At the risk of sounding like an absent minded jerk, it's tough for me to understand a person feeling the need to cheat in a marriage. More specifically (and I am sure women have their stories) I have heard about women dating/married to men in highly stressful jobs that require a lot of time and energy, the wife/gf feels neglected while the guy is out working and possibly providing for the wife and he ends up getting cheated on after all the hard work. I can't tell you the number of stories I have heard from cops, fire fighters, business men and military men who have had this happen. I understand the stressors for women but at the same time, what does that say about an individual's level of devotion?
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When I had to do national service 23 years ago the majority of the guys had girl friends and a small few wives( 230 men in a company)
But by the time we had finished training nearly EVERY SINGLE GUY had received a dear Johnny.
Every 2 years I had to do 1 to 3 months military service and every single girl I had cheated on me some time during that period.
In the end I got so paranoid I actually dumped the woman I was with before my last army camp.