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Title: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Board_SHERIF on October 22, 2017, 05:28:21 PM
could be your Spouse, GF or BF or your Tgirl, are you cheating on them now? feel bad or indifferent ?

I did today, and nowt care


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: SF1900 on October 22, 2017, 05:32:59 PM
I've never cheated.

How did you cheat?


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Board_SHERIF on October 22, 2017, 05:33:58 PM
I've never cheated.

How did you cheat?

your married?


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: SF1900 on October 22, 2017, 05:35:45 PM
your married?

No.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Parker on October 22, 2017, 06:04:18 PM
Getbig ninjas can't cheat on themselves. The left hand knows what the right hand is doing.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Man of Steel on October 22, 2017, 06:05:49 PM
could be your Spouse, GF or BF or your Tgirl, are you cheating on them now? feel bad or indifferent ?

I did today, and nowt care

Why cheat?


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: warez4gold on October 22, 2017, 06:26:32 PM
never cheated


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Dan-O on October 22, 2017, 06:42:48 PM
Never have.  Never will.  You don't do that to someone you love.  Cheating is a very selfish, spiteful thing to do.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: el numero uno on October 22, 2017, 07:12:18 PM
could be your Spouse, GF or BF or your Tgirl, are you cheating on them now? feel bad or indifferent ?

I did today, and nowt care

 :D


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: el numero uno on October 22, 2017, 07:17:22 PM
I'm surprised the consensus so far has been to not cheat.

Getbig is usually very sexist.




Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: chaos on October 22, 2017, 08:35:12 PM
Why cheat?
Are you saying Mormon is the way to go if you want multiple women? :D


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: SF1900 on October 22, 2017, 08:49:24 PM
I'm surprised the consensus so far has been to not cheat.

Getbig is usually very sexist.




As I have said in the past, the majority of getbiggers are ALL talk. Getbig provides them with a place to say stuff that they would not otherwise say in "real life." In real life, this is what most getbiggers would do.

(http://www.reactiongifs.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/omgwtf.gif)


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: visualizeperfection on October 22, 2017, 09:36:05 PM
As I have said in the past, the majority of getbiggers are ALL talk. Getbig provides them with a place to say stuff that they would not otherwise say in "real life." In real life, this is what most getbiggers would do.

(http://www.reactiongifs.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/omgwtf.gif)

In real life I'm very strong and very brave.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: sceagacros on October 22, 2017, 10:47:09 PM
Studies show that the male frontal cortex , which is associated with processing 'consequences' - doesn't finish developing completely until around the age of 26.
In my own life something 'clicked' empathy wise around that age and I am no longer able to cheat as the understanding of the hurt and pain I would bring to the other person completely prevents me from doing so.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: TTfit on October 22, 2017, 11:34:50 PM
I've never cheated on my current partner. What's the point if I'm going to be exclusive with her. We aren't in the dating stage. We are an exclusive monogamous couple.

I've cheated in the past. I hope/think I'm now mature enough to not make the same mistake again.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Evo on October 22, 2017, 11:36:31 PM
Never have...never will.



Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: calfzilla on October 22, 2017, 11:48:46 PM
FYI 1 in 4 of you studs are being cheated on by your woman  8)


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Simple Simon on October 22, 2017, 11:54:14 PM
My Mrs caught me cheating about three years ago...I used single cream instead of double cream in a fish pie...shes forgiven me now but it was touch and go for a while...


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Rimstinger on October 22, 2017, 11:56:52 PM
As I have said in the past, the majority of getbiggers are ALL talk. Getbig provides them with a place to say stuff that they would not otherwise say in "real life." In real life, this is what most getbiggers would do.

Another theory is that Getbiggers barely get laid, so the "cheating" question is irrelevant. Some are lucky enough to have tricked a 5 or a 6 to marry them and that's their only way out to getting some. A man is as faithful as his options, and Getbiggers options are non existent.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: sceagacros on October 22, 2017, 11:57:27 PM
FYI 1 in 4 of you studs are being cheated on by your woman  8)

I bet you're a real hit at parties....    ;D


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Skorp1o on October 23, 2017, 12:03:07 AM
FYI 1 in 4 of you studs are being cheated on by your woman  8)

^This

And if you live in a big city and your wife has a full time job, make that 3 out of 4. And the longer you've been together the more likely she has...and the best part is that you'll never suspect in a million years.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: ratherbebig on October 23, 2017, 12:03:42 AM
whatabout cheating on your training partner? sneaking into the gym for an extra workout without him now and then


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Simple Simon on October 23, 2017, 12:04:55 AM
^This

And if you live in a big city and your wife has a full time job, make that 3 out of 4. And the longer you've been together the more likely she has...and the best part is that you'll never suspect in a million years.

 ???


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: calfzilla on October 23, 2017, 12:10:02 AM
???

Speaking of cheating partners, where is your getbig better half? He's the ying to your yang.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Simple Simon on October 23, 2017, 12:11:12 AM
Speaking of cheating partners, where is your getbig better half? He's the ying to your yang.

hes an advisor to joon on the gh15 account


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: calfzilla on October 23, 2017, 12:13:33 AM
hes an advisor to joon on the gh15 account

 :D


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: el numero uno on October 23, 2017, 02:57:06 AM
Another theory is that Getbiggers barely get laid, so the "cheating" question is irrelevant. Some are lucky enough to have tricked a 5 or a 6 to marry them and that's their only way out to getting some. A man is as faithful as his options, and Getbiggers options are non existent.

lmao


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: thatrandomguy#7 on October 23, 2017, 03:14:34 AM
^This

And if you live in a big city and your wife has a full time job, make that 3 out of 4. And the longer you've been together the more likely she has...and the best part is that you'll never suspect in a million years.

and if she travels for work at all, that much more likely as well.   


