I would still angry bang her ass - I was banging a chick once tried to be the nice guy and be sensitive
but after an half hour I got so fucking bored and she was like a wood plank, so the only time in my life i just said to myself fuck it, turned her around and banged her doggy than she starts moaning and my dumb ass finally figured it out, so I grabbed her hair and started slapping her ass
- long time ago 
Good story. I may try that, if I ever get laid.
Pretty much any girl at the right time, likes to feel like their being butt raped.
Nothing worse than the polite fucker.
"Does that feel good?"
"How's this sweety?"

Go with, no talking, slow enough to make it wet, then hammer it. A finger in her ass, is a bit daring on the first date, but shows confidence and authority.