Bro, I'm 33 and I've been with more women than all of your tanning salon sessions combined. I look good enough without a ripped six pack. I don't carry a lot of bodyfat but I don't obsess with ab exercises either. Try making some money and get a good career and the women you get at that point will blow some of the hot ones you've been with away. Just trying to put things in perspective for you. But nothing wrong with trying to look good.
I totally agree with ya brother! Perhaps he'll learn on day.