don't see the problem, men pretty much need that outage everyday unlike the average woman. If the mrs isn't putting out on a given day i bash one out to bit of porn, get that release needed and see what comes the next day, if the flange is accessible all the better but with 4 kids in the house it doesn't do much good for your sex life.
There are some dirty sluts out there though, their parents must be very proud. "what did you do at work today love?" "Oh I just took 3 strangers dicks in every hole, drunk a glass of mixed brand spunk and gagged on some balls"