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Title: Can you switch off?
Post by: whataname on July 24, 2013, 08:35:51 AM
serious question to middle aged getbiggers:
As i am getting older (35 now) it is harder and harder to not think and worry about future all the time - where i am going, am i at the right place, will i ever do a job i enjoy, what if i get fired, should i save more money etc-etc. I cant really enjoy a movie or a book anymore, i mean i cant forget the outside world during these, even if its the best movie or book ever. The same in teh gym: sitting between sets and thinking about things to do. Any ideas?
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: Kwon_2 on July 24, 2013, 08:39:33 AM
serious question to middle aged getbiggers:
As i am getting older (35 now) it is harder and harder to not think and worry about future all the time - where i am going, am i at the right place, will i ever do a job i enjoy, what if i get fired, should i save more money etc-etc. I cant really enjoy a movie or a book anymore, i mean i cant forget the outside world during these, even if its the best movie or book ever. The same in teh gym: sitting between sets and thinking about things to do. Any ideas?

I can only say, it gets worse at 40+ whataname :D
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: Power on July 24, 2013, 09:12:51 AM
That is why alcohol was invented.  That and to make ugly women more attractive. ;D
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: Archer77 on July 24, 2013, 09:16:12 AM
Set realistic goals and focus on them, otherwise you may end up having your thoughts consumed with hypotheticals, which causes a loss of focus.

This is sound advice.  You need to occupy your mind to prevent it from wandering.  My personal saying is, don't create a mountain of expectation you're not yet ready to climb.
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: gym**rat on July 24, 2013, 09:22:02 AM
I can only say, it gets worse at 40+ whataname :D

And it gets even worse after 50! All you think about is how you can retire as early as possible.
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: Archer77 on July 24, 2013, 09:23:39 AM
And it gets even worse after 50! All you think about is how you can retire as early as possible.

Really?  I feel as I get closer to forty I feel less obsessed with the future and more comfortable in the moment.
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: Chacka on July 24, 2013, 09:24:52 AM
marijuana will usually help
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: gym**rat on July 24, 2013, 09:31:37 AM
Really?  I feel as I get closer to forty I feel less obsessed with the future and more comfortable in the moment.

I am 54 and I can seriously say from my own experience and friends and family my age that the biggest change in your body and mind come between 40 and 50. Nice thing is the little things that used to be so important or piss you off no longer mean shit. You only worry about important things like family and money.
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: gym**rat on July 24, 2013, 09:33:32 AM
marijuana will usually help

I have been thinking about starting up again. It has been about 20 years. I love the smell and taste. I just started getting real paranoid after smoking it for 21 years. I started at 13.
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: Archer77 on July 24, 2013, 09:37:29 AM
I am 54 and I can seriously say from my own experience and friends and family my age that the biggest change in your body and mind come between 40 and 50. Nice thing is the little things that used to be so important or piss you off no longer mean shit. You only worry about important things like family and money.

You're probably right.  Maybe I'm in the middle of a shift.  I find I worry about my family a lot more and that not only takes the focus off my own problems but puts them in perspective.  Things I thought were important dont seem as important anymore.

I have been thinking about starting up again. It has been about 20 years. I love the smell and taste. I just started getting real paranoid after smoking it for 21 years. I started at 13.

It's like a nice drink after a long day.  You don't seem like the type who won't abuse it so I say to for it.
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: snx on July 24, 2013, 10:23:20 AM
Welcome to your dirty thirties my friend.

Some unwelcomed advice for you on your questions:

Job satisfaction: don't wait for a job you will enjoy. If you're driven to succeed, every job will have things that drive you crazy. Particularly if you're type A, and are intelligent. It's only normal. Look beyond that, focus on what you can accomplish, over-celebrate wins and derive satisfaction from them; don't dwell on losses or setbacks. It's a job at a company; they're not loyal to you. Be loyal to yourself. If you don't like it, find something else. But in simple terms, you'll probably never be happy unless you become an entrepreneur. But prepare to devote your life to it in order to win. Then you have to ask; do you have the nuts it takes to sacrifice all to win. Not an easy answer.

