If you get injured your either an idiot or a massive pussy. How many guys do you know that have gotten injured in the gym? and dont use a pro as an example.
Ive never seen a person benching 3 plates that were small. I see guys benching 1.5-2 plates every day at the gym who look like shit.
When I first got really focused on bodybuilding I started going to bevs powerhouse and the first thing I noticed about the big guys I wanted to look like,,was that they were lifting heavy ass weights.
Um, well myself. Torn both rotator cuffs, torn a tendon in my knee, possibly fucked a disc in my lower back, who knows what else. I've come to the conclusion that statements like "lift intensely with heavy weights" and "really push yourself" etc. mean something quite different to me than to most people. I recently decided to take several months off from lifting because my body doesn't seem to work anymore. I can't get a pump, nor any muscle sensation really, and all my joints hurt. I've really tried everything over the years and it only got worse and worse.
The one thing that remained consistent, though, was my firm belief that I had to work absolutely as hard as possible. I would never quit unless I felt destroyed, and even then I always felt like I could do more. It was very hard to convince myself I was working hard enough. I suppose I should have payed more attention to how other people lift, instead of how they talk, because it seems like they don't put themselves through nearly as much punishment, on average, in the gym that I would.
I was just never satisfied with a workout unless I felt like it had really exhausted me. In the end I think this is what did me in.