to me its a racial thing. i get more attention by black and latin women then white women, and im white. for the past 4 years ive dated nothing but latin girls. i see alot of white women that im attracted to, but they always say "ewww your too big". usually after they make that comment i will grab their sides and say "your fat", even though they arent.. just to bring down their self esteem......... i think in the hispanic/black community being big is a macho thing and is respected, while in the white community its looked down upon(meathead, dumb, egotistical etc...). im just stating my expereince with the women out here.