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26  Getbig Main Boards / Gossip & Opinions / Re: Life after Bodybuilding on: July 28, 2014, 02:51:17 PM
muscle building is completely vain and pointless, just like everything else in life.

Hope this helps.

Unfortunately - this is true... and depressing.

Anyway, better to enjoy a fit body than to be a fat/fat-skinny slob, while it lasts..
27  Getbig Main Boards / Gossip & Opinions / Re: Life after Bodybuilding on: July 28, 2014, 02:49:29 PM
It's about staying young for as long as possible and being in a best shape that's possible for any given time. If there's a "finishing point" for you after 5years - you're doomed to quit...


28  Getbig Main Boards / Gossip & Opinions / Re: Is it possible to keep long term relationship with woman fresh? on: July 28, 2014, 02:44:58 PM
If the sex dies down you are doomed to split. Is it still good?

29  Getbig Main Boards / Gossip & Opinions / Re: Is it possible to keep long term relationship with woman fresh? on: July 28, 2014, 02:33:59 PM
Yeah. Just invite me, I'll spice things up for both of you. You'll be able to watch.
30  Getbig Main Boards / Gossip & Opinions / Re: Anti aging and wellness clinics? on: July 28, 2014, 02:32:27 PM

fuck, imagine how good that would be.

It'd turn back the clock in most tissues to some level, not enough to fully reverse aging, but a human would be in a state of a healthy 30yo while being 60 or something along the lines..
31  Getbig Main Boards / Gossip & Opinions / Re: Aug 9 on: July 28, 2014, 02:13:57 PM
AUGUST 6
32  Getbig Main Boards / Gossip & Opinions / Re: Anti aging and wellness clinics? on: July 28, 2014, 02:10:57 PM
Wait for some stem cell therapies or other real aging-reversal stuff. It shouldn't take too long for the first ones to be available. Save your money till then (I'd estimate - 10-15years from now, and you may very well be able to turn back some aspects of your biology to a more youthful phenotype. I think - some organs, skin, will be the first. Later on - intracellular junk disposal therapies, mitochondria rejuvenation, etc... till aging will be a choice, for people with money.).
33  Getbig Main Boards / Gossip & Opinions / Re: The 6 rules of success - Arnold Schwarzenegger on: July 28, 2014, 06:30:57 AM
Without the D-bol and other goodies he would be homeless living on Venice Beach.



O a millionaire in some other field...

People always try to downplay very succesfull people in this way "only if they were.. blah blah..". Maybe they were just smarter and harder working, uh?
34  Getbig Main Boards / Gossip & Opinions / Re: Sev's new Facebook profile photo. on: July 28, 2014, 06:16:20 AM
Quite an 80's looking photoshop job. Maybe they doesn't have new computers in Romania?
35  Getbig Main Boards / Gossip & Opinions / Re: Dan Bilzerian Howard Stern Interview on: July 27, 2014, 07:20:52 AM
I'm offering a different point of view, not an absolute. If all you see is misery my friend, then misery will colour your world. Money is a tool, nothing more. All the money in the world won't avail a jaded mindset; money helps of course, but you can still be rich and miserable if your mind is not in the right place.

I don't even disagree with you per se. Dan Bilzerian certainly looks like a happy chap, but his happiness stems from a mindset. You seem intent on proving that happiness is anchored to circumstance, but some of the highest rates of depression and mental illness are in westernised countries, which are also the most advantaged. So your extreme examples don't quite hold water.

That's what I said - if you are somewhat sane and have some imagination, money can be the final piece of the puzzle to be as close to "happiness" as it's possible in this life that's very cruel for most people. And the highest rates of depression is because of that rat race that many people just doesn't have an ability to win. Other than that - cases of extreme behaviour is far more prevalent in third world countries. Humans are quite crazy to begin with, in western society the craziness is somewhat tamed down.
36  Getbig Main Boards / Gossip & Opinions / Re: Dan Bilzerian Howard Stern Interview on: July 27, 2014, 04:36:34 AM
Are you afraid of the actual process of death? I think that's what stops so many from getting it over with

I've already said - not a slighest. I'm afraid of being old and crippled/not being able to take care of myself. Death? What it is to be afraid of?
37  Getbig Main Boards / Gossip & Opinions / Re: Dan Bilzerian Howard Stern Interview on: July 26, 2014, 05:51:39 PM
We all have a choice, we all have a choice how to respond to our external circumstances. Whether it be to find happiness or fulfillment (yes, even in the difficult "storms" of life), or to be a slave to our own negative psychosocial conditioning.

