What is the point you are trying to make? I can tell you for fact that not everyone with an interest in UFOs looks like a nerd.
Just wanted to support your point. Dude in the photo wears a hat that was made from the remains found at Roswell
Just kidding.
I respect your seeking for what really happened, but it's a murky matter. The material found at Roswell even gets mentioned by ol' Bill Cooper himself who claims he had ample connection within the military.
What I find very hard to believe is the extra terrestrials to be creatures of flesh and bone which matter got transported to us via advanced aeronautic stuff.
As I mentioned before I highly suspect these things to be a mental thing and not a physical one.
Nonetheless it's a powerful phenomenon which use to mesmerize, diffuse and entangle is quite astounding.