Totally totally agree...like if you see two girls in a club,one is absolutely stunning and the other is hot but maybe holdin a few extra pounds r somethin then like its natural to approach the girl with the slight flaws first,instinctively we feel we probably have a better chance there
This is the biggest mistake most men make. You should be going for the hottest chick, not the chubby wing girl she brought along to make herself look better. Most hot chicks have very low self esteem and can't get laid if their life depended on it. You make the latter point in your post above, most guys are too scared to talk to hot chicks. If you have even the slightest semblance of game, you could have been nailing the fine chick instead of her dumpy friend. Treat them like a normal chick, never kiss up to them or tell them how hot they are, they hear that shit by every other dipshit in the club. Treat them like they're nothing special and be disinterested but not a dick and you'll be nailing her by the end of the night with ease.