Let's get down to the nuts and bolts of this. So there you are. You're married. And you're fucking your wife regularly. What kind of security measures were in place? Always condoms? Has your pecker never actually touched a vag? Or is she on pills? Implant? And you'd rely on that? Just pulling it out and jizzing on her would be kind of risky in case you get a little pre-squirt or some dribble-down onto the slit so I doubt you trusted that. Did you get snipped? How did this all work?
Nor a creepy old dude. Gravity sucks.