Is this mom going to far?

[nzmusclemonster]

Exactly, i got lit up with a peach switch from the peach trees in the backyard, or my dad's belt

Some chick on the view was saying that, it causes the child to fear the parent 

---which is GOOD, parents aren't your friends when you are that age, They are to offer guidance, love, and discipline, and that hot sauce, is soft---it's akin to eating hot food. Fearing what your parent will do to you if you act up is good...it forces you to be more respectful

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These generation Y fvck ups are the product of pc parenting.

Bring back the good old days.

[Hugo Chavez]

yes .. oh my .. yes of course
the same way people should train their pets
beat them and cause pain to make them submit to your power  
FFS

Like Bindare I also grew up with pretty harsh punishment.  

The real reason for any kind of punishment boils down to preparing kids for the real world where there are real and often harsh punishments for doing wrong which in a way I think is good because the world can be cruel and harsh asap lol...

BUT, A good parent has to be able to weigh the right punishment for the right age or progression of the child.  If your child is in absolute fear of you--if you scare the fucking hell out of your kid, you've gone over the line in what you thought was discipline.  If you are making the child hate you or fear you, you've gone to far.  You absolutely have to keep love at the front of everything.  When they love you, your disapproval alone is all the punishment needed.

IMO this mother looks to be going overkill in a bad way.  She needs to spend more time with the child, less psycho, "I'll burn your face off if you do what I don't like..."

[MuscleMcMannus]

Hahaha just because that's how previous generations did it doesn't make it healthy or right.  If you think that then you're a fucking retard.  Things have changed a lot.....some good some bad.  One of the reasons our country is so fucked up economically is because of the bullshit of previous generations.  I love how the WWII generation is always praised for how great the were.  Fucking bullshit.  That generation was responsible for A LOT of the economic problems we have now. 

Anyone that thinks whipping their kid with a belt is ok are fucking delusional morons.  That is child abuse at any age.  Most kids are hit because adults are stupid and lazy parents.  Parenting is hard and takes a lot of patience and it doesn't start when your kid misbehaves.  It starts right when they pop out of the vagina.  We are just no starting to realize how important that first year before they can walk and talk really are.  Hell idiot mothers used to smoke all the time while pregnant and while their kids were young.  So that's who the generation before did it must be ok right? 

Granted kids are out of control spoiled wussies nowadays......but it's hardly because they aren't hit with belts and or don't have soap crammed down their mouths.

[JasonH]

Saw this on today show. Did she go to far or not.

Holy crap that woman is bang out of order. 

 

[Parker]

yes .. oh my .. yes of course

the same way people should train their pets

beat them and cause pain to make them submit to your power  

FFS

Kids ARE NOT to be treated as equals to adults. You are NOT your kids friend, play pal, etc. Of course you may play with them, but you always maintain that Authority or as you call it POWER...

One time when I was young and I had a rubix cube, and my mother would scramble it up and give it back to me to fix...I thought of her as a "playpal" and I playfully bit my mother on the hand...I giggled...she looked at me, took my knuckle and bit down on it, with the same force I did and told me to never bite your mother, or an adult...and it hurt. I never bit my mother again or an adult again...for that matter anyone.

Kids get this notion that when you play with them that you are one of them. Kids have their own world where they view grown ups as BIG people who do Big people things, whereas kids are in their little realm...once you enter their realm, they view you as equals. But when they try to enter Big People's realm, they are seen as not fitting or outsiders or laughed at--because they don't belong.

[Bindare_Dundat]

Hahaha just because that's how previous generations did it doesn't make it healthy or right.  If you think that then you're a fucking retard.  Things have changed a lot.....some good some bad.  One of the reasons our country is so fucked up economically is because of the bullshit of previous generations.  I love how the WWII generation is always praised for how great the were.  Fucking bullshit.  That generation was responsible for A LOT of the economic problems we have now. 

Anyone that thinks whipping their kid with a belt is ok are fucking delusional morons.  That is child abuse at any age.  Most kids are hit because adults are stupid and lazy parents.  Parenting is hard and takes a lot of patience and it doesn't start when your kid misbehaves.  It starts right when they pop out of the vagina.  We are just no starting to realize how important that first year before they can walk and talk really are.  Hell idiot mothers used to smoke all the time while pregnant and while their kids were young.  So that's who the generation before did it must be ok right? 

Granted kids are out of control spoiled wussies nowadays......but it's hardly because they aren't hit with belts and or don't have soap crammed down their mouths.

I bet if your parents gave you a smack upside the head and some soap in the mouth once in a while you wouldn't respond in such a profanity laced tirade.  Your parents must have been to lazy to give you a good beating and now look at you. .

[Natural Man]

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These generation Y fvck ups are the product of pc parenting.

Bring back the good old days.

What, who, do you think taught "good old days parents" to act the good way?

And what (and who) is missing in nowadays parents and kids life?

Answer these questions.


It's perfectly mathematical.

[newmom]

Kids ARE NOT to be treated as equals to adults. You are NOT your kids friend, play pal, etc. Of course you may play with them, but you always maintain that Authority or as you call it POWER...

One time when I was young and I had a rubix cube, and my mother would scramble it up and give it back to me to fix...I thought of her as a "playpal" and I playfully bit my mother on the hand...I giggled...she looked at me, took my knuckle and bit down on it, with the same force I did and told me to never bite your mother, or an adult...and it hurt. I never bit my mother again or an adult again...for that matter anyone.

Kids get this notion that when you play with them that you are one of them. Kids have their own world where they view grown ups as BIG people who do Big people things, whereas kids are in their little realm...once you enter their realm, they view you as equals. But when they try to enter Big People's realm, they are seen as not fitting or outsiders or laughed at--because they don't belong.

I get what you're saying Gangsta, but I'm very strict but I do play with nugget. We do slip n slide, color, and other stuff. We run around at the park, that doesn't make me her friend, just a mom. Now, mind you when it's time to discipline, she gets the difference

[Parker]

I get what you're saying Gangsta, but I'm very strict but I do play with nugget. We do slip n slide, color, and other stuff. We run around at the park, that doesn't make me her friend, just a mom. Now, mind you when it's time to discipline, she gets the difference

Yeah that's what i meant...My parents did the same...and then let you know that "Play time is over"