others" you then you should put a ring on it.
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: Sector on March 29, 2012, 12:41:24 PM
Fuck her. move on. I could never forgive a girl who cheated on me. sometimes i have a fight with my girlfriend and the next day she's all smiley and shit and i look at her face and think "crazy b**ch did you just forget we fought yesterday?". if she cheated on my i would just leave no name calling or anything it's not in my nature but just leave.

I hate this shit. Its usually when shes in the wrong too and owes your ass an apology but instead just decides to act like everything is peachy the next day.

Agree with you on the cheating, id be out. Girl cheats on you, she has lost her respect for you. Peace out and not only will you get over her but you will gain her respect and have the privledge of denying her request to get back together.
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: The Abdominal Snoman on March 29, 2012, 12:46:47 PM
If you never done XTC, drop some with her and tell her that you don't think you will ever get over her cheating on you unless you can get some threesome girl on girl action. Do this for about few months with only hot chicks until its gets boring. Then it will be a lot easier to see her for the true whore that she really is...Take control and really bring her over to the dark side...
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: lyquid on March 29, 2012, 01:59:10 PM
I took my gf back. Ull hate her for it don't do it. Ull never feel fully in love again and never have that feeling u had for her before. However. Cheating on her consistently has made me feel much better. And i mean consistently with many diff women lol
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: Papper on March 29, 2012, 02:20:18 PM
there are some good ideas in here.

if she cheats and you want to get even, pretend to forgive and cheat constantly. win win.

or the threesome thing can be tried too, why not.

once she cheats it should not be forgiven without retribution anyways

problem is ive never had it happen to me. i just get dumped lol
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: jaejonna on March 29, 2012, 02:27:30 PM
get a body like zyzz and you can smash anyone !!!!
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: Papper on March 29, 2012, 02:32:33 PM
get a body like zyzz and you can smash anyone !!!!

yeah just go out and "get" his genetics too. why not :)
Title: Re: So my girlfriend cheated on me...
Post by: 20inch calves on March 30, 2012, 12:02:16 AM
drop her. don't talk to her..explaining anything. silence will tear her up..move on..seriously
Title: Re: So my girlfriend cheated on me...
Post by: deviant on March 30, 2012, 01:29:25 AM
As above, don't talk to her....cut her off, women HATE that.

Also learn from it. In my experience if you treat a person like they can do no wrong they eventually start to believe it themselves and behave like a girls. I'm not saying to treat future girlfriends badly but don't put them on a pedestal, treat them like you would one of your friends and save the big gestures purely for birthdays, anniversaries etc etc....
Title: Re: So my girlfriend cheated on me...
Post by: local hero on March 30, 2012, 02:34:15 AM
you obviously arent doing it for her in the bedroom,,, only solution is to invite other men round to fuck her while you hide in the wardrobe dressed in a nappy, furiously playing with your self


im sorry bid, this is the only way!
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: Tapeworm on March 30, 2012, 03:01:57 AM
Did you love her?  Why didn't you marry her?  If you want her to "forsake all others" you then you should put a ring on it.

If your people had the right to be married (yes, I support) you'd quickly realize how few problems it solves.  For any misbehavior issue, the security of marriage is just gasoline on a fire.  

You're really not missing out on much.  Most married men would happily hand over the sum total of their tax savings if it would call down a bolt of lightning on the wife.
Title: Re: So my girlfriend cheated on me...
Post by: j3di3 on March 30, 2012, 04:49:20 AM
actually someone was spot on here with being an asshole and doing the "asshole" thing overboard (or maybe im just an asshole).
i treated her like shit for like a year, then one of her close relatives got sick and i didnt give a shit and acted like a jackass demanding her spend time with me and not treat that personV (not directly, but implying it).
she also lost her job and i was paying for everything, we faught several times and i told her she can take her shit and go, coz im paying for everything here and its my house (we used to pay 50/50 when she had a job). i was playing it asshole tough guy and honestly deep down i wanted her gone but i didnt have the balls to break it off, in a sense i guess she did me a favor.
when shed call me from the hospital where shed stay for the whole night id speak to her coldly as if i dont give a shit and like i was doing her a favor talking. the whole thing happened right before that person passed away and she told me she was horribly sorry and she will do whatever i want (including the 3 some soneone suggested)
either way, now i suddenly dont want her to go (wtf? i wanted her to go for a long time)
so i guess i had it coming in a sense

