I would like to consider the possibility of getting ESFIT and BeThere together over a few brews or cocktails of their choice and have a meeting of the minds to determine if they could come to terms.
Part of that meeting would require that if they decide to punch each other, they would have to punch me first.
In the past this has worked well and I have yet to be punched at all and each of the antagonists have left that so called meeting under friendly terms.
Dislike or even hatred disappears when individuals meet face to face providing that there is an arbitrator in between.
And the drinks or cocktails seem to be of great help.
PS... The drinks are never on me!
he wouldnt fight if we met, he would be too scared to get his ass handed to him by a 52 year old guy.
He would just put on a huge display of bravado and hope I would back down.
I would end up laughing in his face and verbally destroying him, no need for violence.