Will it affect safety/performance?
I'm OCD as well but for some reason I don't get too excited about scratches/dings etc on my car. I remember my first new car, shortly after I got it I put a deep scratch on loading an exercise bike into it. A little black touch up paint and "viola!"
Another car I backed into the garage door when it was still down.
Put a bit of a dent in the back but it didn't bother me...maybe because I was so glad the door still worked.