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Had this girl into me I complimented her a bit at first acted intereted now I wont talk to her she's blowing my phone up like crazy..Life would be so much easier without any games though....but Ive come to the conclusion it is necessary. the whole
" hey I really like you....I dont play games lets hang out sometime" has not been very successful for me. Ive actually had girls who were interested loose interest in me when I came across as a straightforward no bullshit guy. I wasnt even 20 at the time and still learning "the game" with chicks but I picked p early on that I was just not good with "games" when it came to texting women, so I just shut up now and ignore them........working well for me. Would like to hear your studs thoughts though......
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Had this girl into me I complimented her a bit at first acted intereted now I wont talk to her she's blowing my phone up like crazy..Life would be so much easier without any games though....but Ive come to the conclusion it is necessary. the whole
" hey I really like you....I dont play games lets hang out sometime" has not been very successful for me. Ive actually had girls who were interested loose interest in me when I came across as a straightforward no bullshit guy. I wasnt even 20 at the time and still learning "the game" with chicks but I picked p early on that I was just not good with "games" when it came to texting women, so I just shut up now and ignore them........working well for me. Would like to hear your studs thoughts though......
Exactly, let it come to you. scarcity my friend.
always be mysterious, dont text often, the more you resist the more they will come for you.
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It's pretty tough to ignore this one.
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haha Im in cali and the POF on here is a gold mind
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Had this girl into me I complimented her a bit at first acted intereted now I wont talk to her she's blowing my phone up like crazy..Life would be so much easier without any games though....but Ive come to the conclusion it is necessary. the whole
" hey I really like you....I dont play games lets hang out sometime" has not been very successful for me. Ive actually had girls who were interested loose interest in me when I came across as a straightforward no bullshit guy. I wasnt even 20 at the time and still learning "the game" with chicks but I picked p early on that I was just not good with "games" when it came to texting women, so I just shut up now and ignore them........working well for me. Would like to hear your studs thoughts though......
The only way I've ever gotten girls was acting like I wasn't into them, and didn't really give a shit (even if they're driving me crazy). I learned this as a 10 year old who wasn't really into girls yet. ;D
Abuse them a little bit, that drives them crazy. 8)
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once fucked, can text more often.
yes they prefer guy who stays cool.
words of wisdom
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Wouldn't even text more often after getting laid, or even in a relationship. Always be cool. Show that your life consists of more than texting a chick and replying back instantly. Chicks respect a guy that doesn't need them and has their own life and concerns. It draws them in.
When it's time to go out, show them a good time and make them laugh...and when its time to bang, rail the shit out of them like there's no tomorrow.
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Wouldn't even text more often after getting laid, or even in a relationship. Always be cool. Show that your life consists of more than texting a chick and replying back instantly. Chicks respect a guy that doesn't need them and has their own life and concerns. It draws them in.
When it's time to go out, show them a good time and make them laugh...and when its time to bang, rail the shit out of them like there's no tomorrow.
lol times 2....when I go out I just sit back in a corner and shut the fuck up.
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Had this girl into me I complimented her a bit at first acted intereted now I wont talk to her she's blowing my phone up like crazy..Life would be so much easier without any games though....but Ive come to the conclusion it is necessary. the whole
" hey I really like you....I dont play games lets hang out sometime" has not been very successful for me. Ive actually had girls who were interested loose interest in me when I came across as a straightforward no bullshit guy. I wasnt even 20 at the time and still learning "the game" with chicks but I picked p early on that I was just not good with "games" when it came to texting women, so I just shut up now and ignore them........working well for me. Would like to hear your studs thoughts though......
Lol @ asking for chick advice on GB! ;D
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Lol @ asking for chick advice on GB! ;D
Yeah funny. :D
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Lol @ asking for chick advice on GB! ;D
Just pay attention to the girl and treat her well. Show genuine concern for her wellbeing. You've got to hug and kiss her too. Display some real affection and emotion. That's pure gold right there from Big Daddy. I should charge you guys for this shit. ;D
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Just pay attention to the girl and treat her well. Show genuine concern for her wellbeing. You've got to hug and kiss her too. Display some real affection and emotion. That's pure gold right there from Big Daddy. I should charge you guys for this shit. ;D
That's spot on, good advice. Ignoring a chick to get her attention is stupid. Honestly if a guy ignored me I would think he didn't like me. It wouldn't make me more interested in him, if anything I would lose interest.
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games can be fun
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games can be fun
They belong in the bedroom, that's about it.
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Last person you should listen to about how to treat women is a woman. They all say the smae shit: tall, dark handsome, treats me nice, makes me laugh. How many girls you know are with guys that are complete assholes.
A woman wants a man that they think doesn't need them. Fact.
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They belong in the bedroom, that's about it.
you scare me now.
no games in the bedroom. you into bdsm? :D
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I was dating this guy briefly a few years ago. He told me that he liked it when I ignored him and was really into games. When I went on a first date with him, I didn't talk to him for two weeks afterwards because I was still deciding if I wanted to see him again. Apparently he really liked that. So I decided to see him again and he wanted me to play the ignoring game. I told him I wasn't into games and showed him the door. A few months later I found a note on the windscreen of my car after gym with his phone number on it telling me to call him if I wanted to have coffee. I just threw it on the road and drove off.
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That's spot on, good advice. Ignoring a chick to get her attention is stupid. Honestly if a guy ignored me I would think he didn't like me. It wouldn't make me more interested in him, if anything I would lose interest.