You get fired: big deal. Lots of people get fired...millions every year. You have only four choices: quit, retire where you are (good luck with that one), get fired, or die in the chair. Option B and D are essentially the same, and are unlikely. So prepare to quit or be fired. No shame in that. Your real question: have you prepared yourself with a guarantee of employability (not employment - employability). Is your skillset beyond reproach? Are you elite? Have you backed yourself up with an MBA or similar advanced degree that future employers will appreciate? Are you advancing where you are? If not, yes, you're in trouble, and you should worry about addressing this.

Should you save more: Yes. And when in doubt, the answer is "yes". Always save more. The problem with the economy and most individuals is lack of savings. This has been lost on Gen X going forward. 13 to 18% of your pre-tax income should be saved in appropriate vehicles. You're young enough; think aggressive. But when in doubt, invest in ETF where managemetn fees are minimized. Diversify: invest according to the global market cap value of various countries (i.e. spread yourself out across the globe). Put 80% in stocks, 20% in bonds...those sorts of rules of thumb for someone your age. Let compounding do the work for you. If you're savvy, do better than what I've recommended...good luck.

Then, having taken care of achieving or working to achieve those goals, enjoy today. Tomorrow is promised to no one. Don't die tomorrow having wasted today.
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: bradistani on July 24, 2013, 10:25:01 AM
serious question to middle aged getbiggers:
As i am getting older (35 now) it is harder and harder to not think and worry about future all the time - where i am going, am i at the right place, will i ever do a job i enjoy, what if i get fired, should i save more money etc-etc. I cant really enjoy a movie or a book anymore, i mean i cant forget the outside world during these, even if its the best movie or book ever. The same in teh gym: sitting between sets and thinking about things to do. Any ideas?

add in some kids and you've got yourself a real living hell with no fucking end in sight
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: kh300 on July 24, 2013, 10:51:32 AM
serious question to middle aged getbiggers:
As i am getting older (35 now) it is harder and harder to not think and worry about future all the time - where i am going, am i at the right place, will i ever do a job i enjoy, what if i get fired, should i save more money etc-etc. I cant really enjoy a movie or a book anymore, i mean i cant forget the outside world during these, even if its the best movie or book ever. The same in teh gym: sitting between sets and thinking about things to do. Any ideas?

You need a better mind frame. Stop wanting this and that. Desire is the root of all suffering. Just be satisfied with what you have. Be at peace with reality and yourself. People always say do what you love. Thats bullshit, if I could drink beer and fish all day that would be great, but the reality is I have to go to work all day. So instead of doing what you love, love what you do. You can't always choose what you do for a living, but you can choose how you do it.

Reminds of a documentary I watched last night called Comedian. It showed how this comic, Orny Adams, was so incredibly driven to succeed, yet even though he'd win little victory steps up the ladder of his career, he'd be just as miserable and depressed as ever. He was even aware of this, that if finally he made it someday, he knew he'd still be miserable - At one point he got a call to do the tonight show. He was so excited calling all his friends and family, then he says to the camera ''its been 10 minutes of joy, now I'm back to being depressed''. but the ego driven nature of the whole thing just had him in its clutches and kept him plugging along. Its a perfect example of how many of us live our lives. The ego and its desires are never satisfied, shameful way to go through life.
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: Irongrip400 on July 24, 2013, 10:59:18 AM
32 here.  I don't want to sound like a curmudgeon, but some of what you are going through is going to happen even if you do get to where you think you want to be.  IT never seems to be enough.  I make decent money, run a successful business, am happily married, but part of me still wants more.  It is a good thing sometimes, because it keeps you hungry, but yeah, it does suck to be in a constant state of worry.
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: ukjeff on July 24, 2013, 11:01:24 AM
not another anabolocks gimmick thread FFS  ::)
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: Henda on July 24, 2013, 11:52:46 AM
I know what you are saying i feel exactly the same.
Being self employed in these uncertain times makes for a lot of stress worrying if work will remain constant.
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: Schnauzer on July 24, 2013, 11:55:29 AM
In the words of John Rambo, "You don't just turn it off!".
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: Overload on July 24, 2013, 01:25:52 PM
You have to learn how to let things go and not worry about things you cannot control.  I used to suffer from anxiety for years until i learned to just let shit go and not worry about tomorrow.  Just focus on today and set short term goals as someone already said.  You cannot change tomorrow, but you can change your attitute about today.  Work hard and do your best, anything that happens along the way doesn't really matter in the end.


