I was actually approaching this from more of an emotional stand point than a physical one.
Think of the hours wasted by men obsessing over that "special" girl, heartbroken forever after "The one who got away"
I don't think it's healthy to become infatuated with a single women. Sometimes you have to zoom out and and realise you're stuggling to catch one particularly slippery fish when there are thousands more swimming around you. 
I guess I'm closed off emotionally
As drkaje had told me, when I had this issue---"like spilt milk, no sense is crying over missed pussy."
The fact of the matter is, the quality of women is far below the quality of men, because it is they who dictate our quality.
I was reading up and looking at some of the videos on these "Video Vixens", like Esther Baxter---this chica talks in magazines (like all the girls do) about their "ideal man", but this woman has been connected to Pharrell, and a host of other rappers, and now Joe Buddens, she left her husband a marine, and took her kid...Joe Buddens is a abusive dude, and many video chicks say the same. This chica has allegedly tweeted about fuqing mad nggas, "but at least i have a good heart". And it seems all these video vixens share that same mentality...And I've been around DIME PIECES that have the most selfish attitudes...do, it's like if you that one, keep that chick...just because some other trim looks good---let that shit go.
For instance, most of the women in those porn pics and the college thread, in terms of quality of character---are wanting. Selfish and empty. Almost just what the meaning of generation nothingness, because there is nothing there.