To all the 35-and-over wannabe sugar daddies

[Tre]

I would need to see this 20 year old before I pass any judgment. The only over 35 guy that doesnt hit younger is one that cant get any, its not morals if you guys dont have a choice in it.

I gotta disagree with you a bit, Noel.  While, true, there are plenty of older guys who can't get any from a younger woman, there are a whole lot who can, simply because they have more to offer now than when they were broke college grads looking for a job.

Having a quick fling with a young girl, ok, I can understand that.  He was away for the weekend, they met, she made him feel young again, etc. etc...then he goes back home to his wife and loves her like never before.  I get that. 

But starting a relationship with a 20-year-old kid?  Playas have gotta be smarter than that once they hit a certain age.  35 is old enough to know better.   

[drkaje]

Tre,

Relationship, No. That would be stupid.

Hit it, of course. You should always hit the 20 year old pussy, never know when it's gonna come around again.

[Tre]

Tre,

Relationship, No. That would be stupid.

Hit it, of course. You should always hit the 20 year old pussy, never know when it's gonna come around again.

Gotcha...we're all on the same page, I think.

Hit and RUN! 

[drkaje]

Gotcha...we're all on the same page, I think.

Hit and RUN! 

You should definitely fuck them.

20 year old girls want to spend money and dance, LOL! Let 20 yr old boys waste their money.

[mwbbuilder]

Tre

trust me. a 36 year old don't feel "old." so they don't a 20 year old to feel young again. It's just a whole lot better looking, tighter, and less complicated many times than a 35 year old.

How old are you?

[Deicide]

Tre=angry black man with a big black cock...

[BIG_STI]

I must say this kind of happened to me, was on the rocks with the wife at age 27 then a 18 year old came along. Guess which way I went.

[Tre]

Tre

trust me. a 36 year old don't feel "old." so they don't a 20 year old to feel young again. It's just a whole lot better looking, tighter, and less complicated many times than a 35 year old.

How old are you?

I'm 38, but felt very old after I'd gotten divorced, quit working out, and allowed work and baby mama drama to take control. 

I don't feel old anymore, but it was a pretty long process to get my life back and I've *still* gotta deal with drama (you won't believe how territorial this woman is), although it doesn't bother me as much anymore.  There's still a lot of animosity on my end, but that stems from the fact that I bit my tongue and never said anything to her for so many years.  Finally, one day, I'd had enough. 

Getting back on the market again, I had to do some serious upgrading to my life and my health/appearance, but there's no true recovery for my mental health.  I'm damaged, carrying serious baggage, and I know it. 

You may be right in saying that I'm the exception, but I think the young women have helped me to regain my youth, if only temporarily.

[Tre]

Tre=angry black man with a big slightly-above-average black cock...

Fixed.

Now you...stop that! lol

[BIG_STI]

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[Noel Fuller]

I'm 46 and dont feel old, divorced and dont feel old , kids and dont feel old, if there two girl at a club or store or whatever and ones hot and 20 and the other is smokim and 35 i'm with the twenty year old every time, I dont know how many times I dated a girl around my age and the bitching about thier life starts at about dinner, i'm not Capt save a ho

[pedro01]

Men should masturbate before making any decision in life regarding a woman.

Words of wisdom indeed.

For guys on test - masturbate 4 times for the same effect.

[Tre]

I'm 46 and dont feel old, divorced and dont feel old , kids and dont feel old, if there two girl at a club or store or whatever and ones hot and 20 and the other is smokim and 35 i'm with the twenty year old every time, I dont know how many times I dated a girl around my age and the bitching about thier life starts at about dinner, i'm not Capt save a ho

LOL @ Save a ho!! 

Not to nit-pick, but haven't you taken good care of yourself pretty much your entire adult life?  I'm definitely not making any excuses - I own my shit - but letting my body go really aged me quickly, mentally and physically. 

Even though I'm pretty relaxed by nature (although you probably can't tell by all my angry GetBig posts!), I'm finding that the older I get, the more I'm complaining about my life, and that just ain't cool, even if I am a good story-teller.  Whenever I start to bitch about 'what she did to me today', I almost always follow it up with how lucky I am to have the life that I do.  Even divorced, I know that 99% of people in the world would kill to be in my shoes, living a dream life. 

And when I think about that, I usually just shut my mouth and smile...and then come talk shit on GB.   

