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Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
« Reply #75 on: June 30, 2016, 12:42:41 PM »
answer the question

There really isn't anything to answer. Why do so many successful men want to be in relationships?

Regardless of sex or how much money you make, you want companionship, you want to start a family, all that bullshit...


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Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
« Reply #76 on: June 30, 2016, 12:46:08 PM »
There really isn't anything to answer. Why do so many successful men want to be in relationships?

Regardless of sex or how much money you make, you want companionship, you want to start a family, all that bullshit...


but you said they are financially dependent

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Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
« Reply #77 on: June 30, 2016, 12:48:23 PM »
but you said they are financially dependent

I said who is financially dependent?

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Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
« Reply #78 on: June 30, 2016, 02:25:31 PM »
All men have options.

A majority could probably be better. It depends on what you mean by "better" though.

Hotter?
More Financially secure?
Less bitchy?

We can all find that if we WANT to.

At some point, being hot is great, but if the girl is hot and the personality is spot on, why look elsewhere?

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Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
« Reply #79 on: June 30, 2016, 03:35:03 PM »
thats the whole thing about being "in love"

No other women actually interests you, even if shes naked and bending over with the pinkest tighest snatch, you just dont care.

The amount of homo in this post is too much to consider.

Plus, it's a tidal wave of nonsense.

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Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
« Reply #80 on: June 30, 2016, 04:06:44 PM »
Women are generally not truly loyal. I've said it before. Like the quote presented elsewhere in this thread says, when a broad is done with you, you're DONE. A girl can cry and profess her undying love and then tell you to pack your bags the very next day. Usually the dude doesn't even see it coming.

Unless there's a financial dependence or child involved, men must accept the wishy-washy nature of a woman's "loyalty".

And if you understand and accept this, it places monstrous stress on you to constantly "earn" her affections. The romantic relationship is a job, period. And this is the "in love" portion!

It really is tough for a knowing man to justify the pursuit of a lasting relationship and/or marriage.

And it hurts to say all this. I'm a romantic at heart, but I do not trust women to reciprocate my loyalty and affections.

And for the record, I've never cheated on a girlfriend. Even when I lived in another country and had opportunity present itself. My lady would NEVER have found out. Having said this, the desire to get with fresh meat is always there.

If you say otherwise, you're either a liar or a very-low-test male.


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Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
« Reply #81 on: June 30, 2016, 06:28:21 PM »
Women are generally not truly loyal. I've said it before. Like the quote presented elsewhere in this thread says, when a broad is done with you, you're DONE. A girl can cry and profess her undying love and then tell you to pack your bags the very next day. Usually the dude doesn't even see it coming.

Unless there's a financial dependence or child involved, men must accept the wishy-washy nature of a woman's "loyalty".

And if you understand and accept this, it places monstrous stress on you to constantly "earn" her affections. The romantic relationship is a job, period. And this is the "in love" portion!

It really is tough for a knowing man to justify the pursuit of a lasting relationship and/or marriage.

And it hurts to say all this. I'm a romantic at heart, but I do not trust women to reciprocate my loyalty and affections.

And for the record, I've never cheated on a girlfriend. Even when I lived in another country and had opportunity present itself. My lady would NEVER have found out. Having said this, the desire to get with fresh meat is always there.

If you say otherwise, you're either a liar or a very-low-test male.



Correct, vast majority of women are not loyal and will drop you tomorrow after telling you they love you until they are blue in the face today. I don't think it used to be like this, looking at my aunts, mother, etc, but that's how it is today. It sucks, as a guy you got to be of the fuck it mentality and move on but shit at the end of the day ur human and have lasting feelings

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Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
« Reply #82 on: June 30, 2016, 08:27:04 PM »
Correct, vast majority of women are not loyal and will drop you tomorrow after telling you they love you until they are blue in the face today. I don't think it used to be like this, looking at my aunts, mother, etc, but that's how it is today. It sucks, as a guy you got to be of the fuck it mentality and move on but shit at the end of the day ur human and have lasting feelings

This part I agree with. The rest...  :-\ Anyone can be hurt in a relationship or discover someone they cared about wasn't who they thought they were, but I've never met someone with a sour view of relationships/the opposite sex who was a catch themself. The thing most have in common is that they have unrealistic expectations or make incredibly bad decisions and then rationalize those decisions as being inevitable. When you meet someone, guy or girl, they show you exactly who they are within the first few hours you spend together. Not even just romantically. Just casual acquaintances, people ignore that someone is a shitbag and constantly say this person is stand-up because they didn't rob or kill them. Not only do people ignore warning signs, but they ignore when they exacerbate their partner's flaws so they can feel better about painting themselves as the victim.