ps: this is not bullshit she told me, this is what actually happened
Title: Re: So my girlfriend cheated on me...
Post by: Red Hook on March 30, 2012, 05:02:00 AM
actually someone was spot on here with being an asshole and doing the "asshole" thing overboard (or maybe im just an asshole).
i treated her like shit for like a year, then one of her close relatives got sick and i didnt give a shit and acted like a jackass demanding her spend time with me and not treat that personV (not directly, but implying it).
she also lost her job and i was paying for everything, we faught several times and i told her she can take her shit and go, coz im paying for everything here and its my house (we used to pay 50/50 when she had a job). i was playing it asshole tough guy and honestly deep down i wanted her gone but i didnt have the balls to break it off, in a sense i guess she did me a favor.
when shed call me from the hospital where shed stay for the whole night id speak to her coldly as if i dont give a shit and like i was doing her a favor talking. the whole thing happened right before that person passed away and she told me she was horribly sorry and she will do whatever i want (including the 3 some soneone suggested)
either way, now i suddenly dont want her to go (wtf? i wanted her to go for a long time)
so i guess i had it coming in a sense

ps: this is not bullshit she told me, this is what actually happened


dude, post up a pic and let's see what the fuss is all about.

otherwise go and pretend that you are a grapefruit and stand next to Kai
Title: Re: So my girlfriend cheated on me...
Post by: j3di3 on March 30, 2012, 05:03:45 AM
sorry, i wont setisfy your curiosity
Title: Re: So my girlfriend cheated on me...
Post by: DK II on March 30, 2012, 05:26:25 AM
we lived together for 4 years, i payed for her and gave her all she wanted, took her to vacations, she was my only friend and i loved her dearly.
honestly i guess i was getting tired of the whole thing and afraid to admit to myself, several times we faught and i threatened to leave.
now i found out she cheated on me coz "she felt she was temporary for me and i didnt love her anymore".

/beta male, out

bwahaahaha, idiot.
Title: Re: So my girlfriend cheated on me...
Post by: j3di3 on March 30, 2012, 05:50:27 AM
bwahaahaha, idiot.

i didnt pay for her most of the time it was 50/50, until she lost her job.
plus, i can afford it  :)
Title: Re: So my girlfriend cheated on me...
Post by: DK II on March 30, 2012, 05:54:39 AM
i didnt pay for her most of the time it was 50/50, until she lost her job.
plus, i can afford it  :)

Still stupid. "50/50", that's a weak excuse man, especially if you say you acted like an asshole.

Looks like SHE was the smart one, making you pay then leaving you.

Be smarter next time.
Title: Re: So my girlfriend cheated on me...
Post by: BigCyp on March 30, 2012, 05:55:16 AM
Dude you sound like a complete penis, you were lucky to have a girlfriend.
Title: Re: So my girlfriend cheated on me...
Post by: BigCyp on March 30, 2012, 06:11:07 AM
Take it out on her genitalia with the hardest pounding you have ever given her.  She will, weirdly, enjoy the stiff rogerring you give her.  And you will satisfy your hateful feelings towards her.  You might even feel guilty afterwards. But, she will know you are the man. And when you drill her, she will want to be brutally owned by you.  You will reafirm yur alpha status in her mind. And leave her too sore to be thinkin about other shit.  She wants to be used like a whore.  So, give her what she wants.  But, because she wont be what you want. (whore not a houswife).  She doesnt seem like the type to be down with you and put up with your bodybuilding shit and cook your meals and be a source of stability for you.  She seems like she needs attention.  So, when she gets old to you, and if youre still mad at her.  Fuck her best friend and show her the pic.  Destroy her and then get a nice stable broad, who will ride with you to the death and worship you and put up with your bodybuilding lifestyke shit and never stray. 

It worked for your mom
Title: Re: So my girlfriend cheated on me...
Post by: BigCyp on March 30, 2012, 06:17:26 AM
;D

Excellent retort.  No comeback could do this justice. 





This is what makes getbig the shit




Hahahaha so true,

I visited a few other forums over the years and left after a brutal 1 post count - too many serious warriors about
Title: Re: So my girlfriend cheated on me...
Post by: hipolito mejia on March 30, 2012, 08:13:02 AM
In life is not want a man wants, but what he DESERVES..........

A whore can only be a whore, The more you spend on her, the less power you'll have over her.
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: deadpan on March 30, 2012, 08:32:21 AM
In your own words.... "I took her to vacations".....