8)
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: arce1988 on July 24, 2013, 01:41:33 PM
 44 sucks    :(
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: K1RB on July 24, 2013, 01:48:03 PM
Best advice I can give from my 41 years on the planet:
1) As long as you have a full head of hair and $100 burning a hole in your pocket, don't get married because the desire to bang different females never goes away
2) There is no such thing as saving too much money
3) Stay in shape as it always makes you feel good and its something you can control
4) Never sweat the small stuff...You'll never make enough money, someone close to you will die, you will get into a car accident-this is called life and those are the things that happen so don't be surprised when they do
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: 240 is Back on July 24, 2013, 01:50:23 PM
see for me, it gets EASIER as I get older.

When I was 17, i had a million ideas.  Totally optimistic but perpetually worried about making a living, choosing right major, etc.

When I was 27, i had a thousand ideas, but I had done the teaching thing and decided to roll with MBA, was graduating, getting married, starting family, so I had fewer things to focus upon.

I'm 37, and I have a dozen really good ideas and things to focus upon.  It is getting easier, I think?
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: WalterWhite on July 24, 2013, 01:56:05 PM
 The gym seems to melt all my problems away and it is the only place I can totally block the outside world.  I am more jacked then I have ever been, it helps with my aches/pains, joint and spine issues and the iron never talks back!  :)

I think the gym is better then any drug.  New goals are also key along with trying new things.
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: AVBG on July 24, 2013, 01:57:07 PM
Stop trying to "plan" life & don't worry about what you can't control. Besides that, move away from the U.S - that'll help.
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: Overload on July 24, 2013, 02:09:00 PM
Besides that, move away from the U.S - that'll help.

Good point, i think the US drives people to work their life away and sucks you into a very face paced stressful life.


8)
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: AVBG on July 24, 2013, 02:20:11 PM
Good point, i think the US drives people to work their life away and sucks you into a very face paced stressful life.


8)

When interacting IRL with people from all parts of the globe a common denominator of the generally dissatisfied is where they're from and alarmingly the states just doesn't hold up.
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: gym**rat on July 24, 2013, 03:10:19 PM
44 sucks    :(

Wait until you throw on 10 more arce, it really sucks big time then.   ;)
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: Teutonic Knight on July 24, 2013, 03:20:18 PM
serious question to middle aged getbiggers:
As i am getting older (35 now) it is harder and harder to not think and worry about future all the time - where i am going, am i at the right place, will i ever do a job i enjoy, what if i get fired, should i save more money etc-etc. I cant really enjoy a movie or a book anymore, i mean i cant forget the outside world during these, even if its the best movie or book ever. The same in teh gym: sitting between sets and thinking about things to do. Any ideas?

Every man need his "Robinson Crusoe" island: small farm/cabin in the woods/boat/motorhome,etc,.
Just don't tell yours wife about it  ;D
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: Nirvana on July 24, 2013, 06:06:22 PM
Stick with compound movements and a high protein diet.
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: calfzilla on July 24, 2013, 06:16:35 PM
Try being black they don't seem to worry about any of those things. Just sounds like you are a responsible adult, just remember to play hard too and have some fun.
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: WalterWhite on July 24, 2013, 06:27:39 PM
Wait until you throw on 10 more arce, it really sucks big time then.   ;)

Eight more years is not bad at all though ;)  Just keep up all your physical activity and include weights!
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: Psychopath on July 24, 2013, 06:44:57 PM
The only way you can switch off is by suicide or drugs, and drugs is another form of slow suicide.

