Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER

[Wiggs]

Any of you suckers that don't have a DNA test on your kids are exactly that SUCKERS!

[Coach is Back!]

don't be a dipshit coach. it's not his. it's the mothers fault....MOTHERS FAULT. The guy has every right to bounce and not be judged. The mother should be punished not this guy.

Yeah yeah, I know it's the mothers fault. But the father figure didn't know for 14 years, he raised the kid as his own thinking it was his. But when you find out otherwise YOU DO NOT ABANDON THE KID to save your own feelings....he's a kid. You cannot emotionally turn yourself off like that and say "fuck it, it's not my kid". At this point not only is the kid the victim but it also becomes the fault of both parents (yes, the "father" is a parent). Seriously, how can anyone possibly think otherwise?

Either you have no emotions or your just a selfish asshole. There is no in between.

[Nomad]

Yeah yeah, I know it's the mothers fault. But the father figure didn't know for 14 years, he raised the kid as his own thinking it was his. But when you find out otherwise YOU DO NOT ABANDON THE KID to save your own feelings....he's a kid. You cannot emotionally turn yourself off like that and say "fuck it, it's not my kid". At this point not only is the kid the victim but it also becomes the fault of both parents (yes, the "father" is a parent). Seriously, how can anyone possibly think otherwise?

Either you have no emotions or your just a selfish asshole. There is no in between.

So sink more time into a kid that's not yours?

[Coach is Back!]

So sink more time into a kid that's not yours?

Yes. After 14 years that kid is apart of you. Consider himself a step-parent.

[Radical Plato]

Yeah yeah, I know it's the mothers fault. But the father figure didn't know for 14 years, he raised the kid as his own thinking it was his. But when you find out otherwise YOU DO NOT ABANDON THE KID to save your own feelings....he's a kid. You cannot emotionally turn yourself off like that and say "fuck it, it's not my kid". At this point not only is the kid the victim but it also becomes the fault of both parents (yes, the "father" is a parent). Seriously, how can anyone possibly think otherwise?

Either you have no emotions or your just a selfish asshole. There is no in between.

Law of the jungle, dont raise anothers mans sperm (child), it lessens the chances of you succesfully reproducing your genes.  If anything that child got of lucky, if he was a lion cub, he would be dead by now. 

[Wiggs]

Yeah yeah, I know it's the mothers fault. But the father figure didn't know for 14 years, he raised the kid as his own thinking it was his. But when you find out otherwise YOU DO NOT ABANDON THE KID to save your own feelings....he's a kid. You cannot emotionally turn yourself off like that and say "fuck it, it's not my kid". At this point not only is the kid the victim but it also becomes the fault of both parents (yes, the "father" is a parent). Seriously, how can anyone possibly think otherwise?

Either you have no emotions or your just a selfish asshole. There is no in between.

you are 100% correct.  Lets say I'm in this situation (i'd never be cause I'd have gotten a DNA test). You are correct. Because of the emotional bond any normal person have an extrodinarilly difficult time just cutting and running...I mean the kids 14 and you have 4 more years to raise him and he's a grown man and he'd think of you as a helluva man raising him knowing you weren't his...

vs. this kid hating women and being an angry little fuck for the rest of his life...

I know the morally right thing to do but the man shouldn;t be faulted....it's not his fault or his business. The woman should go to jail also for fraud.

[Coach is Back!]

Law of the jungle, dont raise anothers mans sperm (child), it lessens the chances of you succesfully reproducing your genes.  If anything that child got of lucky, if he was a lion cub, he would be dead by now. 

You'd fall into that "selfish asshole" catagory.

At 14 he's in the vulnerable time in his life and could be teetering on being a total fuck up (hanging around the wrong influences) or being around the right people and developing himself into a productive part of society when he becomes an adult. We already have enough fuck ups in this world.

[Wiggs]

You'd fall into that "selfish asshole" catagory.

At 14 he's in the vulnerable time in his life and could be teetering on being a total fuck up (hanging around the wrong influences) or being around the right people and developing himself into a productive part of society when he becomes an adult. We already have enough fuck ups in this world.