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: residue on October 23, 2017, 05:54:00 AM
^This

And if you live in a big city and your wife has a full time job, make that 3 out of 4. And the longer you've been together the more likely she has...and the best part is that you'll never suspect in a million years.

polyamory is all the rage now in brooklyn, don't have to cheat. if i'm sleeping with another girl my primary is there sitting on her face


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: SF1900 on October 23, 2017, 06:01:07 AM
In real life I'm very strong and very brave.

VP, you are the obvious exception. Goodrum too.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Board_SHERIF on October 23, 2017, 06:34:53 AM
Why cheat?

I messed around for many years when I was married, and vowed to change my ways after getting divorce. I was good for 3 different GF's over 4 years.
Been seeing someone new for a few months, but said fuk it and and had fun.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Man of Steel on October 23, 2017, 06:54:16 AM
I messed around for many years when I was married, and vowed to change my ways after getting divorce. I was good for 3 different GF's over 4 years.
Been seeing someone new for a few months, but said fuk it and and had fun.

So basically you prefer to cheat because it's fun?  Is that right?



Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Tapeworm on October 23, 2017, 07:03:44 AM
The world needs more cheating.  People only cheat with someone who is more desirable than their partner.  This will improve the gene pool instead of what we have now which is two ugly idiots breeding hideous dropkick kids.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: ilalin on October 23, 2017, 07:04:55 AM
paying for an escort to provide you with 30 min of safe relaxation is not cheating. your dues are paid. the only thing is you want to save your resources for the kids so this option has to be carefully weighed.
you come home relaxed bringing all the love and more relaxation to your partner. judging from the comments here a lot of people are lying or did not really have a chance to fuck another woman. i got hit many times, even with the promises of 'i love anal' but did not do it. you guys must either look like shit, are very very shy or western man in general has evolved to have empathy more than the balkan boys. my friends regularly hit shit with paying while on bussines or conference travel.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: gym**rat on October 23, 2017, 07:10:03 AM
The world needs more cheating.  People only cheat with someone who is more desirable than their partner.  This will improve the gene pool instead of what we have now which is two ugly idiots breeding hideous dropkick kids.

Sorry Tape but I disagree with that. Most people who cheat end up cheating with someone less desirable than their partner. It is usually the thrill of doing a taboo act of cheating and that the person you bang is acting horny as hell unlike the partner of many years. Or the person you cheat with will do things your partner will not do. Like anal, 3-ways, golden showers, kinky dress, S&M or hang by the Mirage ice machine.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Tapeworm on October 23, 2017, 07:18:22 AM
golden showers

Gf asked me to pee on her awhile ago and I still haven't.  I bet there's like 5 guys over there right now pissing all over her.  :(


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: loco on October 23, 2017, 07:18:51 AM
I messed around for many years when I was married, and vowed to change my ways after getting divorce. I was good for 3 different GF's over 4 years.
Been seeing someone new for a few months, but said fuk it and and had fun.

Just out of curiosity, why didn't you just break up with her instead of cheating on her?  Didn't wanna hurt her feelings?  Do you consider breaking up immoral or sinful?


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Board_SHERIF on October 23, 2017, 07:19:36 AM
So basically you prefer to cheat because it's fun?  Is that right?

 horny, and yes it is/was exciting.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Board_SHERIF on October 23, 2017, 07:21:36 AM
Just out of curiosity, why didn't you just break up with her instead of cheating on her?  Didn't wanna hurt her feelings?  Do you consider breaking up immoral or sinful?

still with her and not breaking up. my choice was to jerk off or have fun, I chose fun.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: polychronopolous on October 23, 2017, 07:25:57 AM
i just couldn't imagine to see the hurt in her eyes


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Board_SHERIF on October 23, 2017, 07:26:01 AM
paying for an escort to provide you with 30 min of safe relaxation is not cheating. your dues are paid. the only thing is you want to save your resources for the kids so this option has to be carefully weighed.
you come home relaxed bringing all the love and more relaxation to your partner. judging from the comments here a lot of people are lying or did not really have a chance to fuck another woman. i got hit many times, even with the promises of 'i love anal' but did not do it. you guys must either look like shit, are very very shy or western man in general has evolved to have empathy more than the balkan boys. my friends regularly hit shit with paying while on bussines or conference travel.

Dominican dudes are married and have a GF, this is fully accepted there.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Man of Steel on October 23, 2017, 07:26:15 AM
horny, and yes it is/was exciting.

Well if that's your choice then cool, but I don't honestly know if I've never met a truly happy cheater....especially as the years roll on.

You ever experience any regret after the cheating is done?  Or does the happiness of the moment outweigh the consequences?

Obviously consequences occur when the cheating is discovered and that leads to anger and discussions about accountability.

Or the personal turmoil in your conscience...the inner conflict.  Any of that?  Trying not to sound too "Star Warsy" here  ;D


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Board_SHERIF on October 23, 2017, 07:28:04 AM
i just couldn't imagine to see the hurt in her eyes

Sounds like you are married to an amazing women. I am NOT, If I was I woundnt play around.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Board_SHERIF on October 23, 2017, 07:31:35 AM
Well if that's your choice then cool, but I don't honestly know if I've never met a truly happy cheater....especially as the years roll on.

You ever experience any regret after the cheating is done?  Or does the happiness of the moment outweigh the consequences?

Obviously consequences occur when the cheating is discovered and that leads to anger and discussions about accountability.

Or the personal turmoil in your conscience...the inner conflict.  Any of that?  Trying not to sound too "Star Warsy" here  ;D

Of course I regret to this day. Like I said I changed my ways for 4 years and had it done to me (karma) - its sucks. I relapsed yesterday after going to  a club Saturday night and getting all worked up.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Man of Steel on October 23, 2017, 07:33:24 AM
Sounds like you are married to an amazing women. I am NOT, If I was I woundnt play around.