This may not be the case every time but generally speaking, if you ignore the girl don't expect to hear back from her. Girls love attention, you know. Why do you think they take all that time and effort on makeup and such? They want to look good for a purpose.
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I was dating this guy briefly a few years ago. He told me that he liked it when I ignored him and was really into games. When I went on a first date with him, I didn't talk to him for two weeks afterwards because I was still deciding if I wanted to see him again. Apparently he really liked that. So I decided to see him again and he wanted me to play the ignoring game. I told him I wasn't into games and showed him the door. A few months later I found a note on the windscreen of my car after gym with his phone number on it telling me to call him if I wanted to have coffee. I just threw it on the road and drove off.
thats called be scared of commitment.
I shouldn't talk I don't ever want to get married.
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if you have to play games with a girl to keep her, then she's not worth it
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Find some chick with a spine, who is "real" and is fun to talk to. Preferably one who will call out your bullshit, but is willing to forgive you. Date her, fuck her, marry her. It's real simple people, it's not brain surgery.
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The girls who play games with you aren't into you and are using you for some ulterior motive. Women, just like men, wouldn't risk losing someone they really like by playing childish games. If you aren't particularly into them and just want some fun, play along, but if you really like them, don't play, she will win! The trick is too find some one who digs you as much as you do them, give or take a little bit!
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Watch this film to see just how far paying attention to a girl and her needs will get you. You'll win her over for sure. :)
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Lol @ asking for chick advice on GB! ;D
its not about that..... I simply help the young up and coming kids on here in their teens and early twenties by providing real life stories and examples of a young broke guy who has quite simply bent the rules of society....an uneducated bum who pursues intelligent highly successful beautiful women...do i have a right to? fuck no...I dont even own a car. do i know my place? absolutely, but what can I say Im a stubborn guy :) .All it requires is some lying skills rugged good looks and being smart enough to learn from your mistakes ....and being humble enough to ask for advice.
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Some good advice in this thread.
Booty has made reassess a current strategy....
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Find some chick with a spine, who is "real" and is fun to talk to. Preferably one who will call out your bullshit, but is willing to forgive you. Date her, fuck her, marry her. It's real simple people, it's not brain surgery.
fuck it lol
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walk up to a girl bullshit talk for 5 mins then ask her if she would like to go out sometime, if she says no then proceed to call her a shallow c unt and walk away and never speak to her again.
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walk up to a girl bullshit talk for 5 mins then ask her if she would like to go out sometime, if she says no then proceed to call her a shallow girl and walk away and never speak to her again.
hahaha
wtf do you know about girls stfu or il post your pic for everyone to laugh at
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hahaha
wtf do you know about girls stfu or il post your pic for everyone to laugh at
I thought method101 had 18 inch arms?
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hahaha
wtf do you know about girls stfu or il post your pic for everyone to laugh at
Im just stating what has happend to me 90% of the time I approached a female lol. Admire my honesty.
BTW getbig replaces the word c*unt with girl so it made my post look wierd.
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I thought method101 had 1.8 inch arms?
fixed
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fixed
If you posted a picture of my arm next to ronnie colemans most women would say they prefer mine, go ahead and post the 3 year old picture. I feel no shame about it, I always wanted the Eugene Sandow/Greek statue physique not a modern bodybuilder physique and I have attained that now.
I would rather have 8 inch arms than be black like you anyway "bigmc" haha.
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If you posted a picture of my arm next to ronnie colemans most women would say they prefer mine, go ahead and post the 3 year old picture. I feel no shame about it, I always wanted the Eugene Sandow/Greek statue physique not a modern bodybuilder physique and I have attained that now.
I would rather have 8 inch arms than be black like you anyway "bigmc" haha.
calm down apply it aint that serious
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I was dating this guy briefly a few years ago. He told me that he liked it when I ignored him and was really into games. When I went on a first date with him, I didn't talk to him for two weeks afterwards because I was still deciding if I wanted to see him again. Apparently he really liked that. So I decided to see him again and he wanted me to play the ignoring game. I told him I wasn't into games and showed him the door. A few months later I found a note on the windscreen of my car after gym with his phone number on it telling me to call him if I wanted to have coffee. I just threw it on the road and drove off.
Yeah that seems like he just wants occassional sex.
If a guy actually likes a girl he does actually want to speak to her!
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Ignoring women is a staple of pulling chicks. But it's not the only cornerstone and if overused doesn't do jack for getting girls.
Saying "I like you" up front is not a good idea. Unless everything else you say and do counteract that you like her. She must be kept confused as to if you like her.
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Ignoring women is a staple of pulling chicks. But it's not the only cornerstone and if overused doesn't do jack for getting girls.
Saying "I like you" up front is not a good idea. Unless everything else you say and do counteract that you like her. She must be kept confused as to if you like her.
Age has a lot to do with it. Young girls cannot stand when a dude ignores them and acts like they are nothing special. I have experienced this many times. They come up and get close, brush up against you with their tits, gives a look like go ahead and kiss me blah blah blah. Older chicks don't go through all of that. If you ignore them they go off to find another knight in shining armor..lol.
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girls prefer a man who WANTS them - not a man who NEEDS them.
When they text you, go make a sandwich, then respond.
When they ask you out, accept, don't jump.
When making out, stop to go get a drink and leave her completely baffled why you're not begging her to get naked.
