Well if you re interested in her figure if what she s talking about is real or if it's bullshits to create herself a fake attitude. Lot of people lie all day long about who they are to look and sound tougher than they actually are. If it's real she probably needs help and will probably be a shitty gf, but if you keep her on a leash. If it's bullshit, then break her and her lies then take over. Talk, find the truth.
Look at her family background too. Most people simply reproduce what their parents/grandparents did, especially if these same parents grandparents willingly advise them to walk in their steps. You can change someone just like you can change yourself, to some extent, if you know what has to be changed for the better. No girl is "insecurity" free, you have to shape them the way you want them to be. Of course, you have to change them and yourself for the better, following God's words, and making sure your own soul is clean, making sure you re not yourself following bad advises or influences from people of your own entourage that might in fact be evil.
Most girls or women have insecurities that once you figure them, you can control and cure.
How old are both of you?
Good post Uberman. I completely agree, especially the part with shaping women. Ive got to known this girl who has been in two long relationships where she both got beaten and abused, and even her ex has threatned her with a shotgun several times. In fact it just happened a couple of weeks ago. Her ex also forced her to use ephedrine in order to lose more weight along with hard training every day and bad diet which of course has made her way thinner than she should be. She past out on the mill one day and fractured a hole in her head in the process so she had to go to the hospital. Ive tried to do everything I can to get her back on the right path, and she has listened to everything Ive said. They are easy to influence, but at least I influence them in the right way in order to make their lifes better, not worse. Girl is cute and fine as hell, but this thing with her ex and the fact that she has a kid with him as well, makes me not want to keep in touch with her anymore. This fucking bastard went to jail for only 2 weeks after threatning her life with a gun for over 1 hour, swearing he would kill her and hes other ex when he gets back out. Well now hes out, and he is allready talking about having his kid back in 10 days, like wtf!? This drug abusive moron should be relived of all custody of his child and stay the hell away. Why he isnt serving years in prison after all the shit hes done is beyond my comprehension, but then again thats the beauty of living in NORWAY, the most gulliable and stupid country in the world where criminals can have all the fun they want, and nothing happens to them.
Now watch this bastard end up killing a girl I really liked for a moment, and then have to serve maybe 1-2 years max for it... Its only a matter of time, literally.
