I think the word you want is "effeminacy" ![Roll Eyes ::)](http://www.getbig.com/boards/Smileys/classic/rolleyes.gif)
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Effeminacy is a trait in males that generally contradicts traditional male (masculine) gender roles. It is a derogatory term frequently applied to femininity; or womanly behavior, demeanor, and appearance displayed by a man