HTH
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: Natural Man on July 24, 2013, 06:46:17 PM
serious question to middle aged getbiggers:
As i am getting older (35 now) it is harder and harder to not think and worry about future all the time - where i am going, am i at the right place, will i ever do a job i enjoy, what if i get fired, should i save more money etc-etc. I cant really enjoy a movie or a book anymore, i mean i cant forget the outside world during these, even if its the best movie or book ever. The same in teh gym: sitting between sets and thinking about things to do. Any ideas?
"maturing/aging" = realizing you re an animal struggling for its survival against all the human competition. If you have money , if you re surounded by "loved ones" -people who want you to suceed, dominate, where they werent able to dominate so basically who live vicarously thru you- who give you advices on how to fuck people in the ass instead of being fucked i the ass by them, it's easier to cope... Others simply become violent, angry, jealous, or kill themselves realizing there is no justice or fairness in life, it's simply about adapting better than others and winning when they lose.
Having kids they can get money for your retirement, it's easier to defend yourself, survive in the specie if you create your own loyal group.

The funny is that ultimately our whole specie will get extinct anyway. So most people simply come to the conclusion, while im here, why not simply dominate blindly without caring about all these bullshits like religion, philosophy etc, -how useful are they for a poor man? it wont help him much, all of this is just a hobbie for rich people who dont have to survive daily killing others for a job and food- life is pain for everyone so lets be happy making others having a painful day. Now multiply this belief/behavior by 7, 8 9 billions of individuals.
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: Natural Man on July 24, 2013, 06:49:19 PM
When interacting IRL with people from all parts of the globe a common denominator of the generally dissatisfied is where they're from and alarmingly the states just doesn't hold up.
Again, nobody is "happy", everyone is only pretending to be happy. Everyone knows there are too many people, not enough jobs. Everyone says he hates his job, yet does his best daily to prevent any newbie from being recruited, anyone from taking his place, even if it's a shity place. Everyone criticizes the boss in front of his colleagues, and criticizes his colleagues in front of his boss. And the boss knows it well.

Life is war. Everything is an instrument to wage war, words, feelings, hapiness happen when you succesfully dominate , kill, when you see others fail. Anger, frustration, sadness happen when you fail to dominate, are dominated. Hope is when you envision yourself or you offsprings dominating others.

There is no way mankind can last forever, our so called intelligence, consciousness -of being animals- are only other weapons to wage war against others.
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: O.Z. on July 24, 2013, 06:51:58 PM
serious question to middle aged getbiggers:
As i am getting older (35 now) it is harder and harder to not think and worry about future all the time - where i am going, am i at the right place, will i ever do a job i enjoy, what if i get fired, should i save more money etc-etc. I cant really enjoy a movie or a book anymore, i mean i cant forget the outside world during these, even if its the best movie or book ever. The same in teh gym: sitting between sets and thinking about things to do. Any ideas?

be careful here, too much worries=anxiety, too much anxiety turns into mild depression, next you know it is clinical depression and suicide thoughts. And last step, suicide.
Beautiful day outside.
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: Chacka on July 24, 2013, 07:18:28 PM
I have been thinking about starting up again. It has been about 20 years. I love the smell and taste. I just started getting real paranoid after smoking it for 21 years. I started at 13.

it helps to learn which strains make you calm vs contemplative, indicas vs sativas, all things in moderation, if you live some place where its legal, all the better. Indicas definitely help you relax, go sleepy-sleepy   :D
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: Natural Man on July 24, 2013, 07:47:12 PM
add in some kids and you've got yourself a real living hell with no fucking end in sight
whether you have kids or not, life is still all about struggling for your survival against the competition. For some having kids help and motivate, for others it's a chore depend of your own upbringing.
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: ESFitness on July 24, 2013, 07:59:05 PM
serious question to middle aged getbiggers:
As i am getting older (35 now) it is harder and harder to not think and worry about future all the timebecause a goal without a plan is a dream - where i am going, am i at the right placeabsolutely not, if you have to ask, will i ever do a job i enjoy not as long as you work for someone else, what if i get fired you'd be lucky to get fired., should i save more moneythink of it as 'collecting' money, not saving. etc-etc. I cant really enjoy a movie or a book anymore, i mean i cant forget the outside world during these, even if its the best movie or book ever. The same in teh gym: sitting between sets and thinking about things to do. Any ideas?
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: O.Z. on July 24, 2013, 08:09:27 PM
whether you have kids or not, life is still all about struggling for your survival against the competition. For some having kids help and motivate, for others it's a chore depend of your own upbringing.

