What goes on between you and your buddy should stay between you two. No need for her to find out. Did you two do it? or just jerked off together like good ole times?
Speaking of your teenage years flinstones1, someone asked on the internets " How common is it to jerk off with your high school buddies?"
A couple of obvious getbiggers, replied:
"Dude, ignore the people that said it was GAY. Its not. I am one of the most perverted kids at my school and talk about girls and **** and whatever all the time. I have jerked off with my friends( obviously guys), let 5 times before. It wasn't planned. Look, this is what happened. We were surfing the web and playing games when on the game site we saw this porn commercial,m ad thingy. I clicked it, and this free porn site called you-porn or whatever came up. So we were like: "Oh ****". So what we did was, we hooked it to the t.v., got two blankets, covering them over our *****, sitting on separate couches, and we didn't even look at each other. We both jerked off and i didn't see his dick, nor did he. We were "covered". We didn't talk about it or whatever, it wasn't planned, it just happened. I'm 14, hes 14. So what?? As long as you now you're not gay, and you know he's not gay, who gives a $hit? Don't you get dressed in the locker room with the guys taking their pants off, all in briefs, boxers, and underwear. Same thing. In college, they won't even have underwear. They'll all be naked. With your coach walkin' around to get to his office. No one cares!! AS long as you know what you did isn't wrong, then so what?"
Forever a Yale Boy
"I used to do even more. When I was in the 6th grade I walked home with a close friend and sometimes we'd get to my house and go in to have some food and chill and we'd just end up talking about someone we thought was hot or something and five minutes later we'd be rubbing each other off and after the first few times it was comfortable to even just say "dude, I'm horny, wanna jerk off?"...Often women don't understand this because they don't have testosterone guiding puberty, but most guys admit that they've done this when they were younger.
If it makes you comfortable, it's totally safe and ok. Kids your age often experiment with friends, cousins, other guys at camp, in school, etc. Don't be afraid to try new things, even if you don't just do it in the same room, but actually watch each other, help each other out, touch each other, hell, even kissing! You are still experimenting, and it doesn't make you "gay" as people often think. In my child psychology class we learned that most males don't define their sexuality until they are in their twenties, and often have same-sex relations with friends all the way through high school.
And even if you find yourself feeling like maybe you are gay and prefer men in the end, it's not a bad thing. It's better not to question what is normal at this age and learn to accept who you are and what you like regardless of what society likes when you come to that fork in the road.
Just enjoy growing up, and be happy with who you are."