You won't get laid that night (or maybe you will), but you'll be IN permanently if you leave HER with blueballs and wanting more.
have a little game, play the numbers/volume game. Flirt with 10 girls and hang out with 2. the other 8 will be wondering why you haven't asked them out yet, doubting themselves and waiting, maybe even going so far as to ask you out.
These rules also apply to ladies. Don't appear too eager.
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Try this version next time: "
hey I really like you....I dont play games lets hang out sometime"
Just act like you don't care too much.
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The 20 something chicks appeared to be the most annoying age group to me.
Pretty young women and the 30+ generation seem to be way cooler though the latter more often than not suffers from "falling apart" syndrome.
Really ugly or really pretty chicks are often the most sane ones because they are battle hardened and get a lot of shit from society.
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It's pretty tough to ignore this one.
Amen...Keira is a fucking goddessssssssssssssssss. ..
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Amen...Keira is a fucking goddessssssssssssssssss. ..
shes hot but I dont see the big deal.... A chick is either hot and sexy or she's not. once you get past the 7/10 mark its all the same shit to me...couldn't ask for a better gift. Ive had so many girls my buddes trip over and Im like I just dont see it, and vice versa....Im like fuck you guys more for me. ;D
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Age has a lot to do with it. Young girls cannot stand when a dude ignores them and acts like they are nothing special. I have experienced this many times. They come up and get close, brush up against you with their tits, gives a look like go ahead and kiss me blah blah blah. Older chicks don't go through all of that. If you ignore them they go off to find another knight in shining armor..lol.
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Yes older women are easier in some ways. Less bullshit.
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Had this girl into me I complimented her a bit at first acted intereted now I wont talk to her she's blowing my phone up like crazy..Life would be so much easier without any games though....but Ive come to the conclusion it is necessary. the whole
" hey I really like you....I dont play games lets hang out sometime" has not been very successful for me. Ive actually had girls who were interested loose interest in me when I came across as a straightforward no bullshit guy. I wasnt even 20 at the time and still learning "the game" with chicks but I picked p early on that I was just not good with "games" when it came to texting women, so I just shut up now and ignore them........working well for me. Would like to hear your studs thoughts though......
keep at it flint
a decent girl will like you for who you are
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girls prefer a man who WANTS them - not a man who NEEDS them.
When they text you, go make a sandwich, then respond.
When they ask you out, accept, don't jump.
When making out, stop to go get a drink and leave her completely baffled why you're not begging her to get naked.
You won't get laid that night (or maybe you will), but you'll be IN permanently if you leave HER with blueballs and wanting more.
have a little game, play the numbers/volume game. Flirt with 10 girls and hang out with 2. the other 8 will be wondering why you haven't asked them out yet, doubting themselves and waiting, maybe even going so far as to ask you out.
These rules also apply to ladies. Don't appear too eager.
Rob's sound, epic advice going unheeded as usual. When will getbig learn to appreciate this kind of wisdom?
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Rob's sound, epic advice going unheeded as usual. When will getbig learn to appreciate this kind of wisdom?
women wants a jerk, not a nice guy
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They belong in the bedroom, that's about it.
look at you laying down wisdom like you have any ::)
always bringing in the sex quotient to get the loins excited
you are alone with no prospects so keep advising what you know nothing about
you're fat and old with nobody to date never mind play games with and if anyone besides your cats were in your bedroom they are only there for a one time deal
you ain't a keeper if you haven't noticed they all leave you
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women wants a jerk, not a nice guy
A woman would take a jerk over a nice guy,,yes..But that doesn't mean that's what they want either. Its just the behaviors and traits of a jerk are more attractive to a female,,and most don't have a choice because most guys are too fucking dumb to be somewhere in between. Attraction isn't logical, its instinct..Attraction is human biology and psychology, not a game. Its only a game when your loosing.
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keep at it flint
a decent girl will like you for who you are
thanks brother(: Im just sick of lying to women....I always have to make up some bullshit when that question comes up
"so what do you do for a living",
bruce- shes 7 years older..
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Exactly, let it come to you. scarcity my friend.
always be mysterious, dont text often, the more you resist the more they will come for you.
sad but true.. works on most.. i wouldnt want to date this kind of woman though..
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its not about that..... I simply help the young up and coming kids on here in their teens and early twenties by providing real life stories and examples of a young broke guy who has quite simply bent the rules of society....an uneducated bum who pursues intelligent highly successful beautiful women...do i have a right to? fuck no...I dont even own a car. do i know my place? absolutely, but what can I say Im a stubborn guy :) .All it requires is some lying skills rugged good looks and being smart enough to learn from your mistakes ....and being humble enough to ask for advice.
Being a getbigger is a huge plus too. The wiminz can smell the posting abilities on ya.
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women wants a jerk, not a nice guy
I think women want something inbetween. You don't want a pushover but at the same time you don't want a jerk.
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I think women want something inbetween. You don't want a pushover but at the same time you don't want a jerk.
Are you positive women don't want a pushover? :P
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girls prefer a man who WANTS them - not a man who NEEDS them.
this is already well known. for conversations sake. wasn't this said on boardwalk empire? b/w nucky and margaret. I did a search couldn't find anything. anyone remember this.
another stupid question.
is this the second time an ignoring chicks thread has been made here or did I see this on another forum recently?
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I think women want something inbetween. You don't want a pushover but at the same time you don't want a jerk.
comes down to whether or not you're an alpha or a passive aggressive douche. If you can be up front with a woman and she can with you. It can be a good match.
