A lot of men are so afraid of being gay that they wont even let a woman touch their ass, listen enjoying ass play does not mean you are gay, gay means you are attracted to guys thats it, so you can let your woman lick, finger and put a dildo up your ass, that is just assplay nothing more, so getbiggers free your minds dont let the stigma of being called gay stop you from enjoying the pleasure of sex.
Because if I was going to be picky i would ask you why do you care so much about how your body looks and why do you like to see other men with their shirts off so lets get real here.