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Getbig Alternative Boards / Relationship Talk, Questions, Pictures & More! (18+) / Re: Homosexuality 101
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on: February 18, 2007, 04:42:42 AM
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in a perfect world, different doesn't equal bad. but you live in the USA, and there different is bad. maybe if you live in the netherlands, then it would be much much easier for you. (anything goes there) I come from Lebanon, and I really know what different can cause. I am gay, just more sexually open that other Lebanese and sometimes people see me as a freak. no matter how "western" USA claims to be, its a very religious country. don't look at the TV and decide its not religious, it IS religious... when I visited the USA twice I met more religious people in the US that I do meet in Lebanon. And for most "religious" people, anything out of the "norm" is bad. well no, not religious people... religious people if they bother to read their books, they will all know that religions are about tolerance. But fake religious people are the problem. so moral of the story , Move to netherlands 
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Getbig Alternative Boards / Relationship Talk, Questions, Pictures & More! (18+) / Re: Homosexuality 101
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on: February 16, 2007, 05:08:31 PM
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hi BayGBM, I read your other thread about the surrogate mother, and since the other thread went off topic with all the insults and homophobic agressivity, I thought I would post in here instead. I am totally with gay relationships, gay marriages, gay rights etc. because if two(or more) people love each others there shouldn't be any reason so they aren't allowed to be together.(no matter what the religion fanatics and homophobics in here thing its wrong or not). But I stand at the adoption/mother thing and then I start thinking. Till now I am still against it, not because I am against the right of gays of having children, but because I am affraid of the impact on the child. We all know that any child being brought up by a single parent is more or less different, either missing the authority of the father or the tenderness of the mother, which makes that person's personality a bit different. Now for the adoption, I think 2 parents from the same sex providing love and caring is better than no love and caring at all. For the surrogate mother its a bit worse, because you are bringing a child in a disadvantaged environment on purpose, which I think needs to be studied even more. Another problem...other kids. You know the cruelest people in any child's life are other kids. Kids tend to find anything different in others and tease them and make their life hell (I think you as a "different" person knows exactly what I mean).So imagine that kid being teased every single day for having 2 homosexual parents, that would be hell for him/her and he/she would hate you from bringing him. maybe its an over simplification. I think the only solution to is to have the mother permanently with you, which is of course would be weirder, if she starts dating and wants to marry someone. so really don't know... just my 2 cents...
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Getbig Alternative Boards / Relationship Talk, Questions, Pictures & More! (18+) / Re: New Rules For This Board
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on: November 23, 2006, 05:19:40 PM
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well its a discussion forum about sex, that's what I see. forums are places to discuss usually, not insult each others, put porn that is found everywhere. I see alot of threads when someone tries to open a discussion and suddenly all the insecures males jump on him, and insult him one way or another. Its just too childish, I am always interested on how other perceive all sexual activities, their kinds, their fantasies and stuff like that, at first this forum was going that way, that's why I registered. But suddenly it became all about getting illegal passes, showing nipple slips (woah a nipple!!! bleh), upskirts, insulting people sexual orientations, and link to porn videos. The funny thing the average age is pretty high in here, and the funny thing that discussion on some community sites where the average age is 21, seems more mature and more accepting. just weird... that's why I totally back up dina for this decision, I hope the old forum gets back the way it was before.
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Getbig Alternative Boards / Relationship Talk, Questions, Pictures & More! (18+) / Re: New Rules For This Board
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on: November 22, 2006, 05:28:53 PM
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totally disagree with you tokyo joe, if they aren't mature enough enough to have a sexual discussion.(which is the point of this forum). then yeah they can go elsewhere, if the only thing they want to see is porn, why even bother being here in the first place? there are plenty of forums dedicate exclusively for porn, and porn is very easy to find online. I am starting to really wonder about the age group in here, if all they want is to watch porn and using explicit language,it kinda remind me of my early teen years.
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