Even most of the "responses" are either inherited or preprogramed. For some people the glass is always half empty, and for some it's always half full. Sorry.

You assume money allows you to control your external circumstances: it doesn't. Money doesn't protect you from suffering, money didn't stop Dan Blizerian from having 3 heart attacks. It won't mend his diseased heart pulsating limply in his chest.

Yeah, tell that to him when one day (maybe) he will buy a heart replacement grown in a lab and your family member will die because he/she won't be able to buy it. I don't even want to go further, it's just absurd to talk shit like that. Money doesn't protect yuou from suffering.. tell that to millions of people who are starving daily.

It is clarity and wisdom that free you from suffering; how you respond to your circumstances, whether you chose to rise above or get crushed in the undertow. We can all free ourselves from misery if we make the choice to do so. You may claim it isn't that simple, but it really is. It isn't even difficult either. Pain is transient, suffering is perceived as long as we allow ourselves to perceive it.

Yeah. I have a friend who's like 5'4, fat and pretty fugly + his parents put in some effort to make him socially awkward. Now you go tell him he's better of picking up hot chicks in a club instead of playing WoW day in, day out, while being 25. You don't know what the hell are you talking about.

You suffer, but why?
Ask this som cancer patient or someone who has no legs due to a mad man detonating himself in a parking lot, etc... Once again - nonsense, what you and alikes are tyring to push ir pseudo-spiritual pseudo-intellectual pseudo-philosophical nonsense.

38  Getbig Main Boards / Gossip & Opinions / Re: Dan Bilzerian Howard Stern Interview on: July 26, 2014, 05:44:14 PM
I get it, you are unhappy, and want to stay that way. And want to deny or deprive others of "happiness". Whatever happened in your life I hope you get over it.

I believe happiness and misery is a state of mind. And it can be fleeting, it can last long periods or it can last short moments. It could be said to exist in either extreme for long periods of time is detrimental, because it gives us a skewed sense of reality.
We as individuals compare ourselves for many different reasons. If one of those reasons is to see who is the happiest or most fulfilled, that is some weird ass shit. Like some sort of "happiness game".
"I am more happy than you!", "No, he is more happy than you!"
And how you quantify who is more "happy"?

The only thing I don't understand is why you choose to be so damn miserable, and just end it. But, instead you want to act like a disease and spread...and that probably in some way makes you "happy".
So, I propose this. If you choose to exist and not end it, then what do you live for? Answer that, and maybe seek happiness within that.

It doesn't matter what you "believe" in, only thing that matters is how our biology works, and it seems that you don't want to acknowledge it. As for my happiness - I'm very happy currently.

And how you quantify who is more "happy"?
- very simple. Odds of survival. Better or worse. That's it, nothing else to babble about. You have more money - your odds are better, you are better looking - your ods are better, you've got a female with great genes (compared to these around you) - your odds are better. To understand what is what - you have to compare, there's NO escape from that. I don't know what is it you don't like about that so much, but your "beliefs" won't change the "system", it's only that you may continue living in some personal delusions.. (which shatter anyway, sooner or later as you can't escape the reality).

The only thing I don't understand is why you choose to be so damn miserable, and just end it. But, instead you want to act like a disease and spread...and that probably in some way makes you "happy". - I'm not miserable, I've found ways to use the "system" to my benefit, and as long as I'm doing that succesfully - I'll just enjoy the ride. And if I'd find myself in a really miserable situation with no way out - I'm sure I'd put an end to it. The last thing I'm afraid of is - death. There's nothing to be afraid. So far existence seems more fun to me.

So, I propose this. If you choose to exist and not end it, then what do you live for? Answer that, and maybe seek happiness within that. - That's my bussiness and I don't have to explain it to anyone. The main argument was not about that. But you start to sound like a regular religious nut who finds some sort of an idea "emotionally unacceptable" so dismisses it by default. I call people like that - "Seekers of a state". You don't want to understand, you want to feel "happy". Some people achieve this by indulging in alcohol/drugs, some in religion, some in pseudophilosophical bullshit. More power to them.
39  Getbig Main Boards / Gossip & Opinions / Re: Dan Bilzerian Howard Stern Interview on: July 26, 2014, 01:18:52 PM
I think he just wanted to be the king of instagram. There's a ton of millionaire douchebags on there constantly showing off. He just wants to top them. I've never met the guy or spent time with him, so I won't waste time trying convince myself if he's happy or not.

