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Helping my gf lose weight before Spring break
« on: January 11, 2007, 08:46:14 AM »
She wants to tone up and drop ten solid pounds before mid March.  I have her lifting four days a week with reps at 10-15 and working each bodypart once a week except abs which are hit every day as of last week.  Her self proclaimed problem areas are "loose" triceps (although not huge just need toning), abs/obliques, from mid thigh to butt, and butt.  She wants to lean her calves out too.  They are bigger than she wants from previously working on the beach.  Please let me know what I can do/advise to help her.
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Re: Helping my gf lose weight before Spring break
« Reply #1 on: January 11, 2007, 10:53:11 AM »
She wants to tone up and drop ten solid pounds before mid March.  I have her lifting four days a week with reps at 10-15 and working each bodypart once a week except abs which are hit every day as of last week.  Her self proclaimed problem areas are "loose" triceps (although not huge just need toning), abs/obliques, from mid thigh to butt, and butt.  She wants to lean her calves out too.  They are bigger than she wants from previously working on the beach.  Please let me know what I can do/advise to help her.
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Just get some clean protien in there. Fish and breasts...only drink water and chrystal light.

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Re: Helping my gf lose weight before Spring break
« Reply #2 on: January 11, 2007, 11:09:22 AM »
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Just get some clean protien in there. Fish and breasts...only drink water and chrystal light.
Yea but I feel like I'm missing something with her training.  You know?
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Re: Helping my gf lose weight before Spring break
« Reply #3 on: January 11, 2007, 02:14:14 PM »
She wants to tone up and drop ten solid pounds before mid March.  I have her lifting four days a week with reps at 10-15 and working each bodypart once a week except abs which are hit every day as of last week.  Her self proclaimed problem areas are "loose" triceps (although not huge just need toning), abs/obliques, from mid thigh to butt, and butt.  She wants to lean her calves out too.  They are bigger than she wants from previously working on the beach.  Please let me know what I can do/advise to help her.

cap, are you having her lift pretty heavy?  I am not a personal trainer nor a nutritionist, so feel free to accept or decline any of this post.

I'd have her using enough weight that her 15th rep would be the max number she could do w/proper form.  And if you can, you should be there and spot her.  It's so easy to fall into crappy form because our bodies seem to automatically try to take the easy way out. 

I guess I never really understood why people train abs more than once a week but many do.  When I did a show I didn't do abs until the last 3 weeks of my prep.  I guess we forgot!  But when the fat melts off, the abs are there.   I think it's important to do them for core strength and to help avoid back problems though.

You say you have her doing one bodypart a week (not counting abs) and she is lifting 4 days a week.  Is she training biceps, triceps, shoulders, back, chest and legs? 

In my experience if you have a lagging bodypart (one that needs a lot of work) you should train that bodypart twice a week if you can with a few days in between those workouts, and use different workouts. 

I'd also have her do plyometrics between her sets instead of just resting.  But you don't want to overdo it initially or she may start to hate to workout.

I'd also have her do cardio 6 days a week for at least 45 minutes each session.  If she has kind of a long way to go to reach her goal, she could do a second cardio session later in the day or at night 3-5 days a week. 

Cardio should be something somewhat intense like the eliptical, stairmaster, stepmill, jogging or walking at a good incline while squeezing her butt cheeks with each step.  She can mix them up if she gets bored....15 minutes on one machine, 15 on another, etc.

Have her use an IPOD or something for her cardio sessions and download some Crystal Method or something like that if she likes it.  It can keep her intensity up and help the session to go faster.  I'd also buy her Oxygen Magazine for inspiration.  They have excellent sample pre-contest diets that would probably be very beneficial for her if she can stick to them.

Jodi as well as many others here should have some good information for you. 

Do you have her workout pretty much established?  I can PM you one if you'd like when I get more time.  Let me know......but mine will be mixing a couple diff. bodyparts together each day. 

Get her the Oxygen Magazine!   :)

OH, and she may want to buy a new bikini and try it on every other day or so.  I tried on 2 today and it was not pretty :P  but it was motivating ;D




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Re: Helping my gf lose weight before Spring break
« Reply #4 on: January 11, 2007, 02:19:39 PM »
Her workout is pretty good IMO.  We need to get more cardio in for sure.  She does mostly 15 reps on exercises and form is good.  She is prone to lower back problems so we do abs for extra strength and because she has zero visible abs and she wants them.

It would be easier to press her cardio than completely revamp her diet.  She is a good sport but I don't want to push so much that she hates it.

All BP's are covered in a week but we are going to do tris twice a week, me for mass and her for tone.
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Re: Helping my gf lose weight before Spring break
« Reply #5 on: January 11, 2007, 03:23:18 PM »
Small thing, but try not to eat like such a bodybuilder in front of her. She may lose sight of portions if she's always eating with you alone and you scarf it down like nobody's business. Or at least, both be aware that she gets three leaves of lettuce and you get the 10 ounce hunk of meat. Believe me on this one.

