This is from a relationship blog on a news site i visit, this guy sounds like the perfect getbigger i thought it was worth posting. He left out the part about being a top MMA fighter i had to reply and remind him.
http://blogs.news.com.au/bossy/index.php/news/comments/i_was_a_dweeb_now_im_hot_my_wifes_gone_the_other_way/P40/Kate de Brito
Friday, April 24, 2009 at 08:06am
Dear Bossy: Where do I start? I have been with wife since she was 22 and I was 19. Married after 8 years living together, married for another 8 years, so all up 16 years. At the start she was the hottest thing in our peer group (long blonde hair, body to die for) studying at uni, me I was a laughable nerd (big thick glasses), gangly 19yr old still growing into a mans body and had a bum job (did not go to uni till in my late 20’s) . Now we are in our mid/late thirties and this is the picture.
The roles have reversed. I now have this great six-figure career, flying around the world and staying in flash motels and I have been hitting the gym since I was 20. Had my eyes lasered and with my top off I could go on the cover of a Mens Health magazine (perhaps).
My wife has well and truly let herself go and no amount of gentle persuasion will get her near the gym/treadmill. All she does is eat Tim Tams and watch TV from 6PM till 10PM whilst I either train outside, read a good inspiring novel or do something productive (tidy the house). As she is a stay at home mum (on my income it’s a no brainer) to our 2 yr old, she gets the best in life ie clothes, food etc. I don’t watch sport (ever), I don’t go out drinking (maybe once every four months), I listen, I am not violent and of calm disposition, non smoker, toast master speaking skills etc etc. We have a cleaner, we have a gardener and I am looking at getting a cook for my wife. I help with housework. I wash, I cook (when I am at home) and I don’t blink an eyelid when my wife shops/spends all my money. I also let her sleep in every Sat/Sun whilst I get our son up and take him on an outing. We have a few investment properties doing well. If I am away during the week then I work from home for the remainder. We drive a European car (wife does, I push bike to work in the city as it keeps me fit).
Now comes the problem, my wife was my second ever sexual partner (first was a terrible one night stand and not worth mentioning). Our sex life is prob once a month (wifes terms) and it is very “vanilla” if you catch my drift. (I haven’t had a BJ in years)…..With my job being flexible (my terms) I get to choose when I start work during some days of the week. So when taking our son to swimming lessons, I get all sorts of looks from the mums as I seem to be one of the few dads there that has the time to be there at all. Also when some of the other mums see my wife (now quite plump these days), they do a double take when I go and cuddle/meet her. Also with my job I meet amazing international women who also do a double take when I proudly introduce my wife at functions.
Here lies the problem: Now I seem to be getting unsolicited “booty calls” from some of the other mums at least once a week and women at my work. Being a pretty good conversationalist (I work in marketing and sales) , I can talk to just about anyone and pick up on what the vibe is..The vibe in this case is that a few of the Mums/women want to bonk me.
I wouldn’t dream of such a thing and I don’t want to “upgrade” my wife or do I on both counts?…Yes the universal dilemma and I bet you have heard this COUNTLESS times before. I love my wife but have I outgrown her…and should it matter..??
Sincerely, Frog Prince
