LOL.... I'm all for giving $ to charity, and personally, I help out SO MUCH with fmaily and friends who are in trouble... from buying glasses to neices, new outfits for 9 nephews and neices every month, etc etc - I mean, I seriously live to give, as lame as that sounds. I help out everyone, I'm usually the guy old friends call in a jam, etc. I'll give anyone a jump at 4 am, I'm always the one to lend $ to anyone in a jam, and I rarely collect.
But there is something about people who insist on you giving them money... I dunno... I just see red. I worked grocery stores for years in college, and I'd see the same drunks making triple what I made every night fetching shopping carts, just standing at the doors bumming $ from people. If you're going to be lazy, that's fine... but don't interrupt the days of hard-working people asking for their money.
You KNOW so many young moms and elderly will give $ out of fear. Easier for them to quickly hand over a few bucks and feel safe. And the 1 time a bum got off his bike and got in my face for money after I said no repeatedly... only 1 of 2 times in my life I've had to let another person see my weapon... the drunk idiot was practically in my car insisting I 'help him out'.
Sorry, there should be a night in jail served automatically for anyone who harasses another person for $ in public like that. My duality... lol!