Author Topic: Why are getbiggers so negative. (Read 4435 times)

MikMaq · « **Reply #25 on:** October 11, 2011, 12:27:04 PM »

To be honest I don't give a shit about the negativity, it's the hating on good things that gets to me. It's just fucking stupid and childish, if you wanna hate attack bad shit not the stuff that is good.

CARTEL · « **Reply #26 on:** October 11, 2011, 12:29:04 PM »

I think most people come on here for shits and giggles.

Try not to take it so super cereal.

Parker · « **Reply #27 on:** October 11, 2011, 12:30:53 PM »

Quote from: dyslexic on October 11, 2011, 12:25:56 PM

Criticizing and destroying someone else's ideas take very little thought, whereas building upon an idea and making it better takes creativity and a fair chunk of time.

Negative comments also receive far more responses. If that's what people thrive on... oh well.

Personally, I don't understand it. It's one thing to have a "witty comeback" ~ but it's another to tear the shit out of someone for absolutely no "positive" or productive reason.

There truly is no "positive" way to tear the crap out of someone when you are lashing out. If you want to be positive, some call it "constructive criticism" and it does NOT come off the same way as the typical Getbig replies.

Constructively tearing someone down?

CARTEL · « **Reply #28 on:** October 11, 2011, 12:32:19 PM »

Quote from: GangstaLean on October 11, 2011, 12:30:53 PM

Constructively tearing someone down?

Yep.

The Squad was just critiquing. Not owning.

MikMaq · « **Reply #29 on:** October 11, 2011, 12:37:31 PM »

Quote from: GangstaLean on October 11, 2011, 12:30:53 PM

Constructively tearing someone down?

Tearing people down is fucking awsome only a negative person would say there's some wrong with that,

It's saying bad shit about good things that gets old or people that don't even post hear. You can argue calling someone twinkish is positive if they will read it, but constructive criticism does not apply when it's random fucks on the news and shit.

G_Thang · « **Reply #30 on:** October 11, 2011, 12:38:44 PM »

Quote from: dyslexic on October 11, 2011, 12:25:56 PM

Criticizing and destroying someone else's ideas take very little thought, whereas building upon an idea and making it better takes creativity and a fair chunk of time.

Negative comments also receive far more responses. If that's what people thrive on... oh well.

Personally, I don't understand it. It's one thing to have a "witty comeback" ~ but it's another to tear the shit out of someone for absolutely no "positive" or productive reason.

There truly is no "positive" way to tear the crap out of someone when you are lashing out. If you want to be positive, some call it "constructive criticism" and it does NOT come off the same way as the typical Getbig replies.

you have alex23 and his "be positive" theads.

bay and the fan boys are exchange PMs for booty calls.

you have attention whores like jnn, wackdaddy, Xerxes, sev, etc starting personal "see my new photo" threads.

schmoes like wiggs, hulkster, O'tre, musclecenter, bob, etc pushing the shit out of their favorite bbers.

where does that leave the rest of us?

Dr Dutch · « **Reply #31 on:** October 11, 2011, 12:43:32 PM »

It's true that new posters get chased away sometimes, before they have the chance to bloom.....

apply85 · « **Reply #32 on:** October 11, 2011, 12:46:23 PM »

I like to embarrass liars

Matt C · « **Reply #33 on:** October 11, 2011, 12:51:35 PM »

Quote from: MikMaq on October 11, 2011, 08:18:24 AM

I've for the longest time was one of them but recently got some health problems fixed, so I just like wha?
Is everyone around here mentaly ill or some shit, I use to hate positive people, now I'm one of them and I can't help but feel guilty for selling out on negativity. So whats deal is getbig unique, or am I missing out on something here.

It's a very good question, MikMaq. I like Getbig because it is an honest board that doesn't sugarcoat things and I feel that is important because lying to people and telling them they have a great physique when they don't will hurt them more than anyone else. At the same time, it can go to far on here sometimes which I don't really see as being particularly conducive to anything.

MikMaq · « **Reply #34 on:** October 11, 2011, 01:02:06 PM »

Quote from: Matt C on October 11, 2011, 12:51:35 PM

It's a very good question, MikMaq. I like Getbig because it is an honest board that doesn't sugarcoat things and I feel that is important because lying to people and telling them they have a great physique when they don't will hurt them more than anyone else. At the same time, it can go to far on here sometimes which I don't really see as being particularly conducive to anything.

Shut the fuck up you racist peace of shit.

Seriously it's your irrelevant racial theories that annoy me most..

dyslexic · « **Reply #35 on:** October 11, 2011, 01:28:13 PM »

Quote from: GangstaLean on October 11, 2011, 12:30:53 PM

Constructively tearing someone down?

Gangsta, you know what I was saying. I was being a little facetious. This isn't something we do here. Constructive criticism is possible (and you know this because I've seen you do it) ~ but this normally is not standard protocol.

There is a way to criticize without hurting someone. Am I right?

