Transit costs should never be more than 10 percent of your take home salary, and transit time shouldn't ever be more than 10 percent of your work day. If it is your doing something wrong.
Anyhow people in this day and age tend to goto two illogical simplistic extremes it's all about money or money is just a number. Both couldn't be farther from the truth and both ignore the complexity of money.
Money isn't one thing if you can't sparse that tree you should learn how.
Money is resources
Money is progress
Money is health
Money is security
Money is status
Money is a reward
Money is a place holder not real
Money is what unites society
Money is a measurement
Money is fluid and ever changing
Money is time
Money is an investment
Money is a modern way of life
Money is a legacy and part of family
Money is prosperity
Money is freedom
People mix and match this these thing in the most foolish of ways it's a real sad, as it's probably the greatest thing ever if respected and understood, mauling all those things together, or ignoring any one of those things is where all the trouble comes from.