Exactly. That was my point - people doesn't even know, yet (out of jealousy/frustration) start to make assumptions (in a negative way of course). Funny.
40  Getbig Main Boards / Gossip & Opinions / Re: Dan Bilzerian Howard Stern Interview on: July 26, 2014, 12:53:29 PM
I never said life is fair. Where did I say that? You have this problem like a lot of Westerners about "fairness". No life is not fair, and never was.
And yes, there is balance. Balance doesn't equal to fairness. Balance is natural, and so is conflict. And within conflict there is balance. A bird's wings beat against the air, causing it to fly...the conflict of its wings with the air creates a balance in which it can move fwd. It stops beating its wings (no conflict), it soon loses balances and sinks.

It's you who are unhappy and don't like the "game", its you who have thrown in the towel. Yet, you want to project to others it's them. Nope, it's you. You are the angry one. Angry at whatever it is in life. I accept the game for what it is, and what it has always been. Survival in it's rawness can be cruel, can be beautiful and can be awe inspiring. People who exist in a constant state of anger, bitterness, misery have their own internal issues to deal with. But, try to convince others to join in with them.

And that guy with the fat wife for 20 yrs...was she always that? And is he fat? Why did she get that way? If a man is that upset over it and tries to convince himself otherwise, then that is on him. Can she look better? Yes. What other things does she offer?  Take a look at Pierce Bronsan's wife. I let it go from there.


And yes, you can take bits and pieces, it is not a all or nothing deal. Not everything is of two extremes. Not everything is hot or cold, that is why there is a term called "warm".

And?

How does it change the fact that we compare ourselves with others and based on that "decide" whether we are happy or not.? (the thing we discussed earlier). Other pseudophilosophical stuff.. I'm too tired to respond.
41  Getbig Main Boards / Gossip & Opinions / Re: Dan Bilzerian Howard Stern Interview on: July 26, 2014, 12:39:53 PM
spending time with a table full of women... this is probably the worlds saddest man.  Cry

I hope he is..... Undecided
42  Getbig Main Boards / Gossip & Opinions / Re: Dan Bilzerian Howard Stern Interview on: July 26, 2014, 12:27:26 PM

What im saying is that you cant just envy somebodies life and pick the parts you like and forget about the rest, its the whole deal or nothing. If you live a certain way and theres a price to pay for that that needs to be included.

Even given that - most people would trade their lives. It's you and your delusions that doesn't agree with that. Once again - argue with these who drool on his fb and other accounts.




I think he cares a lot, much more than about money.

It doesn't matter what you think. All that matters is that he's doing whtever he WANTS with his life. While you and alikes do what they NEED to do.


But thats just it, even with all that money he doesnt seem to be able to find any meaning. He doesnt even have an account on getbig from what i can understand

Like you are the one who defines a "meaning". Rly, who are you to define that?



For somebody that doesnt give a damn he sure have funny ways of showing it

He doesn't give a damn about his "reputation", thus shows it how it is. That's what I wanted to say. Of course he likes to know that he can do much stuff that most people never ever will be able to do. Billions of people, not your neighbours or your town, etc..


So does lady gaga, common it's a spectacle.

Everything is a spectacle.

43  Getbig Main Boards / Gossip & Opinions / Re: Dan Bilzerian Howard Stern Interview on: July 26, 2014, 12:20:59 PM
The world I see everyday...the pain, hurt, misery...
Western people complaining, crying. And yes, I do talk to people from third world countries. Many of them see Westerners as weak, spoiled, child like, and ungrateful.

I have always been taught to be thankful for what you have. And don't complain about lacking XYZ. Have I from time to time, yes. My parents Didnt have much growing up, so when I am reminded of that, I am humbled.

The world I see...is not a fairy tale, it's is disturb twisted nightmare of a society that is literally dying out due to apathy, nihilism, and becoming their own gods and goddesses.
There are people in third world nations that have very little and can brighten your day. Yes, there is hunger and all the stuff that you listed, that is life, as it has been throughout the centuries. You just happen to be in the Western World and enjoy it, yet find some way to be miserable.

