How Important Is It To Eat The Woman's Pussy In A Relationship?

[Cliff Clavin]

and on subject...

really in my relationships the sex never went "boring"
you have to choose someone you really really like.... and love to look at.
people often settle for somebody, that is where it goes wrong.

i remember 1 ex of mine, just looking at her ass and i wanted to jump her on the spot!
even after a few years....
she loved sex, all my ex girls did though... lol!

i think you have people that just do not enjoy sex that much.....
you know boring people = boring sex...

I'm the same way..i have been in a committed relationship for years and the sex is as good as ever...i really dont get these people that act like sex is no big deal after a certain point of a relationship...

[OptimusPrime1980]

I'm the same way..i have been in a committed relationship for years and the sex is as good as ever...i really dont get these people that act like sex is no big deal after a certain point of a relationship...

absolutely!
for me sex is 50% of the whole equation!!
it's like i said , you have boring people that equels boring sex.. lol!

[Primemuscle]

and on subject...

really in my relationships the sex never went "boring"
you have to choose someone you really really like.... and love to look at.
people often settle for somebody, that is where it goes wrong.

i remember 1 ex of mine, just looking at her ass and i wanted to jump her on the spot!
even after a few years....
she loved sex, all my ex girls did though... lol!

i think you have people that just do not enjoy sex that much.....
you know boring people = boring sex...

You sound like a man of little experience....experience, that is, in a truly long term relationship. When you have been with the same woman, as I have, for forty-nine years and the sex is still everything it was at the beginning, then you'll have something worth writing about good sex and longterm relationships.

[Primemuscle]

I'm the same way..i have been in a committed relationship for years and the sex is as good as ever...i really dont get these people that act like sex is no big deal after a certain point of a relationship...

How many years?

Statistically, sex wanes at some point. Both men and women can and often do suffer a loss of libido during menopause. It is more commonly reported by women, but this may be because a lot of guys won't admit to a lack of interest in sex because they feel it makes them seem less masculine. Women often fake an interest in sex because the can and because they feel they need to.

[Top Dog]

Been married nine years and I probably eat pussy 80 percent of the times we have sex. Drives her crazy. The best thing is the dirty talk that comes out of her mouth when I do it. I can't believe some of the things she says. I enjoy it as much as she does. She loves it all, from fingering and licking, clit licking, and a finger in the butt. I am very lucky.

[Primemuscle]

Been married nine years and I probably eat pussy 80 percent of the times we have sex. Drives her crazy. The best thing is the dirty talk that comes out of her mouth when I do it. I can't believe some of the things she says. I enjoy it as much as she does. She loves it all, from fingering and licking, clit licking, and a finger in the butt. I am very lucky.

I would say you both are lucky. Keep up the great sex!

[mantronik]

Q: Why do guys never eat pussy the morning after sex?
A: Ever tried to pry open a cold grilled cheese sandwich? 

[OptimusPrime1980]

You sound like a man of little experience....experience, that is, in a truly long term relationship. When you have been with the same woman, as I have, for forty-nine years and the sex is still everything it was at the beginning, then you'll have something worth writing about good sex and longterm relationships.

well i am 31, so i can not say i have had a relationship as long as you have...
but i did have a few long term relationships....
also i think that a lot of the problems with sex come with age, problems with libido and such.
that is not something you can't do anything about.

but still i stand by my point...
also you have only had 1 serious relationship i guess? being with your wife that long???
i have had a little more... so i have more material to wright about.. lol!
but i understand what you are saying.
i do respect you for sticking with the same person that long, it's very rare today...

[Cliff Clavin]

How many years?

Statistically, sex wanes at some point. Both men and women can and often do suffer a loss of libido during menopause. It is more commonly reported by women, but this may be because a lot of guys won't admit to a lack of interest in sex because they feel it makes them seem less masculine. Women often fake an interest in sex because the can and because they feel they need to.