I should also say I've ruined a couple good relationships for my tenacity and my foolish caring attention I'll give a broad. Theres a fine line.
Where the fuck is Parker?
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Are you positive women don't want a pushover? :P
Only if they want to be dominating in the bedroom. ;D
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Only if they want to be dominating in the bedroom. ;D
you are into BDSM!!
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Being a getbigger is a huge plus too. The wiminz can smell the posting abilities on ya.
haha 4th! wsup brother
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you are into BDSM!!
I wouldn't say what I was into on here. I do keep alot of things private and who I have lined up for a dirty weekened...that kind of thing. ;D
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I wouldn't say what I was into on here. I do keep alot of things private and who I have lined up for a dirty weekened...that kind of thing. ;D
(http://cdntam.files.wordpress.com/2010/04/ropebondage.jpg)
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(http://cdntam.files.wordpress.com/2010/04/ropebondage.jpg)
;D Nice!
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;D Nice!
sicko. I can't get into abuse stuff at all.
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sicko. I can't get into abuse stuff at all.
(http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_shvk4hNz-NA/TPX_XMrXHmI/AAAAAAAAAPE/QyASBKZYnpI/s1600/10.jpg)
Who said anything about abuse?
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Who said anything about abuse?
you have me lol'ing
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Stupid question ,women aren't all the same , I hope this helps .
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Stupid question ,women aren't all the same , I hope this helps .
good post
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good post
your lucky im in a good mood tonight thats all Im gonna say
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your lucky im in a good mood tonight thats all Im gonna say
stfu pearbody
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stfu pearbody
everyone on here thinks you are a beta
a pathetic little twink desperate for approval
you ugly twig armed prick :-*
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everyone on here thinks you are a beta
a pathetic little twink desperate for approval
you ugly twig armed prick :-*
you're not everyone dipshit, so speak only for yourself
p.s. you're the one that's desperate for approval
p.s.s. my STRUCTURE murders yours toad boy
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you're not everyone dipshit, so speak only for yourself
p.s. you're the one that's desperate for approval
p.s.s. my STRUCTURE murders yours toad boy
haha
your "structure"
you look like a famine victim
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Guys, how long do you wait to reply to a woman who has contacted you on POF. I'm new to this online dating stuff.
I checked out her profile and she's definitely my type.
So now she knows I checked her profile and haven't responded...
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Guys, how long do you wait to reply to a woman who has contacted you on POF. I'm new to this online dating stuff.
I checked out her profile and she's definitely my type.
So now she knows I checked her profile and haven't responded...
Take your time, say only once or twice a day. It's kinda creepy after a while, when you respond to any message immediately (yes, I made that mistake in the past).
Next time visit her profile under another gimmick.
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You can be a bit aloof but don't overdo it. Otherwise while you're busy ignoring them , they'll be busy getting their holes filled elsewhere
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Guys, how long do you wait to reply to a woman who has contacted you on POF. I'm new to this online dating stuff.
I checked out her profile and she's definitely my type.
So now she knows I checked her profile and haven't responded...
The key is to always have other things around you to keep yourself occupied with, and not to take dating sites seriously. Respond when you want to respond, but dont care at the same time. It should come off naturally, not by playing "waiting games". Often, the girls are much quicker to respond, and then its much easier to hold back and set the tone/balance. Dont play these mind games, it will be what it is - but the most important thing is NOT to take it seriously and get overexcited.
As for girls in general. They all fucking suck! All of them. Ive had so many let downs with them, being the manipulate, fake whores they are - I simply DO NOT GIVE A SINGLE FUCK anymore about any of them. My motto is: Fuck em and leave em! Just like that. These girls have no shame what so ever, and think they can play around with you like some toy whenever they want. So yeah, like said so many times in this thread, the best thing is to ignore them, because the fact of the matter is - they dont DESERVE your attention anyway!
If you really want a girl, let them come to you. Dont be a Beta male and beg for these whores attention. Most men are pathetic when it comes to this stuff, and most of them dont even care if shes a 10 or just a 2, because Beta males are so desperate that they`ll take anything as long as they get it. I created a fake girl profile on a dating site the other day, and just after a couple of days I had over 200 requests from horny Beta males sending me all kinds of pathetic messages, chat requests, winks, and stupid pick up lines. Then I look on my own profile, and its just zero activity.
The problem is and always have been men giving girls the power by showering them with attention and acting desperate. Girls simply have the power to choose and get whatever and whoever they want. Men simply dont. At least not Beta males, but even Alpha males dont really obtain this power. The girl has to be 5 or under in order for it to be some what successful.
But like I said, your best chances - and particulary on dating sites, is to not care and let them come to you. If ANY girls shows just the slightest of interest by sending you a message or talking to you, you have allready won. The rest is just to follow up and keep it/your cool. The other way around is much harder to come out on top, but if your going to be aggressor, here is what you do: Display sheer amount of confidence, smile, flirt, be charming, be humourus, work out and keep your body in fit shape, dominate and take controll of every situation. And of course, you dont just act like that to one girl only, you do that to all of the girls around you wherever and whenever. Let the girls know that you dont really need them and that they are not anything special to you, by showing the same kind of attitude to all of them. Move quickly over to another chick right after flirting with a other, in order to keep them in check and make them want you. GIRLS DO THIS TO MEN ALL THE TIME, WHY NOT DO THE SAME TO THEM!? They just love being all over you for a brief moment, and them move over to the next guy, making you pissed off in the process. Thats how they create power over you, but you can do this as well - because like I said, all you have to do is to NOT CARE and get attached to any of them. Treat them like objects to play with, because lets be honest - that is what we men are to women anyway. Its time for the MEN to take the power back, and show these bitches whos the boss!