Maybe she was looking for a male who could actually complete a simple sentence without sounding like a complete jerkoff as well?



dude have you talked to girls lately? most are dumb as fuck....the ones that are smart are usually fat
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: Tapeworm on March 30, 2012, 08:55:23 AM
dude have you talked to girls lately? most are dumb as fuck....the ones that are smart are usually fat

Nothing smart about being fat.
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: Radical Plato on March 30, 2012, 08:57:38 AM
dude have you talked to girls lately? most are dumb as fuck....the ones that are smart are usually fat
It is an urban myth that there are smart women?
Title: Re: So my girlfriend cheated on me...
Post by: howardroark on March 30, 2012, 09:00:23 AM
Dump her and move on with your life. She'll come back crying to you eventually and you'll have the pleasure of turning her down again.
Title: Re: So my girlfriend cheated on me...
Post by: King Shizzo on March 30, 2012, 09:03:12 AM
We are mammals.  We are supposed to act more like male lions, then this marriage/relationship bullshit.  Both sexes, male and female, are going against our primal instinct.
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: deadpan on March 30, 2012, 09:38:47 AM
Nothing smart about being fat.

fair enough but they generally seclude themselves from society and spend more time following pursuits that interest them rather than spending their days whoring about.

on that topic im thoroughly concerned that for like 90% of women their appearance is based entirely on genetics, all the attractive ones eat potato chips and carrots and other garbage carbs, then go do two sets on the vagina machine (you know the one i mean) and fool themselves into thinking they're exercising.

i have a huge fetish for girls that actually know how to workout though, saw one doing deadlifts in the gym the other day (with actual weight on it), my dick nearly flew off my body lol

It is an urban myth that there are smart women?

HAHAha too funny :D
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: King Shizzo on March 30, 2012, 09:43:55 AM
fair enough but they generally seclude themselves from society and spend more time following pursuits that interest them rather than spending their days whoring about.

on that topic im thoroughly concerned that for like 90% of women their appearance is based entirely on genetics, all the attractive ones eat potato chips and carrots and other garbage carbs, then go do two sets on the vagina machine (you know the one i mean) and fool themselves into thinking they're exercising.

i have a huge fetish for girls that actually know how to workout though, saw one doing deadlifts in the gym the other day (with actual weight on it), my dick nearly flew off my body lol

HAHAha too funny :D
All the way tranny.
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: King Shizzo on March 30, 2012, 09:52:12 AM
Fixed
D-Ware..... you have potential.  You are a AAA top prospect now.  Don't flame out on us.
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: deadpan on March 30, 2012, 09:57:02 AM
Fixed

yes im sure any woman that lifts more than a pink 5lb dumbbell is a tranny  ::)

(http://primaljournal.files.wordpress.com/2011/03/crossfit_female_overhead.jpg)
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: deadpan on March 30, 2012, 10:04:39 AM
this whore is manly.  please post a pic of a genuinely hot piece of ass in order to redeem yourself or kindly fuck off

surely you must be trolling. ok here's something more suited to your fine tastes

(http://highbridnation.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/sky-black2.jpg)

Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: King Shizzo on March 30, 2012, 10:05:38 AM
this whore is manly.  please post a pic of a genuinely hot piece of ass in order to redeem yourself or kindly fuck off
ohhhhh, demoted to AA already!
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: King Shizzo on March 30, 2012, 10:08:24 AM
says your average gym rat.
I take that as an insult.  People can vouch for me on here rook. (unless you are a gimmick)
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: King Shizzo on March 30, 2012, 10:22:40 AM
u mad, bro?

take it easy, gloria. i was just fucking with you. i figured you were sensitive to that and yuo did not disapoint. :D
Touche.  Gimmick is not a word taken lightly on here.
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: King Shizzo on March 30, 2012, 10:23:47 AM
u mad, bro?

take it easy, gloria. i was just fucking with you. i figured you were sensitive to that and yuo did not disapoint. :D
Gloria?   Sounds familiar.  Be careful, I will find a correlation, unless you try harder.
Title: Re: So my girlfriend cheated on me...
Post by: Option D on March 30, 2012, 10:28:10 AM
drop her. don't talk to her..explaining anything. silence will tear her up..move on..seriously
WE HAVE A WINNER!!!!!!!!!!!
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: King Shizzo on March 30, 2012, 10:34:31 AM
please try. this sounds like it would be fun and an easy owning.  fyi, gloria is used as a retort when someone is sensitive to a cmment. you seem sensitive to the gimmick accusation....hmmmmmmmmm mm?
What I meant was..... that not many people would use Gloria in that context.  I have already seen that used here.  Are you black? (pretending to be) would make the odds even lower.
Title: Re: So my girlfriend cheated on me...
Post by: bike nut on March 30, 2012, 10:40:35 AM
we lived together for 4 years, i payed for her and gave her all she wanted, took her to vacations, she was my only friend and i loved her dearly.
honestly i guess i was getting tired of the whole thing and afraid to admit to myself, several times we faught and i threatened to leave.
now i found out she cheated on me coz "she felt she was temporary for me and i didnt love her anymore".