13 years...and i eat the pussy like a champ...

don't get me wrong if your very old and you body is failing you sex isnt gonna be high on the to do list...but...lets face it 99% of the people on this forum are younger than you are...if you are in your 30's,40's or even 50's a healthy sex life is still quite possible and something that is still very relevant in a relationship...

also keep in mind fellas its a proven physiological fact that women hit there sexual prime later in life than men do...the average male will hit there prime around 18-20 years old...while a women is usually somewhere in between 30-40years old...now knowing that ask yourself...if the sex has waned in the relationship or is ''boring'' and your women is pushing 30 or in her thirty's whats the chances its became that way because of you as opposed to her...think about it...how was you as a man (sexually)at age 16?,18?20 years old?...you were an animal were you not?well thats how women get once there in there 30's-40's...so that brings me back to my original statement many posts back...just because your women has lost interest in sex with you doesn't mean shes lost interest in sex period(especially if shes in that magic age range of 30-40)...

like i said if your a senior citizen like primemuscle yea its probably over for you sexually...but if your a guy in a committed relationship? 20,30,40 years old.....and you aren't satisfying your women sexually?don't be upset if she eventually finds someone else that can/will...
As i have said sex is a huge part of any relationship long term or not...

in closing...eat the pussy...

[Cableguy]

i couldn't imagine sex without going down on her.. i would say its being dominant. you're in control down there. you dictate the pace. twat, inner thighs, ass.. work it all, keep i t random before you concentrate all your efforts on her clit. know when to slide a finger into her ass to enhance her pleasure. when she's grinding her pussy hard into your mouth, go in for the kill. its the alpha way 

X2...when you tune in to her rythym and stick your finger in her ass, she'll come so hard that she almosts faints. Then she belongs to you...

[Primemuscle]

well i am 31, so i can not say i have had a relationship as long as you have...
but i did have a few long term relationships....
also i think that a lot of the problems with sex come with age, problems with libido and such.
that is not something you can't do anything about.

but still i stand by my point...
also you have only had 1 serious relationship i guess? being with your wife that long???
i have had a little more... so i have more material to wright about.. lol!
but i understand what you are saying.
i do respect you for sticking with the same person that long, it's very rare today...

You're right about my lack of varied experience. And you are right about the fact that a "long term relationship" is relative to ones age. Another thing you seem to understand is that as one ages, often their libido goes to shit which has a dampening effect on sex. I was right about the fact that compared to me, you lack "long term" experience. Ever heard about the "seven year itch"?

My son and my daughter have been married to their respective spouses for a long time. They married young by today's standards. Assuming they are faithful to their spouses, which I suspect they are, there is something to be said for not having a lot of sexual partners and staying in a relationship for the long term.

Anyway thank for the respect....some would say that folks like me and my kids just don't know any better than to stay with what we have. I have considered this analogy to marrying young; when folks go out looking for some action, they often wait until it's "last call" before they decide who to take home. These folks seem to be out looking again the next night for something better or something different. Maybe if they settled on someone earlier in the evening and got to know them some before they hit the sack, they might want to take them out again. Just a thought.

[OptimusPrime1980]

You're right about my lack of varied experience. And you are right about the fact that a "long term relationship" is relative to ones age. Another thing you seem to understand is that as one ages, often their libido goes to shit which has a dampening effect on sex. I was right about the fact that compared to me, you lack "long term" experience. Ever heard about the "seven year itch"?

My son and my daughter have been married to their respective spouses for a long time. They married young by today's standards. Assuming they are faithful to their spouses, which I suspect they are, there is something to be said for not having a lot of sexual partners and staying in a relationship for the long term.

Anyway thank for the respect....some would say that folks like me and my kids just don't know any better than to stay with what we have. I have considered this analogy to marrying young; when folks go out looking for some action, they often wait until it's "last call" before they decide who to take home. These folks seem to be out looking again the next night for something better or something different. Maybe if they settled on someone earlier in the evening and got to know them some before they hit the sack, they might want to take them out again. Just a thought.

yes i think you are right....
and to be honest, at this point in my life i am looking for a long term relationship.
it's just i have ran into some crazy woman in my life... damaged goods you know.. lol...
seven year ich??? no my longest relationship was 5 years, so your right about me not having the long term experience you have.
i always got the ich after about a year lolol!
but sex was never a problem, the fact i am not a natural bb helps to i think 
but that same fact makes it hard to stay faithfull.

