Author Topic: Will I be looked at as a sucker?  (Read 5329 times)

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Re: Will I be looked at as a sucker?
« Reply #25 on: July 16, 2008, 11:06:40 AM »
Yeah, the date's already planned.  I don't mind helping because I know her and it sounds like most guys that she know pretty much told her "no" because they wouldn't get any from her after, or at least that would be my guess. 

The only question you have to ask yourself is this:

Do you like her?

If she was a buddy of yours, would you help him move?

If the answer is yes to those questions... then help her move anyway... I'd help my buds move so why not this chick?

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Re: Will I be looked at as a sucker?
« Reply #26 on: July 16, 2008, 12:54:14 PM »
An acquaintance/friend is moving and I kinda offered to help her move because she mentioned that nobody with a truck (guys) would help her move stuff.  Also keep in mind we talked about going out for dinner or something, prior to this.  She lives about 30 minutes away, so it's not exactly on my way but I said if she can't find anyone else that I would help.  So is this a way to score points or look like a sucker?

Either you did or didn't. Did she ask you first among the others, or were you last on the list? And did she say yes to going to dinner before asking you for help? And did she If not, then, yeah you would be seen as a sucker. Or did you "kinda" not get an answer? She would be trading your service for dinner.

Since we don't know the whole story, we can only go by the facts. She might indeed, like Jag said, look upon you as a descent person helping out. But as someone said, go with your gut. If you need to ask, then you the deal, she thinks she has a sucker. And it will only get worse.

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Re: Will I be looked at as a sucker?
« Reply #27 on: July 16, 2008, 02:42:16 PM »
for him to post it on a message board and dwell on it means this will not end well, stop overanalysing and just wait to see what happens, go on with your life.

No offense bro, but i think she is using you...your a "nice" guy


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Re: Will I be looked at as a sucker?
« Reply #28 on: July 16, 2008, 04:03:17 PM »
The only question you have to ask yourself is this:

Do you like her?

If she was a buddy of yours, would you help him move?

If the answer is yes to those questions... then help her move anyway... I'd help my buds move so why not this chick?
Like her? Yeah.  I would def help a buddy move.

Parker: Yeah I did.  She agreed to dinner way before.

Quick:  Stella knows why I posted here.  I haven't made the best choices with women lately so I figure I'd throw it out there, couldn't hurt right?  Def not dwelling on it but certainly looking to keep my head on straight.   ;D
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Re: Will I be looked at as a sucker?
« Reply #29 on: July 16, 2008, 04:13:14 PM »
Like her? Yeah.  I would def help a buddy move.

Parker: Yeah I did.  She agreed to dinner way before.

Quick:  Stella knows why I posted here.  I haven't made the best choices with women lately so I figure I'd throw it out there, couldn't hurt right?  Def not dwelling on it but certainly looking to keep my head on straight.   ;D
do me a favour and think of something else besides that lady, if it dont pan out your going to be a depressed cookie..but good luck anyway

(I know i sound rude, but im actually trying to help you like i have helped few of the other guys here)

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Re: Will I be looked at as a sucker?
« Reply #30 on: July 16, 2008, 04:17:29 PM »
do me a favour and think of something else besides that lady, if it dont pan out your going to be a depressed cookie..but good luck anyway

(I know i sound rude, but im actually trying to help you like i have helped few of the other guys here)

I agree that he does sound way into this girl... but I hope that's just the internets talking.


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Re: Will I be looked at as a sucker?
« Reply #31 on: July 16, 2008, 04:30:33 PM »
do me a favour and think of something else besides that lady, if it dont pan out your going to be a depressed cookie..but good luck anyway

(I know i sound rude, but im actually trying to help you like i have helped few of the other guys here)
I do, my running.  Lol.  Thanks though.  I think my goal was just to not make an ass out of myself (too late, lol) as my transition back into single life has not been smooth, for numerous reasons.  Lol

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Re: Will I be looked at as a sucker?
« Reply #32 on: July 16, 2008, 04:34:38 PM »
I agree that he does sound way into this girl... but I hope that's just the internets talking.


step back a little, check yourself, are you making a big deal of the whole thing? is she constantly on your mind? if you want to help her move then thats good, but if your doing it to get some ass its not going to work..

did she ask you for dinner? or did you ask her?

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Re: Will I be looked at as a sucker?
« Reply #33 on: July 16, 2008, 04:38:22 PM »
step back a little, check yourself, are you making a big deal of the whole thing? is she constantly on your mind? if you want to help her move then thats good, but if your doing it to get some ass its not going to work..

did she ask you for dinner? or did you ask her?

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Re: Will I be looked at as a sucker?
« Reply #34 on: July 16, 2008, 04:45:05 PM »
BINGO!!!
Want to help, not doing it to get ass.  Lol.

The only thing constantly on my mind is work and starting my career.
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Re: Will I be looked at as a sucker?
« Reply #35 on: July 16, 2008, 05:10:36 PM »
just be a gentleman and let the chips fall where they may

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Re: Will I be looked at as a sucker?
« Reply #36 on: July 16, 2008, 08:00:14 PM »
just be a gentleman and let the chips fall where they may
Good advice from an old ass man.
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Re: Will I be looked at as a sucker?
« Reply #37 on: July 17, 2008, 05:10:09 AM »
If you're doing it because you are helping a friend out, then you are not a sucker because you should be there to help a friend when in need.  If you are doing it because you want to get a little ass or think you might get a little ass...and that is not what she has in mind, then yes, you will be a sucker.
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Re: Will I be looked at as a sucker?
« Reply #38 on: July 18, 2008, 04:20:16 AM »
just be a gentleman and let the chips fall where they may

good advice

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Re: Will I be looked at as a sucker?
« Reply #39 on: July 18, 2008, 05:37:38 AM »


Making a thread here about something doesn't necessarily mean it's something that is constantly on a person's mind.  Sometimes that may be the case and sometimes not.

cap didn't make 5 threads about the situation...in that case we might wonder if it's constantly on his mind ;D

 
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Re: Will I be looked at as a sucker?
« Reply #40 on: July 18, 2008, 05:39:59 AM »

Making a thread here about something doesn't necessarily mean it's something that is constantly on a person's mind.  Sometimes that may be the case and sometimes not.

cap didn't make 5 threads about the situation...in that case we might wonder if it's constantly on his mind ;D

 
Caps a good guy, his a young dude too, so if he sounds like a bitch you know why.
He will be fine..i've had a private chat with him

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Re: Will I be looked at as a sucker?
« Reply #41 on: July 18, 2008, 05:56:33 AM »

He will be fine..i've had a private chat with him
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Re: Will I be looked at as a sucker?
« Reply #42 on: July 18, 2008, 05:57:31 AM »
tmi  :-X




















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huh? sorry laura, what does tmi mean

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Re: Will I be looked at as a sucker?
« Reply #43 on: July 18, 2008, 10:15:26 AM »
huh? sorry laura, what does tmi mean

Man, you're young too, TMI means: Too Much Info. ;D

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Re: Will I be looked at as a sucker?
« Reply #44 on: July 19, 2008, 02:44:03 AM »
Man, you're young too, TMI means: Too Much Info. ;D

Not necessarily youth, ...could just be a different culture with different colloquial terms.

If I said BYU, Provo residents might think I mean Brigham Young University, but someone elsewhere would know.
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