I have a close friend that was married to a beautiful, smart woman and she cheated on him because she found him to be "unremarkable" (I believe that was the term used...something like that).   He is/was a contractor...worked with his hands.....blue collar.  Made a decent income, but she wanted a "Wall Street" type and went out and got one.   It was ironic because they didn't rush into the relationship or marriage....a number of years they dated and then were married for a few so it wasn't as though she didn't know what she was in for.   She just decided he wasn't an amazing man I suppose.



Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: polychronopolous on October 23, 2017, 07:34:39 AM
Sounds like you are married to an amazing women. I am NOT, If I was I woundnt play around.

I have friends and acquaintances who say "I hate my wife" with little emotion or humor involved.

Just a resigned statement as they come up with another excuse or order one more beer to buy them another half hour to avoid going to that hell hole they call "home"


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Man of Steel on October 23, 2017, 07:34:55 AM
Of course I regret to this day. Like I said I changed my ways for 4 years and had it done to me (karma) - its sucks. I relapsed yesterday after going to  a club Saturday night and getting all worked up.

I get it.  We all mess up from time to time....to our shame.  I've messed up plenty in my life in other things.

Sounds like you're looking for the door on your current relationship.  Fair assessment?


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Man of Steel on October 23, 2017, 07:37:48 AM
I have friends and acquaintances who say "I hate my wife" with little emotion or humor involved.

Just a resigned statement as they come up with another excuse or order one more beer to buy them another half hour to avoid going to that hell hole they call "home"


Yeah I can't fathom that type of lifestyle where you hate your spouse.   Is my wife the most beautiful woman in the world with all the best talents and traits?  Not according to the world's standards, but she's pretty awesome in my eyes.  I love her to death.  And I get not everyone experiences relationships like that.

Mine was a union under God and that makes all the difference when it's genuine like that.

I have no fear of my wife cheating on me and she has no fear of me cheating on her.   I'm blessed and thankful.  Nothing better to me than being home with my girls....that's the essence of life to me.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Dr.J on October 23, 2017, 07:45:52 AM
Define "cheating"


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: polychronopolous on October 23, 2017, 07:46:31 AM
Yeah I can't fathom that type of lifestyle where you hate your spouse.   Is my wife the most beautiful woman in the world with all the best talents and traits?  Not according to the world's standards, but she's pretty awesome in my eyes.  I love her to death.  And I get not everyone experiences relationships like that.

Mine was a union under God and that makes all the difference when it's genuine like that.

I have no fear of my wife cheating on me and she has no fear of me cheating on her.   I'm blessed and thankful.  Nothing better to me than being home with my girls....that's the essence of life to me.

And of course the first scriptural verse that comes to mind is Proverbs 18:22

The Bible is just an amazing masterpiece of work. How we can spend years discussing and deconstructing individual verses and yet The Lord blesses us with these little gems of wisdom that even a child can understand.

And not only are you blessed with her but you also receive favor from The Lord in addition.

Such a powerful and basic message.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: phreak on October 23, 2017, 07:49:49 AM
I never actively cheat on my wife. I just stand passively while my gf sucks me off.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Man of Steel on October 23, 2017, 07:50:22 AM
And of course the first scriptural verse that comes to mind is Proverbs 18:22

The Bible is just an amazing masterpiece of work. How we can spend years discussing and deconstructing individual verses and yet The Lord blesses us with these little gems of wisdom that even a child can understand.

And not only are you blessed with her but you also receive favor from The Lord in addition.

Such a powerful and basic message.

Exactly and the passage in Proverbs 31 about the virtuous wife/woman is also very telling.

Even Paul wrote that he wishes we could all be single in order to worship and submit to God more fully, but it's better that we marry so that we don't burn with lust and that each spouse fulfill the needs of the other.

For me, it's like, the blueprint for success in relationships is in biblical scripture....it's all there! ;D   Do this and be happy.  Do this and be sad.  Instead it's "nah, doin it MY way".

Ahight.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Skorp1o on October 23, 2017, 08:00:28 AM
Define "cheating"

Telling your wife you're coming home late due to work constraints as you smash a T-girl.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: gym**rat on October 23, 2017, 08:04:34 AM
Gf asked me to pee on her awhile ago and I still haven't.  I bet there's like 5 guys over there right now pissing all over her.  :(

It is amazing the amount of women into it. Best method is to squeeze and pinch off so it does not come out and build some good pressure. Then have her expose her clit. Then release and pinch, release and pinch over and over directly hitting her clit. It will drive her crazy.




At least that is what I read in a book one time.  :-[


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Rimstinger on October 23, 2017, 08:16:14 AM
It is amazing the amount of women into it. Best method is to squeeze and pinch off so it does not come out and build some good pressure. Then have her expose her clit. Then release and pinch, release and pinch over and over directly hitting her clit. It will drive her crazy.




At least that is what I read in a book one time.  :-[

Why not punch her in the face instead, for being a disgusting whore.

(https://www.thesun.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2017/04/punch-2.png?strip=all&w=960)



Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Simple Simon on October 23, 2017, 08:18:08 AM
paying for an escort to provide you with 30 min of safe relaxation is not cheating. your dues are paid. the only thing is you want to save your resources for the kids so this option has to be carefully weighed.
you come home relaxed bringing all the love and more relaxation to your partner. judging from the comments here a lot of people are lying or did not really have a chance to fuck another woman. i got hit many times, even with the promises of 'i love anal' but did not do it. you guys must either look like shit, are very very shy or western man in general has evolved to have empathy more than the balkan boys. my friends regularly hit shit with paying while on bussines or conference travel.