The natural rule is balance, equilibrium, always has been. Man likes to fuck up shit and ruin balance, and then complain, like a child that its toys are broken.
Yes, I can see what you are saying. But in this game called survival, you have to cooperate with others. Societies Didnt flourish unless people cooperated with others---to rise and many times fuck over or dominate another group.
There has to be a balance between them. No one or the other.


True, we do compare. There is a saying, "comparison is a sign of mediocrity". At what point is that true? I think that is when you start believing that the grass is greener on the other side.
And that is what it boils down to isn't it? We all think that the other person's grass is greener than ours. And the person we are looking at, and comparing ourselves to, is doing the same thing with us.
I am not saying it is wrong to want better. But what is better? Who determines that? And when is it that we become obsessed with "better" and start to appreciate what you have?




No balance, no quilibrium, all just a poetical, pseudo-philosophical nonsense, sorry. Life was never fair and will never be. I hope there won't be another ww in my lifetime, as if it will - you'll be able to see too of how irrational and senless these thoughts of a westerner leading a somewhat comfortable lifestyle, sounds.. You don't like the "game", I get it.. most doesn't like it, so they think of various similar stuff to justify it. The game won't change tho', best of luck at trying to do that..

And I can add: grass is sometimes A LOT greener on the other side. People, once again, just keep convincing - it is not, when they can't check it out. (just like a fella with a fat wife of 20 years tries to convince himself that "it's just a pussy/grass is not greener on the other side". Well he'd get a heart attack instantly if he'd realize that sometime its actually IS.)
44  Getbig Main Boards / Gossip & Opinions / Re: Dan Bilzerian Howard Stern Interview on: July 26, 2014, 12:15:29 PM
Again, to trade places with this guy you get his insecurities and drug addiction personality, you get the near death experience of 3 heartattacks etc. that comes with the money.

"Trading" - as being as rich and doing whatever the hell you want. Noone said - trading his heart attacks. Don't twist it.


How about having your daddy go to jail when youre 8 years old? Or spending years trying to be a mans man in the navy and then get kicked out? How that experience taste? Still wanna trade?


Most rich people are criminals and manage to avoid jail because of their money. Nothing wring with doing some time if you are a succesfull white collar criminal bussinessman.
 And why the hell he should care about the navy? Probably was just a game anyway.. being as rich - I wouldn't give a slighest shit about irrelevant stuff like that. Don't pretend that you would while flying in your private jet. LOL.. how fukkin hypocritical people are it's beyond belief.


How about trading love for rented sex? And kids to no kids?

I personally don't give much shit about kids and "love" is bought, one way or another. Some day you will learn this too.

How about having all the time in the world and 100 million dollars, yet spend most of your day playing poker (or world of warcraft, same waste of time)

I bet you are not spending your time any more fun. Vice versa - you are living just like billions of others. While he lives like a 1%.  Cheesy

A few more people say "no thanks"

Keep convincing yourself of that. Than all this shit flies through the window a day you get to be "On the top". But you won't, of course.  Roll Eyes

And finally, being so insecure about your sexuality that no matter how many pictures of you with a beard, women, guns, cars youre still in the closet...

That's what most rich people do behind the closed door. he difference is that this guy doesn't give a damn and show it all.

Only one guy left that is willing to trade lives. And that is you.

Tell that to millions of his followers  Cheesy Cheesy

45  Getbig Main Boards / Gossip & Opinions / Re: Dan Bilzerian Howard Stern Interview on: July 26, 2014, 11:59:02 AM
He has less choices than the fellow man as he has an addictive personality (drug abuse etc) and massive insecurities that apparantely he cant get rid of no matter how many photos of rented girls he posts online... he is also a failure, getting kicked out of the navy no choice in the world changed that (must be hard considering the success his father had in the military service...)