[G o a t b o y]

I'm 38, but felt very old after I'd gotten divorced, quit working out, and allowed work and baby mama drama to take control. 

I don't feel old anymore, but it was a pretty long process to get my life back and I've *still* gotta deal with drama (you won't believe how territorial this woman is), although it doesn't bother me as much anymore.  There's still a lot of animosity on my end, but that stems from the fact that I bit my tongue and never said anything to her for so many years.  Finally, one day, I'd had enough. 

Getting back on the market again, I had to do some serious upgrading to my life and my health/appearance, but there's no true recovery for my mental health.  I'm damaged, carrying serious baggage, and I know it. 

You may be right in saying that I'm the exception, but I think the young women have helped me to regain my youth, if only temporarily.

If I got divorced tomorrow, no way in hell I'd date "young".  Your average 20-something bitch of today I couldn't stand to be around for more than 10 minutes.  She'd be fine as long as she was sucking my cock, but the minute she started to speak I'd be like, "get the fuck out"!  And this nitwit McNair set up a 20-yo bitch with a condo and a car?  Seriously?? 

[pedro01]

I'm 39 & my girlfriend is 26. We have been together for 3 years & I can tell you it has been a struggle.

Initially, it started off as a casual thing, she was in a long distance relationship & I helped to 'fill the gap'. In my defense, she is quite hot & I had just split with my wife & was looking for an attached woman so that there would be no strings.  A poor defense for nailing some guys woman - but the logic seemed sound at the time.

One day she came to me all smiles & said "I've left him" to which I replied "What the fuck did you do that for ?". In retrospect, my response could have been a little more tactful. Anyway, a truly auspicious start.

She's fine now, but she was like a kid at first, moody when she couldn't have her way etc. You know, the typical shit your girlfriend did when you were 18.

Like I say - she's 26 now, pretty stable, knows what she has to do to keep her man happy, dotes over my 7 year old boy who loves her to bits, is 5 months pregnant and I couldn't be happier.

Would I do it again ? No fucking chance - I've tamed my last tiger. Next time round, I'm keeping it over 3-zero.

[UPINTHEMGUTS]

I'm 39 & my girlfriend is 26. We have been together for 3 years & I can tell you it has been a struggle.

Initially, it started off as a casual thing, she was in a long distance relationship & I helped to 'fill the gap'. In my defense, she is quite hot & I had just split with my wife & was looking for an attached woman so that there would be no strings.  A poor defense for nailing some guys woman - but the logic seemed sound at the time.

One day she came to me all smiles & said "I've left him" to which I replied "What the fuck did you do that for ?". In retrospect, my response could have been a little more tactful. Anyway, a truly auspicious start.

She's fine now, but she was like a kid at first, moody when she couldn't have her way etc. You know, the typical shit your girlfriend did when you were 18.

Like I say - she's 26 now, pretty stable, knows what she has to do to keep her man happy, dotes over my 7 year old boy who loves her to bits, is 5 months pregnant and I couldn't be happier.

Would I do it again ? No fucking chance - I've tamed my last tiger. Next time round, I'm keeping it over 3-zero.

Sounds like you think you have it all figured out. Next time around? You don't think that at this point in your life that this may be the final stop?

You have a 7 year old who's attached to her and she's five months preggo carrying your unborn child(or is it the ex's? get a paternity test done)). Even if you do leave her, she'll always remain a part of your life because you share a kid. Then you'll really have to tame a tiger who's pissed that you dumped her and wants child custody rights and a shit load of money.

[pedro01]

Sounds like you think you have it all figured out. Next time around? You don't think that at this point in your life that this may be the final stop?

You have a 7 year old who's attached to her and she's five months preggo carrying your unborn child(or is it the ex's? get a paternity test done)). Even if you do leave her, she'll always remain a part of your life because you share a kid. Then you'll really have to tame a tiger who's pissed that you dumped her and wants child custody rights and a shit load of money.

I hope it is the final stop but then I thought that the first time around. You just never know.

As for the paternity test - she left the ex 3 and a half years ago, I think I'm safe on that score.

[needmoresize]

This is a good thread. I think it definitely depends on the woman individually, not her age. I solely date younger chicks, and i can most assuredly say that none are similar as regards to age go

[needmoresize]

Wow, that was retarded. I meant as far as personality goes. Sorry, I'm a little buzzed