Still no word from John about his statistics. Maybe he isn't that serious about getting any advice.
Mighty Chick has given us his theories, but mine is much more simple: in the gym, there is two kind of people, those who know what they are doing, and those who don't have a clue. First ones will gain muscle and strength, second group gain only some frustration. First group is 15% of all people in the gym, second group is 85%. For changing the group you will need to do few things. 1. you have to learn to listen when somebody gives you advise. 2. you have to learn to feel what is good to your body and whats not. 3. you have to start all over again and LEARN THE FUCKING BASICS.
I go to gym at 6:00 in the morning, and even that time there will be some bozos from group two. They could be fat bastards, or skinny guys, but the common factor with those guys is that they have a need to show me that they can lift more than me, with any mean they could use. Well, that is easy, because I usually use just moderate weights, but there is more than that. I don't have a need to show anything to anybody. My mission is simple, I am there to make my muscles grow, and that's it. Only thing which you have to show off, is that muscle which you are training, everything else is useless shit. When you learn this, you are in the right path, and after realizing that, everything is simple. You need some exercises, protein rich diet and lot of sleep. Just cut the useless shit, do only what is appropriate, be ware for over training and you will gain muscles.