JOCKTHEGLIDE · « **Reply #36 on:** October 11, 2011, 01:33:35 PM »

you forget the fellas,,,,who are 'natural' with super genetics,,,that can run 40s faster than the world record, but decided to sit at home and chill,,,,

then you have adrian,,,who is bigger than arnold,,,who just likes lifting weights,,,and dont want to be a superstar

then,,,you have mesmoprh who claims 20inches,,,and makes childish threads on 'who do you work inner biceps becuase mine are small',,,,

all kinds of characters on getbig,,,THEN YOU HAVE

GOD=GH15

WHO WE ALL LISTEN TO HE IS ABOVE RON ALSO,,,DONT BELIEVE ME,,,DO A TEST ON IT,,,,,TRY TO MAKE A THREAD ABOUT HIM,,,OR ME,,,OR ALEX23 AND SEE HOW FAR THE THREAD GOES,,,,

Quote from: G_Thang on October 11, 2011, 12:38:44 PM

you have alex23 and his "be positive" theads.

bay and the fan boys are exchange PMs for booty calls.

you have attention whores like jnn, wackdaddy, Xerxes, sev, etc starting personal "see my new photo" threads.

schmoes like wiggs, hulkster, O'tre, musclecenter, bob, etc pushing the shit out of their favorite bbers.

where does that leave the rest of us?

wordy · « **Reply #37 on:** October 11, 2011, 01:35:19 PM »

Because you're a cnut thats why.

Parker · « **Reply #38 on:** October 11, 2011, 01:39:04 PM »

Quote from: dyslexic on October 11, 2011, 01:28:13 PM

Gangsta, you know what I was saying. I was being a little facetious. This isn't something we do here. Constructive criticism is possible (and you know this because I've seen you do it) ~ but this normally is not standard protocol.

There is a way to criticize without hurting someone. Am I right?

I know what you were saying...I've always surrounded myself with people who told me the true, no matter how painful...Unfortunately, in today's world, people LOVE those who blow smoke up their ass.
So when they come on here, and "we" collectively don't, it's a blow to their egos.

Yes, there is a way, and i would call it "positive critique" than Constructive criticism"...this can be done like this,

Friend: "If you are going to wear that, you need to wear this color tie, it "goes" better with that color (effectively letting them know that the colors that they picked out don't match)."

The Abdominal Snoman · « **Reply #39 on:** October 11, 2011, 02:23:49 PM »

Must have Passive aggressive sense of humor to last on Getbig

MikMaq · « **Reply #40 on:** October 11, 2011, 04:13:08 PM »

Quote from: GangstaLean on October 11, 2011, 01:39:04 PM

I know what you were saying...I've always surrounded myself with people who told me the true, no matter how painful...Unfortunately, in today's world, people LOVE those who blow smoke up their ass.
So when they come on here, and "we" collectively don't, it's a blow to their egos.

Yes, there is a way, and i would call it "positive critique" than Constructive criticism"...this can be done like this,

Friend: "If you are going to wear that, you need to wear this color tie, it "goes" better with that color (effectively letting them know that the colors that they picked out don't match)."

It's called saying what is, and not trying to twist it into an insult, or a compliment. Again I don't want people to be positive, but this unwaranted negativity gets super annoying.

I don't wanna hear about gas bills when taking about ferrari's I don't want to hear whinning about sluts in a wyhi thread, and I sure has hell get tired of the twink phrase being said at any natty with abs.

The Abdominal Snoman · « **Reply #41 on:** October 11, 2011, 06:46:15 PM »

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Super Natural · « **Reply #42 on:** October 13, 2011, 12:12:55 AM »

Lots of negativity, but a lot of truth here. Can't change the nature of the beast, you've just got to take it for what it is. But be like one of those fish that lives happily unaffected by tenticles of the sea anemone.

Meso_z · « **Reply #43 on:** October 13, 2011, 12:36:01 AM »

Getbiggers are not "negative"....they just not pretend being "positive".

If you cant handle the board, gtfo.

Mr Nobody · « **Reply #44 on:** October 13, 2011, 01:05:24 AM »

This place is where you can express many things you cant do face to face in the world. Its a means of release in a screwed up Society from the stress and shit out there. Negativity here or jumping on someone are things that are just a means of expression from a frustrated person in the real world. That's why most people get hooked on it.

unrageable · « **Reply #45 on:** October 13, 2011, 01:05:49 AM »

cry more.

your tears are delicious.

MikMaq · « **Reply #46 on:** October 13, 2011, 07:27:59 AM »

Quote from: Meso_z on October 13, 2011, 12:36:01 AM

Getbiggers are not "negative"....they just not pretend being "positive".

If you cant handle the board, gtfo.

Whatever dude I use to be a captain of honesty. I grew up knowing nothing but the truth. But these rejects around here go beyond the truth, they delude themselves into thinking the truth always has to be negative to protect thier vaginal ego's.

I mean seriously how many people around here show no interest in working out because it's all drugs or some other meaningless drivel, fact is if you work out consistently and eat right you will look far better than the average person.