/beta male, out

Don't speak one word to her until she comes crawling back, pretend you're reconciling with her, film the make-up sex and make sure you go long-time anal on her, send the sex tape to her mom, grandmother, boss, coworkers, and the other guys she's fucking....tell her to fuck off and never speak to her again. And then harden up ya fuckin' pansy.

Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: King Shizzo on March 30, 2012, 10:49:25 AM

what about these posts indicates a black poster?  my treatment of women?  caucasion here, sorry to disapoint.  im a decsent looking and athletic white.  i have done alright with the ladies and have emassed some experience worth sharing.  been through many many whores and good looking sluts. but, i have settled with a slightly overwieght but beautiful really organized and nice broad from a good family.  very happy with my decision, has helped my business and other aspects of my life as well.  we have a great life togethewr and none of the volatility i have experienced with sexy whore type broads.  this one im with will cook my meals and in general just put up with my shit.   she is very in to me. and would have my back no matter what.  i think most of us who are into bbing and weightlifting need a stable lady in our lives and not one of these whore like ladies the op described.  someone else asked me if i was black in the last women related thread i posted in...lol.  maybe i should rethink my stance on zimmerman, then.  thats all you get gloria  8)
Fucking Meltdown!   8)  Don't worry, it was inevitable.  Glad you got that out of the way so soon.
Title: Re: So my girlfriend cheated on me...
Post by: Borracho on March 30, 2012, 10:51:11 AM
why don't you two just get a fucking room already
Title: Re: So my girlfriend cheated on me...
Post by: King Shizzo on March 30, 2012, 10:52:42 AM
why don't you two just get a fucking room already
I don't want to cheat on you!  Unless you want a threesome?
Title: Re: So my girlfriend cheated on me...
Post by: dyslexic on March 30, 2012, 10:55:42 AM
Sooner or later everyone at some point becomes dis-satisfied. Whether it is with their job, their house, their car, their spouse.... whatever. It's human nature.

For a human NOT to cheat or for a human to be completely trust-worthy, you must have moral and ethical standards. At this point in time, most humans DO NOT possess these qualities.


Hence the saying "the grass is always greener..." ~ it can apply to anything, and rarely is it true.


As far as finding someone to blame, don't bother. It becomes an issue of rejection. You rationalize to make yourself feel better. The fact is: Everyone is "rejected" at some point in their lives. We all know what it feels like.


Once a cheater, always a cheater. Get away and move on with your life. Better that it happens now than later when there is more at stake.


Choose your women more carefully and take your time doing it. Learn from your mistakes.
Title: Re: So my girlfriend cheated on me...
Post by: makaveli25 on March 30, 2012, 10:57:20 AM
It feels like a knife in the fucken heart at first. It's hard man especially if you have a big ego. Feels like someone kicked you in the stomach especially if you really care for the person. This girl sounds like a screwball. Do yourself a favor and break up with her. I couldn't handle being with anyone that cheated on me. First take advantage of her for awhile. Do some horrible freaky shit to her humiliate her and then kick her ass to the curb when you've had enough. If she isn't begging for forgiveness immediately break all ties and move on.
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: King Shizzo on March 30, 2012, 10:58:16 AM
funny thing is, i was trying to be nice to you. ha! im a helpless troll. guess my posts come off angry even when im not.

i have to tell you though. and im not gonna flame you over this. but, this is not a meltdown.  i know youre mad because i successfully trolled you with the gimmick accusation. but this is a reach, bud.  even for you. 8)
Nothing is a reach on here.  There are gimmick accounts that have been registered for years.  I can honestly see the gimmick accusations.  I don't even have 3,000 posts, yet i have been here since 2004.  I am just a late bloomer, but a fixture none the less.  My gimmick radar is still going off, or is that my gaydar?  Could be the same thing after all these years.  Truce? (choose your next words carefully leonidas)
Title: Re: So my girlfriend cheated on me...
Post by: gh15 on March 30, 2012, 11:17:57 AM
It feels like a knife in the fucken heart at first. It's hard man especially if you have a big ego. Feels like someone kicked you in the stomach especially if you really care for the person. This girl sounds like a screwball. Do yourself a favor and break up with her. I couldn't handle being with anyone that cheated on me. First take advantage of her for awhile. Do some horrible freaky shit to her humiliate her and then kick her ass to the curb when you've had enough. If she isn't begging for forgiveness immediately break all ties and move on.

