One of LL's statements about dating reminded me of a story. A girl I know was seeing a guy who was seperated from his wife. Turns out he wasn't legally seperated, she dumped him immediately.
How much detail should you ask for when meeting someone? Too little and you usually end up with unpleasant surprises. Too much and you seem creepy (if you're a guy) or nosey/jealous (if you're a girl).
I've had people ask me super detailed questions and answered them. That's different becaues I don't tend to overpersonalize things and am too analytical. When I ask women questions about relationships they usually don't understand what I'm trying to learn.
Well.....it's usually something the other person just volunteers if they are serious, Jake.
The chick I'm talking with told me everything and still does.
She's legally seperated and getting a divorce.
The major reason we haven't crushed is that she doesn't need the drama if her husband finds out somehow, though, it would hurt her financially in the divorce proceedings.
I also don't overpersonalize things.........I detach and see things big picture-esque.
Many people just don't understand that perspective, it unnerves them.
Sometimes you will need to "
dumbdown" your questions/answers for people.
That is the shame in all of this.
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