Question posed last night by a friend of the Man's. Good looking, so there's no issue there. He's been hanging with a girl from work, going to the gym together sometimes, having beers after work, etc... seeing a lot of each other. He finally just asked her if she wanted to start seeing him romantically and that's what she said. He thinks she's just not ready to have a sexual relationship... I say, she's just not that into him.
He says she's just really independent, and thinks he screwed it up by trying to make it official... that he should have just kissed her or something and let it go from there. I still say, she's just not that into him.
Even if she didn't want to be exclusive... which anyone can relate to... if she was interested she would have given him a sign other than some old cliche.