this is me
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: axestream on July 24, 2013, 08:27:26 PM
Have a little faith in yourself. You've gotten this far, you can handle anything life throws at you.
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: Teutonic Knight on July 24, 2013, 08:36:18 PM
My personal and professional life were both a house of cards. My personal life collapsed so at least I don't have to worry about that anymore. However, it costs me almost $100K a year for that "peace of mind."

If my professional house of cards collapses, then I'm really fucked.

I try not to think about it.

Don't give up easily, & if U have too "hit the road Jack" relocate/restart new life & delete your past  ;)
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: Teutonic Knight on July 24, 2013, 08:41:52 PM
PAY OFF YOUR DEBTS......then it gets easier and less stressful.

Nope, borrow hips on credit cards & declare yourself officially bankrupt  ;D ;D ;D
You'll live for the next 5 years without credit cards, no big deal anyway  ;)
Relocate to warm climate & live  :D
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: The Abdominal Snoman on July 24, 2013, 08:49:04 PM
If you're doing something that causes stress and you know will always cause you stress, stop doing it and move on...Most of the people working their ass off in jobs they hate will end up being sick when they get older...But at least they might have enough money to pay for being sick...lol...Stress is the single worst thing you can do to your body over a long period of time...The American system is set up to stress you the fukc out...Therefore if you make it to retirement age, you'll be in and out of the Hierarchy's medical system where they can give you a HOT SHOT and any given time...
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: Teutonic Knight on July 24, 2013, 08:54:33 PM
...use to know 3 guy's who where pissed of with theirs jobs,nagging wife gone fat,2-3 screwed kids
and other usual married mans issues, ............after divorce, forced to pay child's supports
.....all 3 told me: I am pissing of .......2 of them escaped from Sydney's lifestyle to the
Northern Teritory of Australia,NT well known for a cowboy's lifestyle .....the 3rd one
lives in European Comunity & on postcard he said: loved & attending football
matches all over .............

Good luck to them, :D
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: Natural Man on July 24, 2013, 09:31:09 PM
If you're doing something that causes stress and you know will always cause you stress, stop doing it and move on...Most of the people working their ass off in jobs they hate will end up being sick when they get older...But at least they might have enough money to pay for being sick...lol...Stress is the single worst thing you can do to your body over a long period of time...The American system is set up to stress you the fukc out...Therefore if you make it to retirement age, you'll be in and out of the Hierarchy's medical system where they can give you a HOT SHOT and any given time...
Newsflash, life kills...
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: The Abdominal Snoman on July 24, 2013, 09:34:27 PM
Newsflash, life kills...

Ya but there are many ways to make it easier...Spotting stress triggers and reacting to them is key...

Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: Master Blaster on July 24, 2013, 09:36:43 PM
If you can find something that gives you a sense of passion. It's hard for me, but sometimes I can pursue a course of thought that will give my life an intense sense of meaning. It doesn't last, it's fleeting and far between, but when it comes the whole universe opens up and explodes with joy and purpose.  :-*
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: deceiver on July 25, 2013, 12:08:22 AM
Uberman, I seriously feel sorry about you.
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: kyomu on July 25, 2013, 01:11:17 AM
Because you are trying to be someone and you fotgot that you are nothing
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: Mr Nobody on July 25, 2013, 03:12:16 AM
Because you are trying to be someone and you fotgot that you are nothing
Will you enter another BB contest K? You did well in the last one.
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: Irongrip400 on July 25, 2013, 04:11:29 AM
Good point, i think the US drives people to work their life away and sucks you into a very face paced stressful life.


8)

Yes. This is true. But, there is a trade off for that hard work. Less vacation time, meals out, etc, but you usually have a big house and are more monetarily sound.
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: Teutonic Knight on July 25, 2013, 03:03:23 PM
Yes. This is true. But, there is a trade off for that hard work. Less vacation time, meals out, etc, but you usually have a big house and are more monetarily sound.

