when derek jeter is at the bar and your 240 pounds he in the back of his mind is jealous and wishes he looked like that. All that fame and money but when derek jeter looks in the mirror he's a fucking twink and hates his body and will never know what its like to look impressive at 240. When you walk in a room no woman knows you are a professional athlete unless they follow it or reckgonize you. When your huge EVERYONE will notice you. Brad pitt or the 260lb ripped guy who doesn't compete and drives a forklift for a living....i would choose the latter. You guys are the ones who I feel sorry for- you think money dictates happiness. Happiest time of my life was I had 7 dollars in my pocket spending time with a girl I was crazy for along with getting my arms to 18 inches for the first time. I feel sorry for you guys who let society dictate your feelings..
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First, Derek Jeter is never going to be at the bar getting jealous of some roided out dipshit because if he's not playing or practicing baseball, he's knee deep in fresh pussy somewhere in Trump Towers.
Because YOU are obsessed with size, you project it on everyone else. But, if your goal is to "impress people at the bar" have at it. I'm sure that's the key to happiness. I'll let you in on a little secret though - most people at the bar could give a flying shit about what somebody they don't know weighs or lifts.
Congrats to your friend though, that's cool. Still a tough road ahead for him, so I hope he does well.