Sorry. It’s the nature of the accusations and charges that matter - I learned that from the Kavanaugh hearings
You definitely have a point. People do change. Kavanaugh's confirmation hearings should have been limited to his legal career and not an unproven personal historical event. It is getting to the point where no one is going to consider a career in public service. Why have your entire life dragged through the mud, in order to be a politician or public servant. Society is hungry for scandals. Many people live in some global reality show. It's like we get off on bringing people down. Unless someone's behavior is pertinent, it should be nobody's business.
Right now, the Me Too movement has permeated our everyday lives in ways which benefit almost no one.