Yeah right. Now lets put it this way: you, your wife, your kids and billions of others wifes/husbands and kids will die after living a life that's more or less the same (usualy pretty boring and mediocre), and noone has ever gave, nor will give a fuck about your wife, kids or anything, except yourself, it doesn't matter at all at the end, you will die and he will die. The question is - which one has had most choices in life. You trying to say that he's less free is as funny as it gets. I can just repeat - keep convincing yourself of that (so you won't go insane knowing that some people in this life can have it all if they want..).
 You don't give a shit about your "success" in life (I guess you've made a lot more mistakes... Otherwise - you'd be as rich and as boss) when you are loaded and all you care is how to have fun the next day. (I'm sure he needs to work on how to keep his wealth.increase it. That's a job too.).
46  Getbig Main Boards / Gossip & Opinions / Re: Dan Bilzerian Howard Stern Interview on: July 26, 2014, 11:52:23 AM
Trading places with this guy means you get a father that went to prison, you had to experience 3 heartattacks before 30,  drug addiction, going to university for years (yet have no use for it, as you rather spend your time playing poker), have no family, no wife to come home to, no children the list goes on and on...

Who in their right mind would wanna trade places with that?

You keep projecting stuff that seemps imprtant to YOU. The difference is - he has a choice (to have one or another), and you - don't...
47  Getbig Main Boards / Gossip & Opinions / Re: Dan Bilzerian Howard Stern Interview on: July 26, 2014, 11:51:21 AM


Nobody wants to be around someone who is always unhappy, always complaining. Always miserable. But also, deep down inside some people tend to either envy or hate people who are always HAPPY...now, I am not talking about those who are faux happy, who fake happiness because they are just putting on a brave face for the world and who are truly miserable, I am talking about those who are always giving out good vibes, who make you smile when you see them, the ones that people love being around. Miserable people tend to hate them, and wish ill upon them.

Guess what - most rich who at least somewhat sane people are like that. What a surprise  Cheesy

Tell me, why do you believe that "earth is a shithole"? Earth is what it has always been. Are you one of those modern day pessimist that see only the negative, the war, the famine, the evil? That has been around. The problem in today's "modern world" is most people just go along for the ride, eventually becoming those that they despise. And if you believe in what you say, just end your reality right now...there are many ways to do it. I think you wouldn't and haven't because whatever you have now is a hell of a lot better than death---which the end of the road, the unknown. Here, you know how things play out.

Tell that to billions who starve, have illness, are old as fuck and wait for a death as each day passes, tell that to someone who was born in a thirld worlld country and can just dream about "peace" and a comfortable life. Tell that to someone who's struggling each and every day in this rat race, and you may very well be one of them, tell that to someone who doesn't have a chance to make something in this life just because he/she was born at the wrong place/at the wrong time or some homosexual who's sofferint of being "different", but he hasn't chose that... I see it as it is, with positives AND negatives and you want to paint it as a fairy tale.

You talk about using money to fuck people up...and you've always had this negative tone. Why not counter that, and why not balance? The natural order is balance. There is no overly righteous or the opposite.

There are these who can fuck you or these who are being fucked by you. Sorry, but that's the truth. Even your wife/gf submits to this rule.

I also believe in this age of social media, our society has propped up this idea that everybody is special, and that everybody will become rich, have a lot of money, and do very important things, when in fact the reality is that only few people become rich, accomplish extraordinary things. And when people start to realize that, and compare themselves to others, who are in turn comparing themselves to you, it sets off a negative chain reaction. That everybody is accomplishing something and has more than you, and is better than you, which begets negativity.

This is biological. To compare and to decide of how good you are at this "survival" game. Nothing too complicated, just how it works. You compare your body, wife, kids, etc.. with someone elses body, wife, kids.. And if someone else (esp. these that you know) have a lot better than you, well.. you are not very happy to say the least.
48  Getbig Main Boards / Gossip & Opinions / Re: Dan Bilzerian Howard Stern Interview on: July 26, 2014, 11:42:36 AM
Most people live a better life than this guy.

Yeah.. keep convincing yourself of that.
49  Getbig Main Boards / Gossip & Opinions / Re: Dan Bilzerian Howard Stern Interview on: July 26, 2014, 11:36:57 AM
Dude, it's really apparent. It doesn't take phd in psychology to figure this out.

For me it's really apparent that most people are fucked and will never recover, doomed to lead a mediocre life and die like the billions of the rest, and their kids will repeat the same.. That fella at least have a CHOICE of how to lead his life, that's a lot.
50  Getbig Main Boards / Gossip & Opinions / Re: Dan Bilzerian Howard Stern Interview on: July 26, 2014, 11:31:24 AM
No point in being rich if thats all you do with your money, might as well stay on wellfare since it pretty much equal the same life. What a waste.

Like you know what it is to be rich..

All people who are poor like "teaching" wirch ones how to spend their money "properly". Sweet irony.
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