The irony of the tattoo (Pray for us sinners) has not escaped me.

In a way, I think I can understand why Jesse might have done it. Nothing against Sandra, but I think Jesse is a bit messed up. Add that to a wife that is on top of the world and some guys can't handle the pressure. He wants to feel like "the man" and this hot li'l number filled that monster crack in his ego.
Sandra knew what was happening. She isn't stupid. Isn't it convenient that it happened just as 'Blind Side' is released internationally? She isn't doing her press junket, but I'm sure she will be soon as things ramp up.
Meanwhile, the children are going to be mashed up mentally. Ugh...
you nailed it.
Dude has an inferiority complex toward his wife's success and feels neutered, so he has to prove himself and her he's a "male" with a "dick and balls" between his legs.
Then cheat on her and ruin their relaitonship while degrading his daughter -he got with a fucking PORN STAR- mental stability even more.
To be honnest, as it s been said alrdy, snadra isnt the brightest tool in the box either for dating this guy in particular.
She obviously fell for the bad "boy" who as successful he is still didnt overcome his deep shortcomings and insecurities.