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Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
« Reply #83 on: June 30, 2016, 08:30:47 PM »
Women are generally not truly loyal. I've said it before. Like the quote presented elsewhere in this thread says, when a broad is done with you, you're DONE. A girl can cry and profess her undying love and then tell you to pack your bags the very next day. Usually the dude doesn't even see it coming.

Unless there's a financial dependence or child involved, men must accept the wishy-washy nature of a woman's "loyalty".

And if you understand and accept this, it places monstrous stress on you to constantly "earn" her affections.
The romantic relationship is a job, period. And this is the "in love" portion!

It really is tough for a knowing man to justify the pursuit of a lasting relationship and/or marriage.

And it hurts to say all this. I'm a romantic at heart, but I do not trust women to reciprocate my loyalty and affections.

And for the record, I've never cheated on a girlfriend. Even when I lived in another country and had opportunity present itself. My lady would NEVER have found out. Having said this, the desire to get with fresh meat is always there.

If you say otherwise, you're either a liar or a very-low-test male.


i reached the same conclusions :-X


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Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
« Reply #84 on: July 01, 2016, 12:13:43 AM »
The amount of homo in this post is too much to consider.

Plus, it's a tidal wave of nonsense.

i never said every one finds love , i just said what it was

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Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
« Reply #85 on: July 01, 2016, 12:17:24 AM »
Just because Magneto can control metal doesn't mean he gets an erection when he reads something ironic.  He doesn't control wood.

Excellent buildup, nicely executed!

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Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
« Reply #86 on: July 01, 2016, 06:09:28 AM »
This page is filled with a lot of guys who sound like they have issues discerning/finding a good woman.

They are no worse then men in regards to loyalty. In today's culture both are pretty bad.
 I can't believe how many movies are made where the person is in a relationship and by the end they are in a relationship with a new person all while the plot pushes for you to pull for that to happen.  Romanticizes it.

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Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
« Reply #87 on: July 01, 2016, 07:35:08 AM »
Women are generally not truly loyal. I've said it before. Like the quote presented elsewhere in this thread says, when a broad is done with you, you're DONE. A girl can cry and profess her undying love and then tell you to pack your bags the very next day. Usually the dude doesn't even see it coming.

Unless there's a financial dependence or child involved, men must accept the wishy-washy nature of a woman's "loyalty".

And if you understand and accept this, it places monstrous stress on you to constantly "earn" her affections. The romantic relationship is a job, period. And this is the "in love" portion!

It really is tough for a knowing man to justify the pursuit of a lasting relationship and/or marriage.

And it hurts to say all this. I'm a romantic at heart, but I do not trust women to reciprocate my loyalty and affections.

And for the record, I've never cheated on a girlfriend. Even when I lived in another country and had opportunity present itself. My lady would NEVER have found out. Having said this, the desire to get with fresh meat is always there.

If you say otherwise, you're either a liar or a very-low-test male.



This is a good post. I have an ex who was very very successful. He married a woman who claimed to love him so much. His family liked her and she put on a really great show of loyalty. Well when he wasn't so successful anymore not one month later she Moved out and filed for divorce. To me it was blatantly obvious she wasn't loyal. She was going to be loyal as long as she we benefiting but the second hard times come they are gone.

These women are very easy to spot. men are just often blinded by the manipulation, sweet talk, looks, And sex to see it.

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Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
« Reply #88 on: July 01, 2016, 08:22:35 AM »
All men have options.

A majority could probably be better. It depends on what you mean by "better" though.

Hotter?
More Financially secure?
Less bitchy?

We can all find that if we WANT to.

At some point, being hot is great, but if the girl is hot and the personality is spot on, why look elsewhere?
Some guys cheat for the trill of it, and others because their sexually fustrated at home. 
I don't understand why guys cheat if they are not married. if youre in an exclusive relationship, and not happy drop that bitch.
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Re: Men are only as faithful as their options
« Reply #89 on: July 01, 2016, 08:49:37 AM »
This page is filled with a lot of guys who sound like they have issues discerning/finding a good woman.


This is getbig.com .

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