To be honest - if I would have a wife, I would make it clear that she (and kids) will die if she fucks it up in a bad way/by her own fault, there's nothing worse than fucking up a "family project" for all parts involved.
I kinda agree. Now I would never kill her but if she decided to fuck things up and destroy our family unit and our kids lives, I would likely be like "fuck it all" and just leave the country and never see her or the kids again. I'm not going to be part of a broken family, it's all of nothing. So if I get married it will be with the wisdom that the relationship must be constantly worked on, don't get to take it easy after the wedding.
***bodybuilding related: unless she gets fat