Im sure your wife agrees.... ::)


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: gym**rat on October 23, 2017, 08:22:16 AM
Why not punch her in the face instead, for being a disgusting whore.

(https://www.thesun.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2017/04/punch-2.png?strip=all&w=960)



What if another guy pissed on her face 5 minutes prior. You will have anothers mans piss on your hand while you eat your post-face punch sandwhich. THAT is disgusting!


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Tapeworm on October 23, 2017, 08:29:06 AM
It is amazing the amount of women into it. Best method is to squeeze and pinch off so it does not come out and build some good pressure. Then have her expose her clit. Then release and pinch, release and pinch over and over directly hitting her clit. It will drive her crazy.




At least that is what I read in a book one time.  :-[

In our upcoming conversation, in which I keep a straight face while congratulating her for her courage in being so honest, I'm going to describe reading your post as 'research which I did online.'


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: SF1900 on October 23, 2017, 08:40:03 AM
i just couldn't imagine to see the hurt in her eyes

This.

I always think to myself, "Would I like this done to me?" Then, its easy to make a decision.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: polychronopolous on October 23, 2017, 08:42:06 AM
Exactly and the passage in Proverbs 31 about the virtuous wife/woman is also very telling.

Even Paul wrote that he wishes we could all be single in order to worship and submit to God more fully, but it's better that we marry so that we don't burn with lust and that each spouse fulfill the needs of the other.

For me, it's like, the blueprint for success in relationships is in biblical scripture....it's all there! ;D   Do this and be happy.  Do this and be sad.  Instead it's "nah, doin it MY way".


Ahight.

This concept is nothing new. In terms of Biblical scripture, Moses laid this out circa 14th century BC.

From the very beginning to Deuteronomy ĎIt is only eleven days journey from Horeb by the way of Mount Seir to Kadesh-barneaí (on Canaanís border)
(Deuteronomy 1:2).

One of the more ironic verses in all of scripture.  :)

In Chapters 3 and 4 of Deuteronomy, Moses urges The Israelites to break away from their stubbornness and obey The Laws of God.

And then this entire concept and teaching is reinforced in the The Acts of The Apostles with Saul of Tarsus and the life he led prior to his conversion.

The beautiful thing is that we are taught Redemption in both cases written about 1500 years apart.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: gym**rat on October 23, 2017, 08:54:05 AM
In our upcoming conversation, in which I keep a straight face while congratulating her for her courage in being so honest, I'm going to describe reading your post as 'research which I did online.'

I will PayPal you $50 if she doesn't immediately grab your wrist and pull you into the shower.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: ilalin on October 23, 2017, 10:12:12 AM
The thing is, I see people here criticizing addicted bodybuilders, even making fun of them. then they say how they would never cheat on their wife because love and empathy is there. when you have empathy then you have it no matter what.

a bunch of two-faced lying kunts worried about their marriage contract and $$$ to the point where their masculinity is maximally suppressed. no wonder you have people blowing their steam off by blowing dudes in prisons and killing innnocent people on the street. america, wake the fuck up.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: deadz on October 23, 2017, 10:35:37 AM
Cheating..not worth the consequences. Plenty of good porn available to fulfill fantasies.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Beefjake on October 23, 2017, 10:41:30 AM
I have things that I do with the woman who lives with me and my kids. Happens to be their mother.
I have other hobbies that she is not in to. Those I enjoy with my own time and pleasure.
Like lifting( hanging out at the gym ), movies and sex.

If she wants to join me for a workout, or a movie, fine. Same with sex. But I am perfectly able to do those with out her.
I don't go out trying to find fuckbuddies, but I have rarely turned down an opportunity.
God, I'm so easy. Slut even 😆


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: ilalin on October 23, 2017, 10:43:42 AM
Cheating..not worth the consequences. Plenty of good porn available to fulfill fantasies.

true


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: ilalin on October 23, 2017, 10:44:41 AM
I have things that I do with the woman who lives with me and my kids. Happens to be their mother.
I have other hobbies that she is not in to. Those I enjoy with my own time and pleasure.
Like lifting( hanging out at the gym ), movies and sex.

If she wants to join me for a workout, or a movie, fine. Same with sex. But I am perfectly able to do those with out her.
I don't go out trying to find fuckbuddies, but I have rarely turned down an opportunity.
God, I'm so easy. Slut even 😆

ahh, refreshing, an honest man...


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: HTexan on October 23, 2017, 10:53:00 AM
I've never cheated.

How did you cheat?
Not married yet. But very soon I think.
I never cheated either. Lying is too much work.
Now I have been cheated on once, she sleep with an ex boyfriend, or so she told me.  Left her so I never really found out.
And have been accused of cheating twice by psycho and psycho-er. One thought i was cheating becuase I had to travel for work, and the other thought I cheated because I when to visit my mom. This dizzy bitch would stalk me, and ring my door bell and run away in the middle of the night for weeks after we broke up. She sent me random images of her looking sad for 2 years after, and threatened to go to my job and make a scene and get me fired.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: SF1900 on October 23, 2017, 10:57:41 AM
Not married yet. But very soon I think.
I never cheated either. Lying is too much work.
Now I have been cheated on once, she sleep with an ex boyfriend, or so she told me.  Left her so I never really found out.
And have been accused of cheating twice by psycho and psycho-er. One thought i was cheating becuase I had to travel for work, and the other thought I cheated because I when to visit my mom. This dizzy bitch would stalk me, and ring my door bell and run away in the middle of the night for weeks after we broke up. She sent me random images of her looking sad for 2 years after, and threatened to go to my job and make a scene and get me fired.

So, you obviously know what it feels like to be cheated on, hence not wanting to do it to someone else.

