You would cockblock yourself like that?... 
Yep. As one ages, the self-obstacles for getting laid grow greater.
I woudln't drive 3 hours to tap anything once. Overnight, maybe, but driving 3 hours for a quick tap is waste of time.
I wouldn't hit anything under 30 without checking ID.
I'd do everything possible to have proof of consent.
I would kiss/go down on ANY girl I haven't known for a month and get a feel for history and observed chance of outbreak. Kissing some girl you just met in the club is INSANE.
I would never go for quickie in HER location... mine is safe. I'm armed. I know i'm not about to get set up or robbed, etc.
When I check her ID, I then run to bathroom and text my buddy, my mom, my brother, whoever, with her last name and DOB to background/google check to ensure she's not acquitted for drugs, stabbing her ex, false rape charges, etc. One of the sweetest girls I know had accused THREE guys of raping her in the past year, all proven to be lies (two with video!) and she's still out in the bars being sweet picking up dudes.
Listen to this song and it'll all become clear to you. See how it ends up for the dude in the end