So all in all, whatever games you play - always remember to stay in controll whether your going to be passive or aggressive. Dont let ANY girl get controll over you and dont get attached to 1 girl only unless you reeeeeeeeaally like her, and if thats the case you have to make 100 % sure that shes the real deal, and most likely will not fuck you over. Because belivie me, even the sweetest, nicest, innocent girl will fuck you over just like that! It happened to me, it could happen to you. Girls are cold animals and have no shame as long as they get what they want. Theyr selfish girls and not to be taken lightly. You are better off chasing power and wealth, because in the end - that is what women want as well, so you can just pick them up along the way.
True approved.
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It depends on what stage you are with a woman if you see one checking you out say at a store or restaurant etc. ignore them women like to play these games to see you fall for it. Like yesterday I was at a restaurant the waitress kept coming back to frequent looking at me and walking by looking I ignored her other than ordering when I felt like I was in control I started talking to her got her number now women get come on to by men everyday so they get tired of that they pick who they want if I had of been aggressive I dont think I would have got her number. Course some do like aggressive.
Course if you are are in a relationship you cant ignore it wont last long.
Their are always exceptions to these rules. Just my experience.
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It depends on what stage you are with a woman if you see one checking you out say at a store or restaurant etc. ignore them women like to play these games to see you fall for it. Like yesterday I was at a restaurant the waitress kept coming back to frequent looking at me and walking by looking I ignored her other than ordering when I felt like I was in control I started talking to her got her number now women get come on to by men everyday so they get tired of that they pick who they want if I had of been aggressive I dont think I would have got her number. Course some do like aggressive.
Course if you are are in a relationship you cant ignore it wont last long.
Their are always exceptions to these rules. Just my experience.
Good attitude, never give someone too much attention, stay calm and polite. No one likes folks who push too hard, whether it's someone who tries to sell you something or seduce you.
Enjoy the fun broski 8)
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Good attitude, never give someone too much attention, stay calm and polite. No one likes folks who push too hard, whether it's someone who tries to sell you something or seduce you.
Enjoy the fun broski 8)
Exactly smooth is the way to go. I hate a damn salesman knocking on my door or a telemarketer calling. I ignore both.
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The key is to always have other things around you to keep yourself occupied with, and not to take dating sites seriously. Respond when you want to respond, but dont care at the same time. It should come off naturally, not by playing "waiting games". Often, the girls are much quicker to respond, and then its much easier to hold back and set the tone/balance. Dont play these mind games, it will be what it is - but the most important thing is NOT to take it seriously and get overexcited.
As for girls in general. They all fucking suck! All of them. Ive had so many let downs with them, being the manipulate, fake whores they are - I simply DO NOT GIVE A SINGLE FUCK anymore about any of them. My motto is: Fuck em and leave em! Just like that. These girls have no shame what so ever, and think they can play around with you like some toy whenever they want. So yeah, like said so many times in this thread, the best thing is to ignore them, because the fact of the matter is - they dont DESERVE your attention anyway!
If you really want a girl, let them come to you. Dont be a Beta male and beg for these whores attention. Most men are pathetic when it comes to this stuff, and most of them dont even care if shes a 10 or just a 2, because Beta males are so desperate that they`ll take anything as long as they get it. I created a fake girl profile on a dating site the other day, and just after a couple of days I had over 200 requests from horny Beta males sending me all kinds of pathetic messages, chat requests, winks, and stupid pick up lines. Then I look on my own profile, and its just zero activity.
The problem is and always have been men giving girls the power by showering them with attention and acting desperate. Girls simply have the power to choose and get whatever and whoever they want. Men simply dont. At least not Beta males, but even Alpha males dont really obtain this power. The girl has to be 5 or under in order for it to be some what successful.
But like I said, your best chances - and particulary on dating sites, is to not care and let them come to you. If ANY girls shows just the slightest of interest by sending you a message or talking to you, you have allready won. The rest is just to follow up and keep it/your cool. The other way around is much harder to come out on top, but if your going to be aggressor, here is what you do: Display sheer amount of confidence, smile, flirt, be charming, be humourus, work out and keep your body in fit shape, dominate and take controll of every situation. And of course, you dont just act like that to one girl only, you do that to all of the girls around you wherever and whenever. Let the girls know that you dont really need them and that they are not anything special to you, by showing the same kind of attitude to all of them. Move quickly over to another chick right after flirting with a other, in order to keep them in check and make them want you. GIRLS DO THIS TO MEN ALL THE TIME, WHY NOT DO THE SAME TO THEM!? They just love being all over you for a brief moment, and them move over to the next guy, making you pissed off in the process. Thats how they create power over you, but you can do this as well - because like I said, all you have to do is to NOT CARE and get attached to any of them. Treat them like objects to play with, because lets be honest - that is what we men are to women anyway. Its time for the MEN to take the power back, and show these bitches whos the boss!