Yes, the other ex's sound very difficult to deal with it. I'd imagine that is not something that would make a strong relationship. People enter into relationship with all of their insecurities, which are often based on childhood experiences--its two unconscious's "bumping up against" each other. It often makes for a messy situation.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: thatrandomguy#7 on October 23, 2017, 01:05:50 PM
all these people who know their spouse isn't cheating on them (or better yet, never has and never will)....

I can only say for sure of people I know that have cheated - they told me, were otherwise busted, I otherwise had knowledge (like I fucked a married woman knowledge)

so you can only know with absolute certainty if there is proof of cheating. lack of proof does not = innocent  here at all.


 

 


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: thatrandomguy#7 on October 23, 2017, 01:08:45 PM
Define "cheating"

right?
bj ok?
happy ending at a massage place?
a wife opening her soul to some guy with intimate details of her dreams, what she finds lacking in her spouse, etc (with chicks it's always emotional, right?)


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: thatrandomguy#7 on October 23, 2017, 01:09:27 PM
why do people cheat?

'cause they think they can get away with it.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Henda on October 23, 2017, 01:12:28 PM
This.

I always think to myself, "Would I like this done to me?" Then, its easy to make a decision.

This

I try and apply this thought process to all areas of life


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: SF1900 on October 23, 2017, 01:21:14 PM
This

I try and apply this thought process to all areas of life

Exactly.

Man, I could never cheat on my significant other.

I don't get how people do it and are okay with it.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Simple Simon on October 23, 2017, 01:22:10 PM
I cant even watch TV shows when the cheating partner gets outed, its so fucking uncomfortable....


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Henda on October 23, 2017, 01:25:54 PM
Exactly.

Man, I could never cheat on my significant other.

I don't get how people do it and are okay with it.

Exactly

Especially donít understand people who are ok doing it when they have kids, if it all comes out and relationship ends how in the fuck can anyone live knowing they destroyed their kids chance at having a happy family? Iíd hate living with that guilt


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: SF1900 on October 23, 2017, 01:30:42 PM
Exactly

Especially donít understand people who are ok doing it when they have kids, if it all comes out and relationship ends how in the fuck can anyone live knowing they destroyed their kids chance at having a happy family? Iíd hate living with that guilt

Yeah, poor kids. Not saying it's okay, but it's obviously a different dynamic if you cheat and don't have kids.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: polychronopolous on October 23, 2017, 01:35:14 PM
Exactly

Especially donít understand people who are ok doing it when they have kids, if it all comes out and relationship ends how in the fuck can anyone live knowing they destroyed their kids chance at having a happy family? Iíd hate living with that guilt

And you look down at that young man you call a son and you begin to notice the anger and resentment he has towards you for destroying his mother's life.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: HTexan on October 23, 2017, 01:46:05 PM
So, you obviously know what it feels like to be cheated on, hence not wanting to do it to someone else.

Yes, the other ex's sound very difficult to deal with it. I'd imagine that is not something that would make a strong relationship. People enter into relationship with all of their insecurities, which are often based on childhood experiences--its two unconscious's "bumping up against" each other. It often makes for a messy situation.
People can hide their crazy for a period of time. That is why I never understood why people rush to get married during the honeymoon period of a relationship. It takes time to know if bitches are crazy.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: The Wizard of Truth on October 23, 2017, 02:02:40 PM
No way


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Slapper on October 23, 2017, 04:53:18 PM
You folks know that your "little virgins" were banging other dudes before they met you right?



Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Dan-O on October 23, 2017, 05:27:35 PM
You folks know that your "little virgins" were banging other dudes before they met you right?



Classically arrogant, condescending liberal logic from someone who says "Conservatives are to be hung by their balls."  

Do you really think people are that stupid and naive to presume their SO was a perfect little angel before they met?  ::)


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Slapper on October 23, 2017, 05:33:43 PM
Do you really think people are that stupid and naive to presume their SO was a perfect little angel before they met?  ::)

So what is the difference between the then and the now?

Sometimes a pussy falls right out of the sky unannounced and wanting nothing but to get some ranga-ranga... would you turn it down? Conversely, is she happens to be right under a bag of dicks and does the same... Why is it bad?

I'm not saying it is good, but cheating is not the evil we all make it out to be.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Slapper on October 23, 2017, 05:35:24 PM
For the record, I've never cheated on my wife.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Dan-O on October 23, 2017, 05:55:06 PM
So what is the difference between the then and the now?

Sometimes a pussy falls right out of the sky unannounced and wanting nothing but to get some ranga-ranga... would you turn it down? Conversely, is she happens to be right under a bag of dicks and does the same... Why is it bad?

I'm not saying it is good, but cheating is not the evil we all make it out to be.

I don't know about other guys but I'm married, I adore my wife and would never betray her like that.

If someone is married and both parties are into having an open relationship, then go for it, I guess.  But honestly I've never heard of extramarital sex strengthening and affirming a marriage relationship (or even a monogamous dating relationship, for that matter).  Typically the opposite effect occurs.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: calfzilla on October 23, 2017, 05:59:51 PM
Also many racist whites, possibly in this thread, some of their wives/girlfriends are cheating on them with dindus.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Primemuscle on October 23, 2017, 06:11:20 PM
Interesting thread.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: HTexan on October 23, 2017, 06:27:11 PM
Also many racist whites, possibly in this thread, some of their wives/girlfriends are cheating on them with dindus.
Not racist, but the bitch that cheated on me was black, and the other dude was white.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: cephissus on October 23, 2017, 07:20:16 PM
Exactly

Especially donít understand people who are ok doing it when they have kids, if it all comes out and relationship ends how in the fuck can anyone live knowing they destroyed their kids chance at having a happy family? Iíd hate living with that guilt

Some people create kids to justify their own worthless existence. When they realize their kids are just as worthless (even more, maybe) than they were, they may not feel guilt.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Primemuscle on October 23, 2017, 11:31:36 PM
Some people create kids to justify their own worthless existence. When they realize their kids are just as worthless (even more, maybe) than they were, they may not feel guilt.