if a girl cheat on you you never humiliated enough and never showed enough mental strength over her,, it is disgusting this tread,, it shows how patetic the getbig memebers are,, im amazed that 7 years of me here didnt help this fella,, im veing very serious

if a girl cheat on you! that menas you are junk and she is junk ...both of you are junks ,, a girl will not cheat ,, she doenst have it in her,, girls do not even need sex as much its not their prioritys ,, they do sex for other reasons ,, they can come in a minute from their hand or shower head they take shower,,they coudnt care less,, i fucked so many guirls with havign a cave man beard ,, i fucked so many girls with not even taking a shwoer for a month ,, its THE AMERICANO STUPID SOCIETY that created it to themselfs,, what i have? i have big muscles and very low bodyfat ...it alwyas get a girl to want to open her legs

im telling you im in shock reading this patetic tread

gh15 approved
Title: Re: So my girlfriend cheated on me...
Post by: oliveiraugo on March 30, 2012, 10:31:29 PM
american dudes are becoming beta males

thats why

look at the frist post. "she made me believe thats my fault" LOLWUT?

i agree with gh15 in some parts,
IF U ARE ALPHA, the girl RESPECTS you, and more, she´s scary to LOSE you, SHE NEEDS to be on your hand, not you on hers, for any woman in the world, except your mom lol, you need to have control of her mind all the time, why? because women are stupid, they can be the best friend in the world in one day, and the most heartless bitch you ever met in the other day. we are smart! Man are RACIONAL. U need to keep control.

BUT, BUT! there are some girls that are just crazy ass bitches, you just need to run from those, but thats the minority
Title: Re: So my girlfriend cheated on me...
Post by: garebear on March 30, 2012, 10:38:40 PM
if a girl cheat on you you never humiliated enough and never showed enough mental strength over her,, it is disgusting this tread,, it shows how patetic the getbig memebers are,, im amazed that 7 years of me here didnt help this fella,, im veing very serious

if a girl cheat on you! that menas you are junk and she is junk ...both of you are junks ,, a girl will not cheat ,, she doenst have it in her,, girls do not even need sex as much its not their prioritys ,, they do sex for other reasons ,, they can come in a minute from their hand or shower head they take shower,,they coudnt care less,, i fucked so many guirls with havign a cave man beard ,, i fucked so many girls with not even taking a shwoer for a month ,, its THE AMERICANO STUPID SOCIETY that created it to themselfs,, what i have? i have big muscles and very low bodyfat ...it alwyas get a girl to want to open her legs

im telling you im in shock reading this patetic tread

gh15 approved
Thanks for veing serious.
Title: Re: So my girlfriend cheated on me...
Post by: j_mtl on March 31, 2012, 02:41:41 AM
hey man i can see your horns over here in canada...man up for fuk sakes :o
Title: Re: So my girlfriend cheated on me...
Post by: Henda on March 31, 2012, 02:47:01 AM
i payed for her and gave her all she wanted, took her to vacations, she was my only friend and i loved her dearly.
never do this again,problem solved
never read thread someone most definatley will already said this
Title: Re: So my girlfriend cheated on me...
Post by: Tito24 on March 31, 2012, 03:08:02 AM
Title: Re: So my girlfriend cheated on me...
Post by: Tito24 on March 31, 2012, 03:30:04 AM
a good woman is a dead one my friend.
Title: Re: So my girlfriend cheated on me...
Post by: j3di3 on March 31, 2012, 03:42:57 AM
nothing makes me happier than a good portion of getbig truth :). I cant say if im sad or happy, luckily the rent contract ends in a month so i have some time till then.
Title: Re: So my girlfriend cheated on me...
Post by: WOOO on March 31, 2012, 04:14:19 AM
we lived together for 4 years, i payed for her and gave her all she wanted, took her to vacations, she was my only friend and i loved her dearly.
honestly i guess i was getting tired of the whole thing and afraid to admit to myself, several times we faught and i threatened to leave.
now i found out she cheated on me coz "she felt she was temporary for me and i didnt love her anymore".

/beta male, out


burn everything that reminds you of her and move on
Title: Re: so my girlfriend cheated of me
Post by: V Man on March 31, 2012, 04:32:24 AM
women always have an excuse for cheating and they say it's always the men's fault. fucking bitches!

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