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Re: Helping my gf lose weight before Spring break
« Reply #6 on: January 11, 2007, 04:40:39 PM »
Small thing, but try not to eat like such a bodybuilder in front of her. She may lose sight of portions if she's always eating with you alone and you scarf it down like nobody's business. Or at least, both be aware that she gets three leaves of lettuce and you get the 10 ounce hunk of meat. Believe me on this one.
That's funny but true.  I pig out all day around her.  I'll keep that in mind.
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Re: Helping my gf lose weight before Spring break
« Reply #7 on: January 11, 2007, 04:50:46 PM »
That's funny but true.  I pig out all day around her.  I'll keep that in mind.

Lol... I have two girlfriends who started seeing bodybuilders after I knew them. It was like watching a car accident in slow motion.  Within three months they both had rolly polly cheeks and much bigger butts. It was all the cooking and joining in with the endless eating.  ;D

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Re: Helping my gf lose weight before Spring break
« Reply #8 on: January 11, 2007, 05:12:49 PM »
Deedee, what do you think in terms of shaping the upper legs and butt?  She does elliptical and squats, leg press, and leg ext.  We also do box step ups afterward.
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Re: Helping my gf lose weight before Spring break
« Reply #9 on: January 11, 2007, 05:34:45 PM »
Lol... I have two girlfriends who started seeing bodybuilders after I knew them. It was like watching a car accident in slow motion.  Within three months they both had rolly polly cheeks and much bigger butts. It was all the cooking and joining in with the endless eating.  ;D

Oh Deeds....I lost weight when Bob and I started dating.  I was following his diet and dropped 10 lbs pretty quickly.  He was getting ready for a show at the time and I was eating the typical bb meals!!!  I've actually adapted the diet and feel 100% better than before...plus, I've only gained 30 lbs during the WHOLE pregnancy.

Hey Cap...get her some eggwhites and hydroxycut 8hr.  As for shaping the hams and butt...you have to get her on the hack squat machine.  I did it backwards, though.  Turn around with her face in the cushion, hands cupped under the bottom of the cushion, legs together.  Have her bend over (similar to touching her toes) and slowly lift up.  You can feel it in the lower butt and hams.  It feels great because it stretches the muscles on the way down.  It also helps to strengthen the lower back without creating any pressure.  It helps create the sexy "valley" in the lower back.  I saw result in about 5 weeks!!  Keep the weight down, and reps high (10-12 starting).  I started out with 25lb plates but never did more than 45. 

I just asked Bob about this exercise...it is not really typical, more of a secret that trainers use for strengthening hams.  He calls it a "reverse hack". 

Running stairs is also a good butt/ham blasting exercise.  It would probably be better than the squats because of her lower back issues.  If her form is off just a little...it could set her back a bit!

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Re: Helping my gf lose weight before Spring break
« Reply #10 on: January 11, 2007, 05:48:05 PM »
Oh Deeds....I lost weight when Bob and I started dating.  I was following his diet and dropped 10 lbs pretty quickly.  He was getting ready for a show at the time and I was eating the typical bb meals!!!  I've actually adapted the diet and feel 100% better than before...plus, I've only gained 30 lbs during the WHOLE pregnancy.

Hey Cap...get her some eggwhites and hydroxycut 8hr.  As for shaping the hams and butt...you have to get her on the hack squat machine.  I did it backwards, though.  Turn around with her face in the cushion, hands cupped under the bottom of the cushion, legs together.  Have her bend over (similar to touching her toes) and slowly lift up.  You can feel it in the lower butt and hams.  It feels great because it stretches the muscles on the way down.  It also helps to strengthen the lower back without creating any pressure.  It helps create the sexy "valley" in the lower back.  I saw result in about 5 weeks!!  Keep the weight down, and reps high (10-12 starting).  I started out with 25lb plates but never did more than 45. 

I just asked Bob about this exercise...it is not really typical, more of a secret that trainers use for strengthening hams.  He calls it a "reverse hack". 

Running stairs is also a good butt/ham blasting exercise.  It would probably be better than the squats because of her lower back issues.  If her form is off just a little...it could set her back a bit!

Sounds like some fun exercises actually.  I might try the hamstring exercise too.  Can you ask Bob if I can email/PM him some more diet questions?  If I need to paypal him some $ or if he can point me in the direction of a good BBing diet to keep/gain mass but drop some BF I'd appreciate it.  I could use the same advice for my gf.  I am trying to get her to eat for frequent meals like you mentioned.  Thanks all for the advice.
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Re: Helping my gf lose weight before Spring break
« Reply #11 on: January 11, 2007, 06:14:21 PM »
Tascha-rina!!!  :)  When are you giving birth? Must be any nano-second now!!!

Probably you lost weight because the man was dieting and you were both aware of what you were eating. I just know that when a guy is not exactly watching food so much, and she is new to training/dieting, it's easy to lose track of how much she actually needs, versus what he does.

