Yes
Most women aren't worth the time regardless.
..that never let you pump her butthole?
also, tell them,even if its not true, that theyre the only one "who did this for me", this will make them think theres now a special kind of bond between you and her and she knows your deep sexual desires. to further reinforce that, you can tell her now that she knows, she has a safety advantage over others, for others wouldnt do some things.etcetc.
No I wouldn't.
I think Vince Basile would like to enter your behind with his meat sword.