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What would you do (as mother) if your daughter...
« on: November 19, 2008, 07:51:23 PM »
got cancer and is gonna die anytime soon?

I ask this because i remember 4 years ago, during eastern xmas (is that how you call it, chocolate bunnie's and such?), i was invited by 2 friends, in the night, to a local hospital for kids, to give them lots of chocolate bunnies. I thought it would be a random good action, until one of my friends asked for permission to visit the little girls at some "b" pavillion/room. I was like "what could be this B pavillion?" and i think the doc that allowed us to enter, read my mind and said "so this is it , b pavillion, be nice with the little girls, all of them are under 15 and going to die anytime soon, we cant do anything but just take care of them, they all know about their situation", as we got into the rom, i saw a bunch of beds, and many bald girls, all of them smiling because they saw us with lots of chocolates for them, but i seriously couldnt understand why were they smiling, you know, they all knew they would die yet they were smiling.

The doc told us their mothers didnt visit them at all, they were left alone, to die alone. How is it possible that a mother could do that to a little girl?

After that day, i never returned to that place, and every eastern xmas, i think about those girls and their faith.

what do you girls think?
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Re: What would you do (as mother) if your daughter...
« Reply #1 on: November 20, 2008, 07:36:39 AM »
I think you're talking about Easter time benz.

I don't think I'd abandon my daughter who was dying of cancer and never visit her.  Maybe some mothers just wouldn't be able to handle seeing their daughters like that?

Maybe their mothers were dead or mentally ill?

Thank you for taking them the chocolates; it sounds like it was a bright spot in their lives!
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Re: What would you do (as mother) if your daughter...
« Reply #2 on: November 20, 2008, 07:46:35 AM »
I think you're talking about Easter time benz.

I don't think I'd abandon my daughter who was dying of cancer and never visit her.  Maybe some mothers just wouldn't be able to handle seeing their daughters like that?

Maybe their mothers were dead or mentally ill?

Thank you for taking them the chocolates; it sounds like it was a bright spot in their lives!


yes easter thats it!

Their mothers are alive and well, taking care of their own life, thats why they send the kids to this hospital, so they can continue with their life.
Isnt it sad?
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Re: What would you do (as mother) if your daughter...
« Reply #3 on: November 20, 2008, 07:47:06 AM »
yes easter thats it!

Their mothers are alive and well, taking care of their own life, thats why they send the kids to this hospital, so they can continue with their life.
Isnt it sad?

Yes :(
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Re: What would you do (as mother) if your daughter...
« Reply #4 on: November 20, 2008, 07:54:32 AM »
Yes :(

As some say, theres god for everybody. And as we say down here, your sins are paid here, on earth, in this life, which is worst than hell. Those mothers will pay, no doubt.
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Re: What would you do (as mother) if your daughter...
« Reply #5 on: November 20, 2008, 01:47:27 PM »
Sickness and death are avoided like the plague in our society. When we do talk about it or deal with it we cover it all up with religious mythology.

I have a friend who is an ER nurse in NYC. She says the way the sick and dying are treated (by the doctors) is apalling.
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Re: What would you do (as mother) if your daughter...
« Reply #6 on: November 24, 2008, 12:11:20 AM »
Doesnt matter how bad I was hurting, there is no way I could ever abandon one of my children.