The reverse hacksquat is a great exercise for bringing up hams and glutes. I always thought it was old school,  I guess probably it isn't used as much these days. An older bodybuilder taught it to me a few years ago. Sometimes I do alternate front and back.  (Also, have you noticed whenever the girls are doing reverse hacks, suddenly the guys seem to congeal around the leg area? Lol.) Stiff deads always work for me too. Actually, it seems all basic exercises work well, as long as you work hard.

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Re: Helping my gf lose weight before Spring break
« Reply #12 on: January 11, 2007, 06:37:38 PM »
Sounds like some fun exercises actually.  I might try the hamstring exercise too.  Can you ask Bob if I can email/PM him some more diet questions?  If I need to paypal him some $ or if he can point me in the direction of a good BBing diet to keep/gain mass but drop some BF I'd appreciate it.  I could use the same advice for my gf.  I am trying to get her to eat for frequent meals like you mentioned.  Thanks all for the advice.

No sweat Cap...just pm him or me and I will see to it that he answers.  (sometimes he is not so quick to answer)  No $$ needed...that would be an insult! :)  He will probably point you to bb.com...not because he represents them...but because they have countless information and articles on what you are looking to achieve.  He has written most of the articles.  They also have direct links to the products that he writes about so that if you're interested in trying the stuff...you can find it easily to buy it.  Because 10 lbs is considered "vanity lbs", it will be a little more difficult for her to lose.  Make sure to emphasize to her that because she is lifting...she will pick up lbs in muscle.  She should not pay attention to the scale...but more on how her clothes are fitting and how she looks in the mirror.  Also...incorporate some fatburners to help get over the hump...and give her the extra pump she will need at the gym.

Tascha-rina!!!  :)  When are you giving birth? Must be any nano-second now!!!

Probably you lost weight because the man was dieting and you were both aware of what you were eating. I just know that when a guy is not exactly watching food so much, and she is new to training/dieting, it's easy to lose track of how much she actually needs, versus what he does.

The reverse hacksquat is a great exercise for bringing up hams and glutes. I always thought it was old school,  I guess probably it isn't used as much these days. An older bodybuilder taught it to me a few years ago. Sometimes I do alternate front and back.  (Also, have you noticed whenever the girls are doing reverse hacks, suddenly the guys seem to congeal around the leg area? Lol.) Stiff deads always work for me too. Actually, it seems all basic exercises work well, as long as you work hard.

Your right...we were eating clean!!  I am luckier than most...Bob's busy schedule forces him to stay in relatively good shape all year around.  He is more disciplined than me...so he keeps me in line with the food. 

I am trying to get this baby out!!!  I am having painful contractions now...but we have to pick my mom up from the airport soon, so I am hanging in there.  Maybe tonight is the night...we shall see.  I am overdue, but my doc is not wanting to induce.

I love the reverse hack!  Its my favorite exercise by far!!  You can actually feel it doing something as well as stretching out the muscle.  I did forget to tell Cap....stand behind your chick when she does this...it does attract a crowd!!  Stinky gym boys!!!  >:(   ;D

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Re: Helping my gf lose weight before Spring break
« Reply #13 on: January 11, 2007, 06:41:36 PM »
Thanks.  I will keep those things in mind and throw some questions out there.  Bo has already helped a lto with my training and keeping me from injuring myself.  I already told her to focus on the mirror more but you know younger women.  I already got her to fit into her "skinny" jeans but she wants them to be more comfortable.  As far as standing behind her, she makes me do that on certain things already.  Funny you mentioned it.  She wants to keep using fat burners but I want her to eventually cycle off after the weight loss, use CLA for a bit and go back on.
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Re: Helping my gf lose weight before Spring break
« Reply #14 on: January 11, 2007, 08:32:28 PM »
She wants to tone up and drop ten solid pounds before mid March.  I have her lifting four days a week with reps at 10-15 and working each bodypart once a week except abs which are hit every day as of last week.  Her self proclaimed problem areas are "loose" triceps (although not huge just need toning), abs/obliques, from mid thigh to butt, and butt.  She wants to lean her calves out too.  They are bigger than she wants from previously working on the beach.  Please let me know what I can do/advise to help her.
Triceps, the best toner is the reverse grip pull down or the rope.
Abs, crunches on the ball, then side crunches on the ground,
Mid thigh to butt: Squats,  not heavy and hack squats or Donkey Kicks (on the floor laying on belly)
Calves, just bodyweight calf raises on one leg at a time
Hope this helps. I use these with my fitness and figure competitors

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Re: Helping my gf lose weight before Spring break
« Reply #15 on: January 11, 2007, 08:48:15 PM »
Triceps, the best toner is the reverse grip pull down or the rope.
Abs, crunches on the ball, then side crunches on the ground,
Mid thigh to butt: Squats,  not heavy and hack squats or Donkey Kicks (on the floor laying on belly)
Calves, just bodyweight calf raises on one leg at a time
Hope this helps. I use these with my fitness and figure competitors
That does help.  Thanks.  We just got back from cardio.  We are a sweatin as I type.
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