In the question of what to choose... Yes you can't overcome narrowness as evident by the most blown up man in the world. So you choose subcutaneous fat
BUT in my opinion, the flabby unshapely belly that make the torso have a pear shape is the most unmanly
Just because it is adjustable shows complete lack of will power and that makes it disgusting
I can't blame a guy that has done the most with a small frame
Yeah but an overweight, soft man is like that by choice. If he slimmed down and got in shape who knows. A fat guy is usually the product of his environment more so than his genes. (Remember, not too long ago in human history being overweight and soft was considered the pinnacle of attraction. It was a sign that you had wealth and access to resources and were in good health).
The frail, narrow shouldered guy is genetically built that way. Ultimately, it is genetic fitness that attracts women to men (and vice versa). Broad shoulder structure is one physical trait that (most) women find attractive in prospective mates. Other things like facial and structural symmetry are also good indicators of genetic fitness.
I wouldn't exactly call either of these guys unmanly:
