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Husband in divorce case wants wife's kidney back--or $1.5M

Doc from Ronkonkoma wants donated organ -- or equal value -- back from wife as part of divorce settlement

BY CHAU LAM and AND RIDGELY OCHS | chau.lam@newsday.com ridgely.ochs@newsday.com
    9:33 PM EST, January 7, 2009



When Dr. Richard Batista's wife needed a kidney, he gave her one of his.

And now that Dawnell Batista has filed for a divorce, he wants it back.

If he can't get the kidney, his attorney, Dominic Barbara of Garden City, said Wednesday that his client wants $1.5 million -- which, he said, reflects in part the value of the kidney transplant.

Dawnell Batista, 44, of Massapequa, could not be reached and her attorney, Douglas Rothkopf of Garden City, declined to comment in detail.

The facts will speak for themselves and they're not as represented by Dr. Batista," Rothkopf said.

Medical ethicists agreed that the case is a nonstarter. Arthur Caplan of the University of Pennsylvania's Center for Bioethics said the likelihood of Batista getting either his kidney or cash was "somewhere between impossible and completely impossible."

Robert Veatch, a medical ethicist at Georgetown University's Kennedy Institute of Ethics, noted that "it's illegal for an organ to be exchanged for anything of value." Organs in the United States may not be bought or sold. Donating an organ is a gift and legally, "when you give something, you can't get it back," he said.

"It's her kidney now and . . . taking the kidney out would mean she would have to go on dialysis or it would kill her," Veatch said.

Barbara said his client isn't really looking for Dawnell Batista to give back her kidney. "Does he really want the kidney back? Of course not," he said.

Batista said his aim instead was to draw attention to her not allowing him agreed-upon visitation with the couple's three children, ages 14, 11 and 8.

Batista, 49, of Ronkonkoma, said he donated his kidney to his wife in June 2001, after she had undergone two other failed transplants when her kidneys ceased working.

"My first priority was to save her life," Batista said at a news conference in Garden City. "The second bonus was to turn the marriage around."

Batista, a surgeon at Nassau University Medical Center since 1992, said the marriage had been shaky because of his wife's illness.

Initially, Batista said he was happy with his gift of life: "I was walking on a cloud. I did the right thing for her and to this day I would do it again."

Dawnell Batista, a nurse, filed for divorce in July 2005, and her husband countersued that same year. The demand for the kidney was not part of the original countersuit, but was introduced Wednesday, Barbara said.

Barbara said the $1.5 million his client feels he's entitled to reflects damages, including how much money she made as a result of being able to continue working and not having to go on dialysis. "A price can't be placed on a human organ but it does have value," he said.

Caplan disagreed. "There's nothing later you can get in terms of compensation if you regret your gift," he said.

Staff writer John Valenti contributed to this story.

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Re: Husband in divorce case wants wife's kidney back--or $1.5 million
« Reply #1 on: January 08, 2009, 08:12:49 AM »
that guy is a little bitch

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Re: Husband in divorce case wants wife's kidney back--or $1.5 million
« Reply #2 on: January 08, 2009, 08:15:54 AM »
that guy is a little bitch
Can you imagine ever going to a "doctor" like that?  :-\
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Re: Husband in divorce case wants wife's kidney back--or $1.5 million
« Reply #3 on: January 08, 2009, 08:17:02 AM »
he seems very compassionate   ::)

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Re: Husband in divorce case wants wife's kidney back--or $1.5 million
« Reply #4 on: January 08, 2009, 08:31:16 AM »
she seems very ungrateful

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Re: Husband in divorce case wants wife's kidney back--or $1.5 million
« Reply #5 on: January 08, 2009, 01:49:38 PM »
Beach Bum posted an article on Political that indicates the wife was cheating on the husband.  His anger seems more understandable now...but I still wouldn't want him as a doctor.
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Re: Husband in divorce case wants wife's kidney back--or $1.5 million
« Reply #6 on: January 08, 2009, 02:03:54 PM »
that guy is a little bitch
why is he a bitch?

Can you imagine ever going to a "doctor" like that?  :-\
Also why does this reflect badly on his practice?

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« Reply #7 on: January 08, 2009, 02:19:30 PM »

Also why does this reflect badly on his practice?

He is supposed to be in the business of improving health and saving lives, not taking them...which he would apparently do if the wife had to give back the kidney.
 
He sounds like a hot-head that is not in control of himself.  I would not want him assisting me w/my health needs.  I wouldn't trust him.  I sure wouldn't want to make him angry!
 