[Primemuscle]

yes i think you are right....
and to be honest, at this point in my life i am looking for a long term relationship.
it's just i have ran into some crazy woman in my life... damaged goods you know.. lol...
seven year ich??? no my longest relationship was 5 years, so your right about me not having the long term experience you have.
i always got the ich after about a year lolol!
but sex was never a problem, the fact i am not a natural bb helps to i think 
but that same fact makes it hard to stay faithfull.

This is weird! You and I are doing more agreeing than disagreeing. It seems so out of character for most posters on Getbig. From what I’ve experienced, a lot of folks here seem to relish being antagonistic.
Anyway, I am going have to agree with you again. You imply that bodybuilding supplements, I am guessing steroids, has something to do with your having a high libido and therefore a wandering eye and a subsequent variety of sexual relationships. A couple of years ago, I started TRT. Since being on TRT my libido has noticeably increased. I can only imagine what would happen if I were to take doses consistent with what some bodybuilders do or if I was still a relatively young man such as you are.

Another thing that may explain my being comparatively inexperienced sexually is that I never really had a high libido. I always could take or leave sex alone. OK, maybe briefly as a teenager, I was a really horny dude, but I quickly got bored with myself as a sex partner. LOL!

I used to fantasize being some big sex stud, but that was as far as it ever went. Perhaps my strong desire for a permanent relationship at a young age directed my hormones to accommodate that choice.  Among my married male friends, I am by far the least adventuresome.
 
Like you, my dad seemed to gravitate towards troublesome women, my mom being one of them. He did not have a happy life or a truly long term relationship unfortunately. Hopefully, you’ll find that perfect woman who is all that you want with none of the negatives. I, on the other hand, purposefully did not marry a girl just like the girl that married dear old dad, quite the opposite, in fact.

[littleboyblue]

Q: Why do guys never eat pussy the morning after sex?
A: Ever tried to pry open a cold grilled cheese sandwich? 

... I do.  It's called "marination!"

[OptimusPrime1980]

This is weird! You and I are doing more agreeing than disagreeing. It seems so out of character for most posters on Getbig. From what I’ve experienced, a lot of folks here seem to relish being antagonistic.
Anyway, I am going have to agree with you again. You imply that bodybuilding supplements, I am guessing steroids, has something to do with your having a high libido and therefore a wandering eye and a subsequent variety of sexual relationships. A couple of years ago, I started TRT. Since being on TRT my libido has noticeably increased. I can only imagine what would happen if I were to take doses consistent with what some bodybuilders do or if I was still a relatively young man such as you are.

Another thing that may explain my being comparatively inexperienced sexually is that I never really had a high libido. I always could take or leave sex alone. OK, maybe briefly as a teenager, I was a really horny dude, but I quickly got bored with myself as a sex partner. LOL!

I used to fantasize being some big sex stud, but that was as far as it ever went. Perhaps my strong desire for a permanent relationship at a young age directed my hormones to accommodate that choice.  Among my married male friends, I am by far the least adventuresome.
 
Like you, my dad seemed to gravitate towards troublesome women, my mom being one of them. He did not have a happy life or a truly long term relationship unfortunately. Hopefully, you’ll find that perfect woman who is all that you want with none of the negatives. I, on the other hand, purposefully did not marry a girl just like the girl that married dear old dad, quite the opposite, in fact.

lol.. well you happen to make sense.. and the way i see it, you have a long relationship which in todays sick world is something to respect. 
plus your replies are allways polite, and i like to talk to people with different views or lives then me...one can only learn right?

i have allways been a horney dude.. lol.. even off the bb drugs.
also never lacked attention from the females, combine that with high test levels..... recipe for disaster..!
maybe i am just not long term material, i don´t know...
i´m in my 30´s now and start to think diferently about things.
especially after having my daughter, though her mother is a troublesome female as well...
but! i live in brasil, about 80% female population here, so i have high hopes hahahaha...

