Hahaha, you still think you get to make those choices, thats sweet.
SHE will decide, and somehow you will ask her to marry you? No one knows how the fuck they do it brah, its women, they are evil! They are tricksee!
I read about this book recently, how to get married within two years.
A lot of it was, once you are with a guy, neg him with certain things (his height, job, whatever) for a while and then go back and build him up. The idea is obviously he will not think he's good enough and will stay with you and marry you.
Then i thought, that is exactly what one girl did to me. Threw in little neg comments here and there after several months (had already said she wanted to get married to me) to which to me just made me think fuck you i'm not like that why would i want to be with someone who says that shit to people. It didn't make me think 'oh she's put me down i had better defend my pride and talk myself up here' because i was not so insecure i needed to do that, i was happy with myself and wanted someone i could get along with who was sane. That shit just drove me away. But of course it was my fault when i broke up with her
