FEI - I like chick w fat asses and tits - so this is no homo - just thought it was hilarious this chick wrote this. http://living.msn.com/love-relationships/the-liberating-side-of-being-together-sexpert/article?cp-documentid=257045359
My boyfriend wants a threesome; what should I do?.
The age-old question: To threesome, or not to threesome?
By Sexpert, Sharon O'Brien
Q: My boyfriend and I are both in our twenties and we have a regular sex life, but he wants a threesome. He keeps saying I should invite one of my girlfriends over,
or my sister. It is starting to really annoy me. Why is he insisting on this so much, and what is the best way to tell him that I am not interested? Saying “no” doesn't stop him from asking.
--Barb
A: While there may be nothing wrong with a threesome between consenting adults as long as no one gets hurt, there are several problems with your boyfriend’s request:
Why does he keep asking after you said no?
You said you rejected his suggestion of a threesome, so why does he keep asking? Are you being very direct in your reply? For example: “No, Bob, I’m not comfortable with a threesome and here’s why. (Explanation) Now that you understand why I’m not going to do it, please stop asking.”
Sometimes in an effort to spare someone’s feelings, or to avoid a difficult conversation, we dance around a topic without addressing it directly. If you feel strongly that “no” is the answer to your boyfriend’s threesome question but you haven’t had a conversation with him about why a threesome won’t work for you, perhaps he doesn’t get it and thinks you just want to be coaxed.
If, on the other hand, you’ve been very clear about your disinclination to include a girlfriend or your sister (more about that later) in your sexual relationship—and your boyfriend still keeps insisting that he wants a threesome—then he clearly places more value on his pleasure than on your comfort or your feelings.
Is this the only area where your boyfriend discounts your feelings and opinions? If so, and he normally respects your opinion, then a frank conversation about why this topic bothers you should solve the problem.
But if your boyfriend overrides or dismisses what you say more often than not, then ask yourself why you stay in a relationship with someone who doesn’t respect you.
Why is it so important for your boyfriend to have sex with other women?
Whether this is a new relationship or you’ve been together for a while, it’s important to be clear with each other about your expectations for monogamy. Some couples can successfully maintain an open relationship, where one or both of them are free to engage in sex with others, but most couples make a vow of fidelity because it helps them build trust.
If you’re someone who values a committed relationship in which both partners agree to be faithful to each other but your boyfriend is looking for a way to experience other partners with your permission, it’s best to sort this out sooner rather than later.
Is he interested in your sister?
Being in a committed relationship doesn’t mean you’re blind to the charms of others, but most societies—including ours—have taboos about sex with close relatives. The fact that your boyfriend suggested including your sister brings up questions about his interest in inappropriate behavior, and whether he’d really rather be dating her. 
The bottom line: if your boyfriend respects you, then he respects your feelings and your boundaries. When you say no, it means no. And if he doesn’t respect you, why are you still with him?