To be honest Coach, most men wouldn't do this.  They might say they would but they wouldn't....Me included. Now the c u n t? Well now that's a different story...that's what hit men and tight alibies are for cause I'm 99% sure I'd have her head cut off.

I am the 99%

[Wiggs]

With DNA testing available there should be a law.
You should have the option of a DNA test after the childs birth. If you refuse, you are responsible for the child till it is 18 whether it's yours or not.

If you accept and it's not yours, you're free to go if you want.

This is 100% fair. You get a chance.

[theheman]

You'd fall into that "selfish asshole" catagory.

You're so judgemental man.  The guy was stating a fact that happens in nature.  He wasn't saying men should kill other men's children.  Maybe you're thinking it and projectiong your own "selfish asshole" characteristic on others.  The real selfish asshole is the woman that gets impregnated w/the man she finds better genetically suited for survival and having her partner raise it.  By priniciples of biology and nature the real winner is the man that can impregnate as many women as possible and have other males raise it for him.  We don't live like that because we are given dominion over other animals and hence have a higher level thinking than ...

[theheman]

With DNA testing available there should be a law.
You should have the option of a DNA test after the childs birth. If you refuse, you are responsible for the child till it is 18 whether it's yours or not.

If you accept and it's not yours, you're free to go if you want.

This is 100% fair. You get a chance.

X2--just what I said earlier too.  I'm glad we are in agreement.

[Wiggs]

X2--just what I said earlier too.  I'm glad we are in agreement.

Sorry didn't see that. And yes, it doesn't get anymore fair than that.
Cause what it comes down to then is trust.
How much do you trust your broad? I would get the DNA test 100% of the time...She could threaten me with divorce or breaking up and everything else. I'd do it. and not secretly I want her to know I don't fuck around.

This is an extrememly traumatic event for a man and should be treated with more care. But because we're guys we're supposed to "tough it out"....Oh brother ...Any man that finds out and kills the bitch should be put in a nut house not a prison.
The cu nt should be jailed for fraud.

[Radical Plato]

You'd fall into that "selfish asshole" catagory.

At 14 he's in the vulnerable time in his life and could be teetering on being a total fuck up (hanging around the wrong influences) or being around the right people and developing himself into a productive part of society when he becomes an adult. We already have enough fuck ups in this world.

The boys got no chance, he has a whore for a mother,  Fuck Ups make life Interesting - It's the do-gooders I cant stand, spreading their evil everywhere

[The Wizard of Truth]

He has every right to walk out on the childs life. Hes 14, not an infant. Not his child so fuck it, he may want to move on and have his own life and family

[Samourai Pizzacat]

don't be a dipshit coach. it's not his. it's the mothers fault....MOTHERS FAULT. The guy has every right to bounce and not be judged. The mother should be punished not this guy.

If the guy has any sensibilities he will continue to father the boy, perhaps not fulltime, but take him on the weekends, whatever. This is about the child now, not about a man's ego. Life puts you in horrible dilemma's, the measure of a man is how he handles these situations. Walking away is a complete cop-out!

[Wiggs]

If the guy has any sensibilities he will continue to father the boy, perhaps not fulltime, but take him on the weekends, whatever. This is about the child now, not about a man's ego. Life puts you in horrible dilemma's, the measure of a man is how he handles these situations. Walking away is a complete cop-out!

Yes Sir.  See my post that starts with "to be honest coach".

[Man of Steel]

The mother was wrong and the "father" was wrong...both made very poor choices.

People need to keep it in their pants and figure out who they're actually dating and possibly marrying before "makin babies" together.  20 seconds of irresponsible, cross-eyed bliss and lives get ruined like this.  Exercise some self control.

[Radical Plato]

People need to keep it in their pants and figure out who they're actually dating and possibly marrying before "makin babies" together.  20 seconds of irresponsible, cross-eyed bliss and lives get ruined like this.  Exercise some self control.

Easy when you are as ugly as most getbiggers, but what happens when you have the kavorka like I do

[Man of Steel]

Easy when you are as ugly as most getbiggers, but what happens when you have the kavorka like I do

Yes, some of us do look like Shrek so self control is a non issue.