He shouldn't have demanded the kidney or it's monetary equivalent back, he could have told everyone in town about it if that's what he felt he needed to do...but to demand it back is crazy!
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Re: Husband in divorce case wants wife's kidney back--or $1.5 million
« Reply #8 on: January 08, 2009, 02:30:57 PM »
He is supposed to be in the business of improving health and saving lives, not taking them...which he would apparently do if the wife had to give back the kidney.
 
He sounds like a hot-head that is not in control of himself.  I would not want him assisting me w/my health needs.  I wouldn't trust him.  I sure wouldn't want to make him angry!
 
He shouldn't have demanded the kidney or it's monetary equivalent back, he could have told everyone in town about it if that's what he felt he needed to do...but to demand it back is crazy!
I agree but the situation with his wife has nothing to do with business, it was a personal matter. If he performed an operation on a patient and they didnt pay, should he not be able to sue for his payment? even with the fact he is in business to save lives and improve health?

is it petty, yea, is it rediculous, you bet...thats why i think its more of a cheap shot at her and maybe trying to get her to run up a big lawyer bill rather then a serious attempt to get money or his kidney back.

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Re: Husband in divorce case wants wife's kidney back--or $1.5 million
« Reply #9 on: January 08, 2009, 08:07:13 PM »
She had an affair on him.
betrayed and lied to him.

I say he should be allowed to reach down her throat and get it back that way.

nope not bitter at all...  ;D
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Re: Husband in divorce case wants wife's kidney back--or $1.5 million
« Reply #10 on: January 09, 2009, 05:38:26 AM »
She allegedly cheated on him 2 years after the donated kidney. 

He should be using her affair in trying to get custody of the kids, not demanding she give him the kidney back.
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Re: Husband in divorce case wants wife's kidney back--or $1.5 million
« Reply #11 on: January 09, 2009, 06:10:29 AM »
She had an affair on him.
betrayed and lied to him.

I say he should be allowed to reach down her throat and get it back that way.

nope not bitter at all...  ;D

Yup! 

She like I said earlier she is ungrateful.  He saved her life and she cheated on him.

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Re: Husband in divorce case wants wife's kidney back--or $1.5 million
« Reply #12 on: January 09, 2009, 11:08:07 AM »
She allegedly cheated on him 2 years after the donated kidney. 

He should be using her affair in trying to get custody of the kids, not demanding she give him the kidney back.
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"Barbara said his client isn't really looking for Dawnell Batista to give back her kidney. "Does he really want the kidney back? Of course not," he said.

Batista said his aim instead was to draw attention to her not allowing him agreed-upon visitation with the couple's three children, ages 14, 11 and 8."

whether you want to admit it or not the courts are not favorable to the male in situations like these and i believe she went on to have a relationship with this guy so there its probably more than just alleged.

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Re: Husband in divorce case wants wife's kidney back--or $1.5 million
« Reply #13 on: January 09, 2009, 02:43:53 PM »
She allegedly cheated on him 2 years after the donated kidney. 

He should be using her affair in trying to get custody of the kids, not demanding she give him the kidney back.
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And he only demanded the kidney back 3 years after divorce proceedings began.
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Re: Husband in divorce case wants wife's kidney back--or $1.5 million
« Reply #14 on: January 09, 2009, 04:08:15 PM »
I'd go down to the grocery store and buy out all their cow kidneys and bomb his house with them!  >:(
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« Reply #15 on: January 09, 2009, 05:37:12 PM »
LOL maybe its a guy thing, the thread on this in the politics board is full of ppl ragging on the women and i agree...No excuse for infedility what so ever...His lawyer admits he doesnt really want the kidney back or the money simply to see his children...She cheats on him and she gets sympathy ???  :( again maybe its a guy thing...or a girl thing.

I remember some study a while back about how when a man cheats ppl think its the mans fault for straying but when a women cheats ppl think that the man must have done something to push her to it... :-\

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« Reply #16 on: January 11, 2009, 10:50:28 AM »
LOL maybe its a guy thing, the thread on this in the politics board is full of ppl ragging on the women and i agree...No excuse for infedility what so ever...His lawyer admits he doesnt really want the kidney back or the money simply to see his children...She cheats on him and she gets sympathy ???  :( again maybe its a guy thing...or a girl thing.

I remember some study a while back about how when a man cheats ppl think its the mans fault for straying but when a women cheats ppl think that the man must have done something to push her to it... :-\
Cheating is DEFINITELY WRONG as is denying a parent their rights to see their children.  She is totally wrong there, but you don't go suing somoene for a bodypart that gives them life.  ::)  You take her cheating, bitchy ass to court and divorce her and sue for custody.  Him suing her for a kidney (in which she could not survive without - and can't be put back in him) just makes him look like a revengeful jerk and also makes it look like he was a jerk throughout the marriage.  IMO
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