At what point does a parent realize their kids are worthless and why? I have kids who are now mature adults and they've never been "worthless", quite the opposite.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: rocket on October 24, 2017, 06:14:35 AM
I'm not saying it is good, but cheating is not the evil we all make it out to be.

Who cares whether it is an evil?

What is negative is the sheer amount of time it will take the person you cheat on, to get over it.

When you factor that into the equation, it seems like a vastly wrong thing to do for such a minor profit in your own pleasure column.

Now, that is based on you wanting to stay with the woman and the woman being good.  If you have a weak / cheap / undesirable relationship - well, that's slightly different.

There are lot of people who lack empathy out there - basically animals, so it's hardly surprising that so many people cheat.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Griffith on October 24, 2017, 06:37:04 AM
No.

If I was going to I would first end my current relationship.

People who cheat with married people with children are scumbags. You are hurting a child.




Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: robcguns on October 24, 2017, 06:53:07 AM
I donít cheat and have only once on a gf when I was 20.Very surprised at the amount of getbiggers saying cheating is bad though.Every one I know cheats except me,figured most getbiggers were cheaters.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: XFACTOR on October 24, 2017, 07:03:17 AM
paying for an escort to provide you with 30 min of safe relaxation is not cheating. your dues are paid. the only thing is you want to save your resources for the kids so this option has to be carefully weighed.
you come home relaxed bringing all the love and more relaxation to your partner. judging from the comments here a lot of people are lying or did not really have a chance to fuck another woman. i got hit many times, even with the promises of 'i love anal' but did not do it. you guys must either look like shit, are very very shy or western man in general has evolved to have empathy more than the balkan boys. my friends regularly hit shit with paying while on bussines or conference travel.

Aside from the escort part I would agree with this.  It's pretty safe to say most of these guys do not get chances to bang beautiful woman.  It's in a mans DNA.  If a beautiful woman approaches you in a flirtatious way while away for work, on an airplane, in a restaurant etc.., if your first instinct is not to put off the same energy you might need to double check your own crotch make sure things are still working.




Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Simple Simon on October 24, 2017, 07:08:31 AM
I donít cheat and have only once on a gf when I was 20.Very surprised at the amount of getbiggers saying cheating is bad though.Every one I know cheats except me,figured most getbiggers were cheaters.

most getbiggers are single and living at home with mom...


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: robcguns on October 24, 2017, 07:22:33 AM
most getbiggers are single and living at home with mom...

Yes I forgot about that.hahaha.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Al Doggity on October 24, 2017, 07:39:42 AM
So what is the difference between the then and the now?

Sometimes a pussy falls right out of the sky unannounced and wanting nothing but to get some ranga-ranga... would you turn it down? Conversely, is she happens to be right under a bag of dicks and does the same... Why is it bad?

I'm not saying it is good, but cheating is not the evil we all make it out to be.

 ::) ::) ::) ::) This is why it was so easy for me to disregard the drivel you posted in the thread I started on this topic as low-effort trolling.

http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?topic=628930.25

I, for one, am a "marriage warrior," and value the institution much more than your cheating ass.

I couldn't forget that marriage warrior line. One of the all-time most ridiculous posts I've read on here.  ::) 
Obviously, honoring your vows is something anyone who makes them should strive for, but cheating happens. It's fair to regard cheaters as scumbags if that's where you stand, but it's not some abnormal, unexplainable evil.   





Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Thespritz0 on October 24, 2017, 07:40:02 AM
When I was in the military, in the days WITHOUT cell phones and people constantly texting & being able to track each other I actually had 4 different girlfriends, in 4 different cities... ( 1)Ottawa, Ontario CANADA  2) Beausejour, Manitoba CANADA  3) Baden-Baden, GERMANY  4)  London, ENGLAND
Nobody knew anything except me, and I was always acting like the "good innocent guy" back then!


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: residue on October 24, 2017, 07:40:40 AM
So what is the difference between the then and the now?

Sometimes a pussy falls right out of the sky unannounced and wanting nothing but to get some ranga-ranga... would you turn it down? Conversely, is she happens to be right under a bag of dicks and does the same... Why is it bad?

I'm not saying it is good, but cheating is not the evil we all make it out to be.

deception, I'm not bothered by the sex, like I've said we're poly, the lying is the issue


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Al Doggity on October 24, 2017, 07:47:28 AM
I've never cheated.

How did you cheat?

Have you ever been in an adult relationship? If so, that is shocking news to me.  :o


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Grape Ape on October 24, 2017, 08:03:30 AM
Have you ever been in an adult relationship? If so, that is shocking news to me.  :o

?

When you procure quality beef like this, quality ass always follows.

(http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?action=dlattach;topic=635609.0;attach=747831;image)


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: SF1900 on October 24, 2017, 08:09:48 AM
?

When you procure quality beef like this, quality ass always follows.

(http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?action=dlattach;topic=635609.0;attach=747831;image)

Good looks and good food!


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Al Doggity on October 24, 2017, 08:20:22 AM
deception, I'm not bothered by the sex, like I've said we're poly, the lying is the issue

So, as long as she admits to having an affair, you're perfectly fine with it?


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: residue on October 24, 2017, 08:38:32 AM
So, as long as she admits to having an affair, you're perfectly fine with it?
sure, i mean we have rules and boundaries. she only sleeps with other women or if i'm going to she has to be involved. but as long as everyone's upfront who cares, it's just sex. 


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: XFACTOR on October 24, 2017, 08:52:19 AM
sure, i mean we have rules and boundaries. she only sleeps with other women or if i'm going to she has to be involved. but as long as everyone's upfront who cares, it's just sex. 