So all in all, whatever games you play - always remember to stay in controll whether your going to be passive or aggressive. Dont let ANY girl get controll over you and dont get attached to 1 girl only unless you reeeeeeeeaally like her, and if thats the case you have to make 100 % sure that shes the real deal, and most likely will not fuck you over. Because belivie me, even the sweetest, nicest, innocent girl will fuck you over just like that! It happened to me, it could happen to you. Girls are cold animals and have no shame as long as they get what they want. Theyr selfish girls and not to be taken lightly. You are better off chasing power and wealth, because in the end - that is what women want as well, so you can just pick them up along the way.
True approved.
Thanks for that post.
Some great advice and words of wisdom.
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The key is to always have other things around you to keep yourself occupied with, and not to take dating sites seriously. Respond when you want to respond, but dont care at the same time. It should come off naturally, not by playing "waiting games". Often, the girls are much quicker to respond, and then its much easier to hold back and set the tone/balance. Dont play these mind games, it will be what it is - but the most important thing is NOT to take it seriously and get overexcited.
As for girls in general. They all fucking suck! All of them. Ive had so many let downs with them, being the manipulate, fake whores they are - I simply DO NOT GIVE A SINGLE FUCK anymore about any of them. My motto is: Fuck em and leave em! Just like that. These girls have no shame what so ever, and think they can play around with you like some toy whenever they want. So yeah, like said so many times in this thread, the best thing is to ignore them, because the fact of the matter is - they dont DESERVE your attention anyway!
If you really want a girl, let them come to you. Dont be a Beta male and beg for these whores attention. Most men are pathetic when it comes to this stuff, and most of them dont even care if shes a 10 or just a 2, because Beta males are so desperate that they`ll take anything as long as they get it. I created a fake girl profile on a dating site the other day, and just after a couple of days I had over 200 requests from horny Beta males sending me all kinds of pathetic messages, chat requests, winks, and stupid pick up lines. Then I look on my own profile, and its just zero activity.
The problem is and always have been men giving girls the power by showering them with attention and acting desperate. Girls simply have the power to choose and get whatever and whoever they want. Men simply dont. At least not Beta males, but even Alpha males dont really obtain this power. The girl has to be 5 or under in order for it to be some what successful.
But like I said, your best chances - and particulary on dating sites, is to not care and let them come to you. If ANY girls shows just the slightest of interest by sending you a message or talking to you, you have allready won. The rest is just to follow up and keep it/your cool. The other way around is much harder to come out on top, but if your going to be aggressor, here is what you do: Display sheer amount of confidence, smile, flirt, be charming, be humourus, work out and keep your body in fit shape, dominate and take controll of every situation. And of course, you dont just act like that to one girl only, you do that to all of the girls around you wherever and whenever. Let the girls know that you dont really need them and that they are not anything special to you, by showing the same kind of attitude to all of them. Move quickly over to another chick right after flirting with a other, in order to keep them in check and make them want you. GIRLS DO THIS TO MEN ALL THE TIME, WHY NOT DO THE SAME TO THEM!? They just love being all over you for a brief moment, and them move over to the next guy, making you pissed off in the process. Thats how they create power over you, but you can do this as well - because like I said, all you have to do is to NOT CARE and get attached to any of them. Treat them like objects to play with, because lets be honest - that is what we men are to women anyway. Its time for the MEN to take the power back, and show these bitches whos the boss!
So all in all, whatever games you play - always remember to stay in controll whether your going to be passive or aggressive. Dont let ANY girl get controll over you and dont get attached to 1 girl only unless you reeeeeeeeaally like her, and if thats the case you have to make 100 % sure that shes the real deal, and most likely will not fuck you over. Because belivie me, even the sweetest, nicest, innocent girl will fuck you over just like that! It happened to me, it could happen to you. Girls are cold animals and have no shame as long as they get what they want. Theyr selfish girls and not to be taken lightly. You are better off chasing power and wealth, because in the end - that is what women want as well, so you can just pick them up along the way.
True approved.
I thought girls were sweet innocent delicate creatures who wouldn't screw you over if you took care of them diligently?
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treat em mean keep em keen.
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I was dating this guy briefly a few years ago. He told me that he liked it when I ignored him and was really into games. When I went on a first date with him, I didn't talk to him for two weeks afterwards because I was still deciding if I wanted to see him again. Apparently he really liked that. So I decided to see him again and he wanted me to play the ignoring game. I told him I wasn't into games and showed him the door. A few months later I found a note on the windscreen of my car after gym with his phone number on it telling me to call him if I wanted to have coffee. I just threw it on the road and drove off.
And now youre an overweight single mother, life worked out for you didnt it
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And now youre an overweight single mother, life worked out for you didnt it
Boooom
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stfu pearbody
lol pear body? I can honestly say I dont possess a feminine bone in my body from head to toe masculinity is something i have possessed in spades..and style :P
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u just sit back let us real men talk ,,,,,and shut the fuck up important matters at hand here ;D....
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lots of good advive being given in this thread from more than one person who knows waht there talking about....listen up may learn a thing or two and get laid by the time your 60.
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I thought girls were sweet innocent delicate creatures who wouldn't screw you over if you took care of them diligently?
I hope you were being sarcastic, otherwize you probably havent been around too many girls. Honestly, if there is one good thing to learn from movies, is that to NEVER trust a female. How many times have you seen a movie where the girl PRETENDS to be all sweet and innocent, and then at the end she turns out to be a deceisive, treacheorus bitch instead!? I swear its the same scenario every time I watch a new movie, and it never surprises me.
