Have you looked at his forehead???

In all fairness I find him to be a humble guy who lives for his kid and to be fair has less than ideal genetics for a sport he probably hates that he loves. From our chats about the only thing that motivates him is his kid and he doesn't want to be a typical dad bod trying to keep up. His more rational side realizes the futility in this and yet, like most/all of us, he is driven to somehow accomplish this unreachable goal. Bodybuilding is the dream that never was yet never dies for nearly all of us (bigro excluded) and yet, no matter how much we try, we always have the gym and our youth crying out for time and attention.

I won't put words in his mouth but I believe Brian wishes he could come here and shoot the shit and be accepted amongst a group of like minded people. No more no less.

Keep in mind I do not know him personally but I know him a little better than I know the rest of you. He seems a decent enough guy. For all his flaws no one on the board claims to be any better. Bodybuilding attracts imperfect people.

My perspective is this, his only actual responsibility in this life is being a good dad and I would say he's an excellent father and role model for his kid. Beyond that I dont know don't ask not my business. His lifting technique is ok, he's stronger than I am and he seems more dedicated than you all give him credit.

I was a huge critic of his but over time I realized he's one of us and a decent guy, good father, not much else to say.

That and he lives in a gingerbread house lol. His life is a fantasy compared to mine but I don't hate him for it. Happy he's happy. Live and let live. Life is far too short to focus on negative feelings for others.

In all fairness I find him to be a humble guy who lives for his kid and to be fair has less than ideal genetics for a sport he probably hates that he loves. From our chats about the only thing that motivates him is his kid and he doesn't want to be a typical dad bod trying to keep up. His more rational side realizes the futility in this and yet, like most/all of us, he is driven to somehow accomplish this unreachable goal. Bodybuilding is the dream that never was yet never dies for nearly all of us (bigro excluded) and yet, no matter how much we try, we always have the gym and our youth crying out for time and attention.

I won't put words in his mouth but I believe Brian wishes he could come here and shoot the shit and be accepted amongst a group of like minded people. No more no less.

Keep in mind I do not know him personally but I know him a little better than I know the rest of you. He seems a decent enough guy. For all his flaws no one on the board claims to be any better. Bodybuilding attracts imperfect people.

My perspective is this, his only actual responsibility in this life is being a good dad and I would say he's an excellent father and role model for his kid. Beyond that I dont know don't ask not my business. His lifting technique is ok, he's stronger than I am and he seems more dedicated than you all give him credit.

I was a huge critic of his but over time I realized he's one of us and a decent guy, good father, not much else to say.

That and he lives in a gingerbread house lol. His life is a fantasy compared to mine but I don't hate him for it. Happy he's happy. Live and let live. Life is far too short to focus on negative feelings for others.