Props for that arrangement man!


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: denarii on October 24, 2017, 09:02:51 AM
^This

And if you live in a big city and your wife has a full time job, make that 3 out of 4. And the longer you've been together the more likely she has...and the best part is that you'll never suspect in a million years.

Given the shape of most American full time working women are talking about cheating on their diet with tubs of Ben and Jerrys here?


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: denarii on October 24, 2017, 09:06:14 AM
Exactly

Especially donít understand people who are ok doing it when they have kids, if it all comes out and relationship ends how in the fuck can anyone live knowing they destroyed their kids chance at having a happy family? Iíd hate living with that guilt

Yeah sharing a coal miners terrace with your ex wife would be uncomfortable to say the least. And I don't just mean having to look at painful decor choices.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Henda on October 24, 2017, 09:13:40 AM
Yeah sharing a coal miners terrace with your ex wife would be uncomfortable to say the least. And I don't just mean having to look at painful decor choices.

Haha the last of the pit rows in my town were pulled down 30 years ago and I donít care about the Ďdecorí thats a womanís endeavour

Below 25% bodyfat yet?


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: OlympiaGym on October 24, 2017, 09:35:11 AM
!


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: denarii on October 24, 2017, 09:53:20 AM
Haha the last of the pit rows in my town were pulled down 30 years ago and I donít care about the Ďdecorí thats a womanís endeavour

Below 25% bodyfat yet?

Drinking too much so it's about 20 at moment


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Al Doggity on October 24, 2017, 09:57:25 AM
sure, i mean we have rules and boundaries. she only sleeps with other women or if i'm going to she has to be involved. but as long as everyone's upfront who cares, it's just sex. 

So, your reaction would be different if she slept with a man and kept it a secret than it would be if she slept with a woman and kept it secret?



Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: FREAKgeek on October 24, 2017, 10:01:02 AM
could be your Spouse, GF or BF or your Tgirl, are you cheating on them now? feel bad or indifferent ?

I did today, and nowt care

You wouldn't want it done to yourself, and you want to live in a civilized society, not something chaotic. That means it's wrong.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: residue on October 24, 2017, 10:29:44 AM
So, your reaction would be different if she slept with a man and kept it a secret than it would be if she slept with a woman and kept it secret?


no, either would end our relationship. cheating is gender neutral


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Da Freak on October 24, 2017, 12:28:49 PM
a rare interesting topic on GB. following.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Board_SHERIF on October 24, 2017, 02:42:31 PM
You wouldn't want it done to yourself, and you want to live in a civilized society, not something chaotic. That means it's wrong.

Yes I know, it was done to me after I changed my ways. I am not married anymore and date 40-50 year old lunatic MILFS, trying dating these mental midgets and you will know what I mean.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: _bruce_ on October 24, 2017, 03:23:24 PM
Cheating can be related to some kind of powerplay that the better equipped part of the relationship(not always though) keeps on the side to get over the boredom that's sure to creep in.
On the other hand people cheat to get a new option for moving on as in avoiding a "down period" where nobody is around to fuck or spend time with.

Never cheated on a partner but I was with women who were betraying their men and this was the time where I observed the adventure side to females which many seem to keep hidden behind a socially acceptable facade.

Kinda shitty for the men who are big earners and trusting.  :D


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Thong Maniac on October 24, 2017, 03:53:33 PM
Yes I know, it was done to me after I changed my ways. I am not married anymore and date 40-50 year old lunatic MILFS, trying dating these mental midgets and you will know what I mean.

Fake tit milfs?


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Slapper on October 24, 2017, 05:10:07 PM
::) ::) ::) ::) This is why it was so easy for me to disregard the drivel you posted in the thread I started on this topic as low-effort trolling.

http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?topic=628930.25

I couldn't forget that marriage warrior line. One of the all-time most ridiculous posts I've read on here.  ::) 
Obviously, honoring your vows is something anyone who makes them should strive for, but cheating happens. It's fair to regard cheaters as scumbags if that's where you stand, but it's not some abnormal, unexplainable evil.

Al, not the same thing. In the other thread I was bothered by the fact that you seemed to be announcing that you were going to cheat on your wife.



Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Slapper on October 24, 2017, 05:14:14 PM
I don't know about other guys but I'm married, I adore my wife and would never betray her like that.

If someone is married and both parties are into having an open relationship, then go for it, I guess.  But honestly I've never heard of extramarital sex strengthening and affirming a marriage relationship (or even a monogamous dating relationship, for that matter).  Typically the opposite effect occurs.

Dude, I feel the same way about my wife... I'm not into open relationships, although if something were to happen to me, I'm 100% sure I wouldn't go swat on her or anything of the sort.

Being married is HARD work, and honestly, from what I've seen and heard, a hit-and-run once a year would help a lot of relationships.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: doggler on October 25, 2017, 12:08:37 AM
 bj181 cheats on his white boyfriend with thugs from the hood. He loves being humiliated.


(http://s1.postimg.org/8c1uay7xr3/step0001.jpg.png)


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Al Doggity on October 25, 2017, 05:41:55 AM
Al, not the same thing. In the other thread I was bothered by the fact that you seemed to be announcing that you were going to cheat on your wife.


::) Disregarding the fact that nowhere in that thread did I "seem to be announcing" I was going to cheat, you were arguing with others as well, so it wasn't about the specifics of my situation. The link is right there. It was clear what your character's role was supposed to be and it was clear that it was just some weaksauce trolling.My responses to you reflected that. Now you've done a complete 180 in a matter of weeks and it's clear that it's just more lazy trolling.

No need to respond, though. You're not convincing  and I doubt anyone besides me cares, anyway. Just think it's funny when trolls show their ass in obvious ways.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Board_SHERIF on October 25, 2017, 01:44:16 PM
Fake tit milfs?

