He has a good side to him, but he has to constantly fight the demons that make him take the easy way out by going after people's families. I would never say somebody had a good side unless I had seen it. Sadly it's easier for him to repeat behaviour rather than change it... That takes work!
This is not babysitting booty, the man has crossed the line over and over, what?... you want to help him cross the street? he deserves nothing whatsoever, just a negative energy floating around waiting to die and causing problems, chaos and misery in the process, nothing more.