[Primemuscle]

lol.. well you happen to make sense.. and the way i see it, you have a long relationship which in todays sick world is something to respect. 
plus your replies are allways polite, and i like to talk to people with different views or lives then me...one can only learn right?

i have allways been a horney dude.. lol.. even off the bb drugs.
also never lacked attention from the females, combine that with high test levels..... recipe for disaster..!
maybe i am just not long term material, i don´t know...
i´m in my 30´s now and start to think diferently about things.
especially after having my daughter, though her mother is a troublesome female as well...
but! i live in brasil, about 80% female population here, so i have high hopes hahahaha...

With that high a percentage of females in Brazil, you are sure to find someone who will be all that you are looking for. Sometimes we don't get what we want when we want it. But one should not give up.  For example, our daughter was born eight and a half years after our son. My wife was worried that we would never have another child and then she came along. As it turns out, having her then was perfect for all of us in many ways. We couldn't have planned it better.

You say you believe you are ready for that long term relationship and you probably are, or at least getting close to that. Now all you need is the woman who is also ready for it and for you. She's out there somewhere. You'll meet each other when the time is right.

I honestly don't think I was looking to meet the mate of a lifetime or get married when I was in my late teens. However, from the first time my wife and I met we were hardly ever apart. It was crazy. We were the most unlikely people to meet and later marry. We came from very different backgrounds. And yet, look at us now. There is some force at work for all of us that we don't seem to have a lot of control over.

 

[OptimusPrime1980]

With that high a percentage of females in Brazil, you are sure to find someone who will be all that you are looking for. Sometimes we don't get what we want when we want it. But one should not give up.  For example, our daughter was born eight and a half years after our son. My wife was worried that we would never have another child and then she came along. As it turns out, having her then was perfect for all of us in many ways. We couldn't have planned it better.

You say you believe you are ready for that long term relationship and you probably are, or at least getting close to that. Now all you need is the woman who is also ready for it and for you. She's out there somewhere. You'll meet each other when the time is right.

I honestly don't think I was looking to meet the mate of a lifetime or get married when I was in my late teens. However, from the first time my wife and I met we were hardly ever apart. It was crazy. We were the most unlikely people to meet and later marry. We came from very different backgrounds. And yet, look at us now. There is some force at work for all of us that we don't seem to have a lot of control over.

 

agreed 100%
seems you have a very happy family , congrats man! something to be really proud of!
40 pounds of muscle is nice..... but really family and happiness are there till you die!

my little girl was a suprise present as well, as in not planned lol!
but i am the happiest dude in the world because of her.
and yes sometimes things happen, and they show you there is indeed some force at work...
i am in no way relegious but do believe in some kind of force, i like to see it as the force of life itself.

[Primemuscle]

agreed 100%
seems you have a very happy family , congrats man! something to be really proud of!
40 pounds of muscle is nice..... but really family and happiness are there till you die!

my little girl was a suprise present as well, as in not planned lol!
but i am the happiest dude in the world because of her.
and yes sometimes things happen, and they show you there is indeed some force at work...
i am in no way relegious but do believe in some kind of force, i like to see it as the force of life itself.

Ones children can be a blessing in life. Each child is different, but our daughter was a terror as a teenager (not that we didn't still love her) and she is a delight as an adult. On the other hand, our son has been rock solid all of his life. Both our children are very independent natured. We wouldn't want them to be any other way. Little girls love their dads, specially when their dads treat them like little princesses.

[TrapsMcLats]

[WillGrant]

That's not sad, that's hot

Agree - pics please 

[Coach is Back!]

My opinion, the only reason to get married is if you value the 'traditional family' and want to make a go of it.
Love, sex, and money are probably the most common reasons and are least likely to pan out.  My situation, although it certainly has its drawbacks, I didnt say I was upset by it.  I knew this going in, I have associates older than myself who warned me what I was getting into, but the idea of knocking up some chick but not committing to her so that I could still do my thing, meanwhile theres now some other guy raising my kid half the time, that didnt sit well with me.  Not saying that I look down on that, just that its all about whats important to you.

That's why I've been married so many times.

[Stavios]

If it's important I live for eating tits, pussy and ass

[Lifter_X]

That's why I've been married so many times.

Thought it was a desperate attempt to suppress the ghey

[Dr Dutch]

ungaying in process..