No...mostly MILFS without the ILF  :-\


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: HTexan on October 25, 2017, 05:14:50 PM
bj181 cheats on his white boyfriend with thugs from the hood. He loves being humiliated.


(http://s1.postimg.org/8c1uay7xr3/step0001.jpg.png)
Kinky


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Board_SHERIF on November 06, 2017, 07:06:02 AM
Cheated again on Saturday, I need sex once per week and she was to busy to see me..justified in my mind.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: phil mcgroin on November 06, 2017, 05:39:43 PM
Wtf,am I on the pussy forum,I thought this was get big.we rape and pillage and when we have our fill we rest.whats this emotion b.s.boo who,I don't want to hurt her feeling,what if she did that to me.then I'd go take her sister AND her mother.goddamn any getbiggers left?


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: IRON CROSS on November 08, 2017, 12:37:29 AM
On girlfriends yes, so many times  ;D ;D ;D


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: BSN on November 08, 2017, 07:27:43 AM
 ;D


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Board_SHERIF on December 17, 2017, 04:43:45 PM
So I was informed today by the girl I have been seeing that we are not "exclusive".  So I am fully vindicated.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: SF1900 on December 17, 2017, 06:08:35 PM
So I was informed today by the girl I have been seeing that we are not "exclusive".  So I am fully vindicated.

Thanks for telling us! I was losing sleep over it!


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: chaos on December 17, 2017, 06:10:06 PM
Thanks for telling us! I was losing sleep over it!
Who the hell unbanned you? >:(


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Board_SHERIF on December 17, 2017, 06:12:04 PM
Thanks for telling us! I was losing sleep over it!

LOL - their is no loyalty in today's dating world for the over 40's. Its a shame what is has come to..


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: SF1900 on December 17, 2017, 06:14:44 PM
Who the hell unbanned you? >:(

Vince Goodrum, CSN, MFT, HPP, CEO.

He's a big player in the bodybuilding and fitness world.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: SF1900 on December 17, 2017, 06:15:43 PM
LOL - their is no loyalty in today's dating world for the over 40's. Its a shame what is has come to..

I do not think it has anything to do with age, but more to do with the access to numerous dating sites.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: chaos on December 17, 2017, 06:17:18 PM
Vince Goodrum, CSN, MFT, HPP, CEO.

He's a big player in the bodybuilding and fitness world.
Vince doesn't even like you.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: SF1900 on December 17, 2017, 06:31:46 PM
Vince doesn't even like you.

(http://gif-finder.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/Obama-Crying.gif)


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: QuietYou on December 17, 2017, 07:02:44 PM
Every guy should have a wifey that is maybe a 7 and is a loyal girl who they can talk about important things with, have her help you with your work, and have sex with and pleasure her and buy her some stuff and sheís more life a best friend. Then in the side, men should be fucking 9ís and 10ís constantly. Whether theyíre paid for or not but these relationships are not as serious and mostly solely based on sex. I think this helps more in the long run because you get your temptation out of the way and can spend more real time with the girl that matters without being half focused on other stuff.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: robcguns on December 17, 2017, 07:07:28 PM
I donít get how people just go on dating apps and fuck different people all the time.Arent people disgusted with themselves and afraid of getting diseases?Fucking gross people nowadays.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Tapeworm on December 17, 2017, 10:30:28 PM
Perhaps they made their peace with love being contingent and kindnesses being performed in expectation of reciprocal acts.  A descent into hedonism is inevitable if the possibility of an enduring foundation for a relationship doesn't exist.

Or maybe people just like fucking.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Go 4 It on December 17, 2017, 10:44:36 PM
I don't know how any of you guys can cheat, its way too much work, remembering all the lies, being paranoid of getting caught, hiding, sneaking around..it's too much man. Just break up with your girl if you aren't happy, life is short.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Beefjake on December 18, 2017, 06:32:12 AM
Greatest trust that woman can ever achieve is with a man.
But it is not towards their husbands.

                                    - David Lee Roth


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: elmerhoff on January 22, 2018, 05:15:10 AM
Greatest trust that woman can ever achieve is with a man.
But it is not towards their husbands.

                                    - David Lee Roth
;D


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Irongrip400 on April 20, 2018, 06:25:48 PM
deception, I'm not bothered by the sex, like I've said we're poly, the lying is the issue

I couldn't do that. I hate strapping up, and that's just too many people to trust that may bring you home something that doesn't wash off. This isn't the only reason, but I don't think I could do that even if my wife were cool with it. Is that the same as swinging?


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: Irongrip400 on April 20, 2018, 06:29:26 PM
I had a buddy who told me his wife would tell him he could have a girlfriend/s when he went out of town. They were in a rough patch and she wasn't fucking him because of depression and she told him to go get a hooker or something. I asked, but I don't think he ever took her up on it. Kind of like in the "Hall Pass" movie.


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: dick kockinsmith on April 22, 2018, 07:08:16 PM
1st 6 girlfriends cheated on over 200 times with 50 other girls got caught by half of em, confessed to the other ones down the line just to reverse my bad karma

ages 18-23

what fun those days were, should have just told the girlfrineds i wasnt serious, ruined my reputation during these years and the girl im dating now didnt trust me for 18 months

wasted many moons chasing girls and partying could of been an entrepenuer, now im older its harder less fire in you, more responsibilities, less room for error, woulndt take those days back though, as no im living great doing good, and chasing my goals with sharp focus

never gonna break again till i make it

dont loose yourself in the game boys


Title: Re: How many of you are activly cheating on your partner
Post by: HTexan on April 23, 2018, 08:14:40 AM
Vince Goodrum, CSN, MFT, HPP, CEO.

He's a big player in the bodybuilding and fitness world.
Melvin isnít straight, he is a bottom slut though.....