The affair

[BayGBM]

I'm interested in a woman's perspective.

1) Is it "worse" if a man has an affair early in a marriage as opposed to, say, 10 years into it?  Or does it make no difference?

2) I've heard people say that it is "worse" for a man to have an affair when his wife is pregnant.  Is it?  Why?

3) Is it better or worse if your hubby cheats with another man?

[Butterbean]

I'm interested in a woman's perspective.

1) Is it "worse" if a man has an affair early in a marriage as opposed to, say, 10 years into it?  Or does it make no difference?

2) I've heard people say that it is "worse" for a man to have an affair when his wife is pregnant.  Is it?  Why?

3) Is it better or worse if your hubby cheats with another man?

imo,
1) Both would be horrible
2) Maybe it's because he seems even more selfish.  He should be treating the mother of his child well instead of cheating on her.  Some women may not feel the most attractive when largely pregnant so it may damage her self-esteem more, not sure.  Also, maybe the wife, when thinking back to when she was preg, will always remember it as a time her husband cheated.  
3) Equally horrible

[BayGBM]

imo,
1) Both would be horrible
2) Maybe it's because he seems even more selfish.  He should be treating the mother of his child well instead of cheating on her.  Some women may not feel the most attractive when largely pregnant so it may damage her self-esteem more, not sure.  Also, maybe the wife, when thinking back to when she was preg, will always remember it as a time her husband cheated.  
3) Equally horrible

I really do not understand this.  I think a woman is never more beautiful than when she is pregnant.  Pregnancy is the ultimate expression of what it means to be a woman.  CZJ was pregnant when she won her Oscar, and I will always remember those images of her as the height of her beauty.  Granted not every woman can glam up like CZJ but wow was she breathtaking that night! 

[ToxicAvenger]

I'm interested in a woman's perspective.
1) Is it "worse" if a man has an affair early in a marriage as opposed to, say, 10 years into it?  Or does it make no difference?
2) I've heard people say that it is "worse" for a man to have an affair when his wife is pregnant.  Is it?  Why?
3) Is it better or worse if your hubby cheats with another man?

worse than all 3 above...
man marries woman and has kids with her and then tells her he actually is gay
1) is the woman supposed to think she is masculine..which is why he could have sex with her
2) is being gay really genetic when the man can obviously get it up for his former wife and now chooses to be with men

[newmom]

1) It's horrific either way.
2) It's not only disrespectful for a man to cheat on a woman but to do it when she is preganant and still having sex with the mother is disrespecting the child if you ask me. Wether the preganat woman is giving it up or not ITS JUST WRONG
3)Cheating is cheating wether male or female

[benchmstr]

no matter what...people who cheat are the lowest form of human there is....i have never had anybody cheat on me...but if i did i would most likely kill them....i would never let anyone humiliate me like that...

bench

[newmom]

no matter what...people who cheat are the lowest form of human there is....i have never had anybody cheat on me...but if i did i would most likely kill them....i would never let anyone humiliate me like that...

bench

I agree, well except the kill part

[ToxicAvenger]

no matter what...people who cheat are the lowest form of human there is....i have never had anybody cheat on me...but if i did i would most likely kill them....i would never let anyone humiliate me like that...

bench

well i had a girl friend once cheat on me....

umm well...i kinda wanted to break up with her so i told a really good looking friend of mine to hit on her and sleep with her...

then i dumped her for cheating on me 

[powerpack]

I have been cheated on by 3 different woman in my life.......... that I know off.
Definitely a humiliating and painful thing to go through.

[240 is Back]

a woman is more womanly when she is preggo.

as a man, just accept the fact you will be having a 'blueball' couple of months!

on that note, rumor has it tiger wodds' woman is quite pregnant.

[powerpack]

on that note, rumor has it tiger wodds' woman is quite pregnant.

Which one 

[240 is Back]

his wifey. 

[yng466]

As far as cheating goes,I am currently dating several women,is that what anyone would call cheating? I wouldn't call that cheating.On the other hand,if you are married,you took an oath,now you can either honor that oath,or you can make a mockery out of it.To have an affair behind your partner's back,knowing full well,that it could hurt him/her,that's what I would call cheating.

[newmom]

As far as cheating goes,I am currently dating several women,is that what anyone would call cheating? I wouldn't call that cheating.On the other hand,if you are married,you took an oath,now you can either honor that oath,or you can make a mockery out of it.To have an affair behind your partner's back,knowing full well,that it could hurt him/her,that's what I would call cheating.

nope yng that aint cheating. As long as you are open with the women and they know its not exclusive

[yng466]

nope yng that aint cheating. As long as you are open with the women and they know its not exclusive

Oh,I'M VERY OPEN WITH THEM.THEY JUST TELL ME THEY DON'T WANT SOME GIRL CALLING THEIR HOUSE !

[big L dawg]

i have never had anybody cheat on me...

bench

you really dont know that...

[BayGBM]

you really dont know that...

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