In South Korea they have 2 days (yes 2) annual leave, with bosses approval only  :P
Emigrating to the US or Australia is like visiting Disneyland for 3 yo !
Boy's if U a after fresh Asian pussy, Koreans dating websites is place for it,
just promise her 4 weeks of annual leave  ;D
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: Mr Nobody on July 25, 2013, 03:05:44 PM
Later.
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: AVBG on July 25, 2013, 08:21:41 PM
Uberman, I seriously feel sorry about you.

X2  :'(
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: Marty Champions on July 25, 2013, 08:26:09 PM
serious question to middle aged getbiggers:
As i am getting older (35 now) it is harder and harder to not think and worry about future all the time - where i am going, am i at the right place, will i ever do a job i enjoy, what if i get fired, should i save more money etc-etc. I cant really enjoy a movie or a book anymore, i mean i cant forget the outside world during these, even if its the best movie or book ever. The same in teh gym: sitting between sets and thinking about things to do. Any ideas?

this sounds like the start of a great novel keep going brother!
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: BIG AL MCKECHNIE on July 25, 2013, 08:50:45 PM
Good point, i think the US drives people to work their life away and sucks you into a very face paced stressful life.


8)

The US drives the 99% to work their arses off to pay the 1% massive income. To think differently means you are not a true American.  Land of the free?  Land of the brainwashed muppets more like. Everywhere else in the civilised world everyone can live without worry about medicine, pensions etc as they get older.
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: Kwon_2 on July 25, 2013, 09:05:43 PM
Life sucks

But at least we still have Getbig...

Until Ron deletes our posts  ;D
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: POB on July 25, 2013, 11:24:38 PM
add in some kids and you've got yourself a real living hell with no fucking end in sight

Lmao, ;D and your life will consist of posting hot chics with a gay man thrown in here and there for your GB brothers :D
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: RustyTrenbolona on July 25, 2013, 11:44:42 PM
The US drives the 99% to work their arses off to pay the 1% massive income. To think differently means you are not a true American.  Land of the free?  Land of the brainwashed muppets more like. Everywhere else in the civilised world everyone can live without worry about medicine, pensions etc as they get older.


 the old 'one percent target' of hatred is completely misguided. so long as USA spends tax money on useless earmarks and senators and presidential holidays and HUGE military there will be no early retirement for its citizens. How about we call it the political one percent that determine where citizens money goes as the proper target of ire.

another problem is slackers milking the system of which there are plenty in Europe. once the slackers feel entitled to their benefits, there is no going back. Under the guise, life is to be enjoyed, lol lets have 10 kids and free healthcare because we have a right to enjoy life... it only takes one fly to spoil the soup.

HUman rights is a right to clean water and outdoor oxygen full stop. not the right to free dental 8 weeks holiday 3 years paid maternity leave with job being held vacant till return etc etc.
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: kyomu on July 26, 2013, 01:07:25 AM
Will you enter another BB contest K? You did well in the last one.
Yes sir.
Day 27th of October. IFBB Copa de cataluņa. And UIBBN nationals.
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: Tapeworm on July 26, 2013, 02:15:01 AM
The worst that will happen is you'll have to go to work for 8 hours a day for the rest of your life.  It's a first world problem.

Yes, you should find a way to switch off if you're a miserable bastard.  Somewhere you cancel shitty thoughts for awhile.  The gym.
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: YngiweRhoads on July 26, 2013, 03:46:10 AM
I'm 45 and life is great.

Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: Mr Nobody on July 26, 2013, 07:28:28 PM
Yes sir.
Day 27th of October. IFBB Copa de cataluņa. And UIBBN nationals.
Cool man, sorry to hear about the train crash there.
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: Teutonic Knight on July 26, 2013, 07:47:10 PM
Yes sir.
Day 27th of October. IFBB Copa de cataluņa. And UIBBN nationals.

Do you like Real Madrid  ;D
Title: Re: Can you switch off?
Post by: O.Z. on July 26, 2013, 07:49:55 PM
X2  :'(


Uberman is pure gold