Sure, there are some good girls out there, Ive just yet to find one....... ::)
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First advice. Don't listen to women when they say they want ____. They don't KNOW what they want. You give them what YOU have. If it aint good enough, fuck them and move on...
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Now let me just add more insult to the injury regarding my last post, and tell you REALLY like it is!
Girls LOVE chasing men they CANT have! That means, if your allready in a relationship - the girls radar and attention all of the sudden is directly towards you. You`ll get A LOT more looks from girls, and A LOT of them will try to make a move even though you allready have a girl. Like I said, they have no shame, they are selfish bastards, and when they see something they in theory cant have, they do anything to get it - just to prove a point that they are SO MUCH better than the girl your allready with. It has nothing to do with them REALLY wanting to be with you, because the fact is, if you didnt allready have a girlfriend, they would most likely show you no interest at all. Thats how their stupid minds work, my buddy got sex offers all the time when he was in a long time realtionship, and probably still does. Ive never had a long time relationship myself, so I cant really speak on it from personal experience, but I know it happens a lot. Theres probably some getbiggers here that can verify that as well. Anwyays, its just common sense when it gets to girls, being the decisive whores they are. ::)
You should never take a girl seriously, always have a plan b.
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I hope you were being sarcastic, otherwize you probably havent been around too many girls. Honestly, if there is one good thing to learn from movies, is that to NEVER trust a female. How many times have you seen a movie where the girl PRETENDS to be all sweet and innocent, and then at the end she turns out to be a deceisive, treacheorus bitch instead!? I swear its the same scenario every time I watch a new movie, and it never surprises me.
Sure, there are some good girls out there, Ive just yet to find one....... ::)
That's the ideal (how girls should be) and I'm saddened by the fact that that isn't so in real life.
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And now youre an overweight single mother, life worked out for you didnt it
now she lives online trying to get men sexually aroused and become attracted to her
LMAO
a fat old broad discussing bondage and faking she has dates set up to get guys all hard for her
FFS what a goddamned trainwreck she is
off topic How's Des ?
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He's down to 22 and a half stone, he hit 30 stone last year and it wasn't pretty. I got him tattoed on my arm
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Now let me just add more insult to the injury regarding my last post, and tell you REALLY like it is!
Girls LOVE chasing men they CANT have! That means, if your allready in a relationship - the girls radar and attention all of the sudden is directly towards you. You`ll get A LOT more looks from girls, and A LOT of them will try to make a move even though you allready have a girl. Like I said, they have no shame, they are selfish bastards, and when they see something they in theory cant have, they do anything to get it - just to prove a point that they are SO MUCH better than the girl your allready with. It has nothing to do with them REALLY wanting to be with you, because the fact is, if you didnt allready have a girlfriend, they would most likely show you no interest at all. Thats how their stupid minds work, my buddy got sex offers all the time when he was in a long time realtionship, and probably still does. Ive never had a long time relationship myself, so I cant really speak on it from personal experience, but I know it happens a lot. Theres probably some getbiggers here that can verify that as well. Anwyays, its just common sense when it gets to girls, being the decisive whores they are. ::)
You should never take a girl seriously, always have a plan b.
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AWESOME posts bro, that pretty much how IT IS in real life- no word of a lie...
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once fucked, can text more often.
solid advice!
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once fucked, can text more often.
yes they prefer guy who stays cool.
Indeed
and once fucked well, can turn up unannounced at 3am 'cause you are horny and at a loose end...
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But like I said, your best chances - and particulary on dating sites, is to not care and let them come to you. If ANY girls shows just the slightest of interest by sending you a message or talking to you, you have allready won. The rest is just to follow up and keep it/your cool. The other way around is much harder to come out on top, but if your going to be aggressor, here is what you do: Display sheer amount of confidence, smile, flirt, be charming, be humourus, work out and keep your body in fit shape, dominate and take controll of every situation. And of course, you dont just act like that to one girl only, you do that to all of the girls around you wherever and whenever. Let the girls know that you dont really need them and that they are not anything special to you, by showing the same kind of attitude to all of them. Move quickly over to another chick right after flirting with a other, in order to keep them in check and make them want you. GIRLS DO THIS TO MEN ALL THE TIME, WHY NOT DO THE SAME TO THEM!? They just love being all over you for a brief moment, and them move over to the next guy, making you pissed off in the process. Thats how they create power over you, but you can do this as well - because like I said, all you have to do is to NOT CARE and get attached to any of them. Treat them like objects to play with, because lets be honest - that is what we men are to women anyway. Its time for the MEN to take the power back, and show these bitches whos the boss!
Post of the week! :)
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you're not everyone dipshit, so speak only for yourself
p.s. you're the one that's desperate for approval
p.s.s. my STRUCTURE murders yours toad boy
dj181 seems to to be making progress, as I understand he doesn't want to be Mr O.
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Now let me just add more insult to the injury regarding my last post, and tell you REALLY like it is!
Girls LOVE chasing men they CANT have! That means, if your allready in a relationship - the girls radar and attention all of the sudden is directly towards you. You`ll get A LOT more looks from girls, and A LOT of them will try to make a move even though you allready have a girl. Like I said, they have no shame, they are selfish bastards, and when they see something they in theory cant have, they do anything to get it - just to prove a point that they are SO MUCH better than the girl your allready with. It has nothing to do with them REALLY wanting to be with you, because the fact is, if you didnt allready have a girlfriend, they would most likely show you no interest at all. Thats how their stupid minds work, my buddy got sex offers all the time when he was in a long time realtionship, and probably still does. Ive never had a long time relationship myself, so I cant really speak on it from personal experience, but I know it happens a lot. Theres probably some getbiggers here that can verify that as well. Anwyays, its just common sense when it gets to girls, being the decisive whores they are. ::)
You should never take a girl seriously, always have a plan b.
Obviously those girls you speak of are the rotten ones you should avoid. But there are the good ones and these should be treasured like jewels. :)
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And now youre an overweight single mother, life worked out for you didnt it
Life never works out as you plan it to. I never expected to find myself burying my parnter of ten years and a single mother. I planned to stay with him until death do us part so that part worked out I guess. And as for the overweight part, I am not that much heavier in my current pic I posted, than what I was in the bike pic. I had two babies and lost the bodyfat afterwards and competed, so I know what to do and now that my health is sorted I can train consistantly and have already started to drop bodyfat since the pic I posted.
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now she lives online trying to get men sexually aroused and become attracted to her
LMAO
a fat old broad discussing bondage and faking she has dates set up to get guys all hard for her
FFS what a goddamned trainwreck she is
off topic How's Des ?
You live online stalking me and sending pm's to forum members accusing them of being my boyfriend. It seems as though you take the internet way too seriously and live through it more than what I do. I use it for entertainment, a few laughs and sharing and learning about the sport where as you just follow my posts and then have the nerve to tell me that I live online...yeah right!
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look at you laying down wisdom like you have any ::)
always bringing in the sex quotient to get the loins excited
you are alone with no prospects so keep advising what you know nothing about
you're fat and old with nobody to date never mind play games with and if anyone besides your cats were in your bedroom they are only there for a one time deal
you ain't a keeper if you haven't noticed they all leave you
I didnt realize Lee's wife is on here, or are you his ex yet?
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someone bring Vince Basile to this topic. He will take care of that lass Booty and let us men discuss our dating strategies in peace.
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look at you laying down wisdom like you have any ::)
always bringing in the sex quotient to get the loins excited
you are alone with no prospects so keep advising what you know nothing about
you're fat and old with nobody to date never mind play games with and if anyone besides your cats were in your bedroom they are only there for a one time deal
you ain't a keeper if you haven't noticed they all leave you
;D
don't hold back, now.
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Guys, how long do you wait to reply to a woman who has contacted you on POF. I'm new to this online dating stuff.
I checked out her profile and she's definitely my type.
So now she knows I checked her profile and haven't responded...
- if a chick is intereted in you she will always contact you within 48 hours...keep the texts short simple and brief. Avoid question marks, start every text with her first name....all else fails call that bitch up.
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- if a chick is intereted in you she will always contact you within 48 hours...keep the texts short simple and brief. Avoid question marks, start every text with her first name....all else fails call that bitch up.
I diagree. You need question marks to keep a conversation going with a girl online.
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I diagree. You need question marks to keep a conversation going with a girl online.
True but, in my experience, you should also not ask boring questions just to keep a conversation going... leads nowhere real quick. Maybe that's what flint is getting at? If you just want to fuck, get to it sooner rather than later. If she's down, she's down. If not, there's really not much you can do.
In other words, if you can't think of anything to ask because the questions you WANT to ask would offend her... just ask them anyway. You might get more responses from a girl by playing it safe, but they're worthless, because the conversation will just fizzle out fast.
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True but, in my experience, you should also not ask boring questions just to keep a conversation going... leads nowhere real quick. Maybe that's what flint is getting at? If you just want to fuck, get to it sooner rather than later. If she's down, she's down. If not, there's really not much you can do.
In other words, if you can't think of anything to ask because the questions you WANT to ask would offend her... just ask them anyway. You might get more responses from a girl by playing it safe, but they're worthless, because the conversation will just fizzle out fast.
You make good points.. But how I do it online, is I start out with easy and safe questions, and then proceed to make more interesting and deep questions. Stalking a girls Facebook page to see what she likes also gives you an idea of what questions to ask. :D
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True but, in my experience, you should also not ask boring questions just to keep a conversation going... leads nowhere real quick. Maybe that's what flint is getting at? If you just want to fuck, get to it sooner rather than later. If she's down, she's down. If not, there's really not much you can do.
In other words, if you can't think of anything to ask because the questions you WANT to ask would offend her... just ask them anyway. You might get more responses from a girl by playing it safe, but they're worthless, because the conversation will just fizzle out fast.
yep you hit the nail on the hard bro. I have alot of experience with online dating guys forget i was living in the middle of nowhere the past two years. .. Building an emotional connection with a chick prior to meeting up with her gets you nowhere, it can be fun and IME even addicting.... to the point where you will build relationships with these women online while you may be in a real relationship in real life. its effected real life relationships..... why? idk probably because it's not real life.... you create a false image and projection of the person your talking 2....thats one of the reasons regardless ofwhat ithnk of the broad Ive never given booty's ass shit over her long distance cyber cyber relationship with willy G because that type of stuff is very real........you like your tren or aren't 100% there in the head proceed online dating with caution. never loose touch with reality.... if the chick doesn't meet up with you in 2 weeks erase her from your contacts you aint fuckin her anyways
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Why are you even bothered? You're a young guy, before I was married I didnt give two fucks about women contacting me cos there was always a few on the go, enjoy youth